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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Nobler Hino]
#23516721 - 08/06/16 06:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was bullied somewhat in Middle school, though not as badly as some kids.
I started playing guitar when I was around 13 years old, like obsessively. It was basically my entire life. I got really good at it. Like better than anyone I knew or had ever seen in person. That gave me an enormous amount of self-confidence and even kids who bullied me thought I was cool because they knew I was just really good at the guitar. So I was sort of friends with a lot of the "cool" kids, and also sort of friends with the "uncool" kids, because the 'uncool' kids were real, honest people. I didn't let the bully kids mess with the uncool kids though. They used to actually lock kids in lockers in my middle-school.
Something about me gaining self-worth from being really good at music would just make me feel like, whenever I would run into a kid bullying another kid, "Look. I don't care if you have bigger muscles than me and play football. If you mess with those kids I will fuck you up. It will happen." So that was cool. Nobody fucked with me or my friends.
I moved to Birmingham, AL for my last two years of high school and there were basically no cliques or seperated groups of friends at all. There were absolutely no fights and literally everybody was friends with everybody else. It was like a weird little friendly utopia school. It was almost too good. Almost made me want to make some shit happen or fight with someone. But I never did, lol.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: nooneman] 2
#23516723 - 08/06/16 06:22 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was bullied from elementary to senior year of high school. In elementary and middle school I would stand up for myself and fight for kids who were bullied. Little miss white knight. So in a sense I would be a bully to kids who bullied. Bc I could get really mean if they were a huge dick.
I would get into alot of fights with girls and guys over things thru school. The last time was this kid who suckered punched my brother in the face. I was 18 and he was 16 and my guy friend had to pull me off of him. I'm sure I didn't hurt him that bad tho. I had to be taken away by police but there were no charges against me bc it was stupid on the kids part and he recognized it.
One of my favorite friends in elementary school was this kid who was in a bad fire and had burns all over his body. People would make fun of him and he was cripplingly shy and would tear up about it. I remember him being one of the first people I kissed in front of the other kids and held his hand often. I had an Uber crush on him bc he was so sweet. We would purposefully be excluded from playing dumb kid games like pretend power Rangers so we just did our own thing.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: pachoo] 1
#23516732 - 08/06/16 06:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully for about two weeks, and I only targeted one kid. Oddly enough, the kid was my friend, and I'm not really sure why I started doing it. One day we got in a fight when the kid stood up for himself. After the fight I realized how shitty bullying made me feel, and so I stopped it there. I'm glad it didn't turn into something bigger. That seems like a really shitty path to follow.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: mctaveesh]
#23516742 - 08/06/16 06:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Middle school I was a bully but only on the kids nerdier then my group because you had to be a real outcast to be in my group and worse to not be . Then I beat up drug dealers that sold fake drugs or just drugs that cut in to my buisiness and I've been a peaceful passivist since age 17 or so. But I can fight . It's so much easier to apologize to people for not doing anything wrong then to beat up stupid people. Its only when I feel threatened which is really never
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#23516748 - 08/06/16 06:34 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
I moved to Birmingham, AL for my last two years of high school and there were basically no cliques or seperated groups of friends at all. There were absolutely no fights and literally everybody was friends with everybody else. It was like a weird little friendly utopia school. It was almost too good. Almost made me want to make some shit happen or fight with someone. But I never did, lol.
yea i went to a small charter school for a few years of high school similar to this so in those years shit was chill
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: ergoticmandala]
#23516833 - 08/06/16 07:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I guess i was picked on sometimes but anytime i was, id dish it right back
most people knew that if they really started something with me, id probly win. i was bigger than most kids in high school and people knew i played sports and could really dish it out
one time a kid in middle school checked me from behind in gym class and i didnt see it coming at all and fell over and pretty much everyone saw it. this kid was a loser and basically the biggest kid in class so right when i got a chance i hit him back and laid him out. like totally uncalled for on my part but i needed revenge. i was keeping it way too real
it was the only time i ever got kicked outta class in middle school
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: LSDeez]
#23517048 - 08/06/16 08:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Grew up in England, went to a military type school. There was lots of physicAL fighting, I bullied the weaker kids every day and i also got bullied by the stronger kids.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517089 - 08/06/16 09:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yea, I bullied the bullies.
I.E.- Other athletes
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517149 - 08/06/16 09:34 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't think I ever bullied anybody, at least not in highschool, who knows what I did in elementary ha
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Ezuma]
#23517288 - 08/06/16 10:33 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I would fuck with people I thought were dumb to get my laughs but whether or not they knew I'll never know.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Soluminia]
#23517393 - 08/06/16 11:16 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bullied a couple kids, but it was a group thing. I was friend with a couple pretty bad bullies, who did way worst then me. The punk/stoner gang. One of my friend would punch rejected in the middle of the classroom for like looking at him shit like that
For my part I wasn't that bad I remember once I threw a hot pocket on a kid face sitting at the rejected table in the cafeteria, things like that
There is one dude in particular we basicly scare him for life, this one it's weird cause he was our "friend" But there is nothing we didn't do to this kid. We would always squat his moms house to smoke weed and chill and some friends would go in the bathroom and piss everywhere, on the walls in the bathtub, then an other friend would come in and do the same, We would spit in his beer. Once we told him we were gonna go chill on the roof, he went first and we took the ladder and left him there for like 3hrs.
There is like 40 other storys like that poor kid. After hs He disappeared for like 4-5 yrs ,saw him recently, he was pretty messed up
I sure regret it today, but I really couldn't do much, plus I was really rarely the initiator.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517418 - 08/06/16 11:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was never a bully, my school years I wasn't not popular, or popular, I just was, nice to everyone and real quiet.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Lucis]
#23517576 - 08/07/16 01:08 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Got bullied when I was England by my first class (class = grade in England) teacher. Her name was Mrs. Smith. She would get the kids in on it as well, I had a lot of untreated behavioral problems then, lots of acting out and shit way above what normal kids had. One time i remember making one of those fish fases, where you suck in the sides of your cheeks, and she put me on the spot and got the kids to laugh at me for making 'kiss faces'
never fit in during middleschool. one time this kid got up in my face saying "you gonna say shit now?" over and over, don't know why, and i pushed him off and walked the other way, quickly being knocked on the ground by the back of my head and then pummeled and kicked by ten other students. there was another kid that would always fuck with me and get others to as well during those couple of years. too embarrassed to note a particular instance.
highschool was more or less the same, no fights that really stand out but i never fit in anywhere, i was just kind of a tumbleweed that drifted from social group to social group, i didn't really belong anywhere and still don't.
my neighbor down the street was a friend of mine for a while till i completely stopped trusting him. him and other kids would knock on my door and run like hell. one time i caught them doing it and they acted like nothing happened, i was always the weird kid to most people i met.
I don't really like people. recently i've been cutting a lot of ties with people in my town, i only have a couple people i really talk to around here anymore, one's a shroomerite that got me onto the site. there is a couple other social groups but they are spread out and not in my town, and I don't feel like i really fit in there either.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante]
#23517579 - 08/07/16 01:10 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I learned in middle school that bullies won't fuck with you if you stand up for yourself against them the first time they try and mess with you. They respect that and find easier targets. Aside from a few instances where said bullies wanted to me to team up and throw basketballs and dodgeballs at people in PE when coach wasn't around, I didn't really partake in bullying.
There was another time in 7th grade where I befriended a loner kid who didn't have many friends. I tried to be his friend when no one else would. I mean, this kid ate lunch in the bathroom stalls by himself because he was that bullied/outcast and I thought that must suck so I wanted to be nice. We hung out at each others' houses, played video games, etc. for like almost an entire school year and believe me--I was his only friend and never did him wrong at all. But one day out of nowhere he turned into a complete asshole to me. Like, telling me to fuck off and all sorts of shit totally unprovoked. I had never done anything but be this guy's (only) friend and a good one at that. He kept this act up and I realized why no one liked him. After I finally talked to him on the phone, he went off about how much he hates me and I'm like WTF did I do to you man, thought we were friends, etc. The next day I went to a lunch table of known bullies--one of which I'd encountered earlier that year and almost fought before getting broken up by the principle, who then later shook my hand and said he respected me for that--and convinced them all that we should give this once-friend-turned-asshole a swirly in the bathroom at lunch. So we did. Years later the asshole kid apparently went around and vandalized the fuck out of peoples' cars in high school who'd done him wrong all those years ago even though he went to school in a totally different district. He never got me though.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: abltsandwich]
#23517594 - 08/07/16 01:14 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i heard a story like that in my town. they called him "whiffle bat kid" because he vandalized a bunch of people's cars, probably pissed off from previous social abuse.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: 404] 1
#23517625 - 08/07/16 01:42 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a bully as a kid. 
It's honestly one of the things I feel the worst about in my life. I was like 6'0 230 hell on wheels as a 12-year old and had a real nasty temper. I was a target for a lot of abuse which turned me into a really wild and violent kid. My temper was out of control then and I could flip on a dime. When you're that size that young with the brain and mouth I had, no one is going to tell you shit but every male peer is going to try to fight you at some point.
Strangely enough, I credit doing mushrooms for the first time for being the thing that really helped get me on a better path and take some of that intense anger away when I was a kid.
I really try to treat people well now and not have negative energy in me or around me. But I can still get into that aggressive bully mode when dealing with assholes who are asking for it but it's super rare.
That said, I live with the guilt of being a bully to people who didn't deserve it every day.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: StrandedVoyager]
#23517633 - 08/07/16 01:44 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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StrandedVoyager said:
Strangely enough, I credit doing mushrooms for the first time for being the thing that really helped get me on a better path and take some of that intense anger away when I was a kid.
It was Buddhism which started to turn me around
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Asante] 1
#23517826 - 08/07/16 04:58 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was a gay looking boy
I was bullied violently for a few long years.. And hen I carried myself poorly and anxiously
Nowadays a bully n I would be fighting, As I carry myself with much more pride nowadays
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: SunnyD]
#23518102 - 08/07/16 08:45 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I bullied a bully in high school. Does that qualify?
This takes place in high school journalism.
I'm probaly around 5'8"-10" and 100 lbs at the time so I'm as scrawny as it gets. This kid was maybe 6' at the time and 190-210lbs (ish) and he was an asshole to everyone he could be.
But he was stupid as shit and all talk so i called his ass out for it. He said something stupid in front of the class (basically he spent 5 minutes talking about how different stations have different gas prices right down the street, he had notes of each gas station's prices from the day before, two of them changed mid day and the rest stayed but all varied)
So he exolains this for five minutes and when he's done i ask him to repeat it so everyone can hear.
Now everybody's listening. After he finishes i say
"So you think we should write an article on the fact that different gas stations have different potential? Damn, i wish i thought of that, that's some front page shit, i can see it now "EXTRA EXTRA READ ALL ABOUT IT, GAS STATIONS CHANGE THEIR PRICES"
He says "Dude, what the fuck is your problem?"
"It's a stupid idea man, is that really the best you can come up with?"
"Dude i could snap you in half like a fucking twig if i wanted too, if teacher weren't in here i totally would"
"You know, i belive you could, hell i hope you could, im pretty fucking not delusional, so i won't pick any fights, but i don't think your gonna do shit about it"
"DUDE, AS SOON AS WE STEP OUT IN THE HALL YOU ARE DEAD"
"THEN FUCKING DO IT, QUIT BEING A PUSSY AND DO IT NOW, hell the teacher isn't gonna stop you (the whole year we fucked with and disrupted the class so much my friend and I, she hated us). Even if you wait for her to leave it's not like it changes whether or not you get caught, either it's gonna happen or not and i bet it's the second option"
"Ho ho, just you wait dude, i am going to crush you into a paste when we leave the classroom"
"AND I AIN'T STOPPING YOU, I'm saying you won't because i already know how this plays out"
I never got my ass kicked and ripped on him the same way for the rest of high school. He works at a gas station now that i pop in sometimes. I see him for the first time in like 3 years a few weeks ago and he's laughing with one of the other cashiers about how we used to hate each other's guts, but we're best buds now. The first i see him in years, and somehow we're best buds.
Anyway i went along with it because i really do feel like kind of an asshole even though he picked on kids regularly, also idgaf who or what you are, bringing past beef to the place someone works at in front of their coworkers is never cool to do. So we are best buds now.
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Re: OK. Spill the beans. Which ones of you were bullies in school? [Re: Shroomism]
#23518188 - 08/07/16 09:23 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomism said: I was a bully destroyer.
Me too man. I go vigilante on their asses. The only fights ive ever been in have been defending someone being bullied. I was never bullied myself, but i have no tolerance for the shit.
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