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How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting
#23514610 - 08/05/16 10:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shit I'm so bad at this. I'm 25 and have it made, but my move making skill is level 0.
I've missed out on more pussy than I'm comfortable sharing because I failed to 'make a move'.
The few girlfriends I've had were brave or determined enough to do the initial work for me.
Now I have a cool chick who is literally not going to do any of that work for me and is waiting, and becoming impatient. Shes giving me those impatient signs for sure.
Whats a conversation or game... Or something I can strike up with her that will get us physically closer and touchy feely? She comes over between her classes and stuff and we always just end up hanging and smoking laughing but never physically close yet (except for hi and goodbye hugs) and she's clearly waiting. Theres too much eye contactyness, I can see her staring in my peripheral vision when I'm not looking at her, she always invites herself over and drives a long way to see me, like 25 min each way.
I wont "steal kisses", just not happening. I've successfully initiated make out sessios before but it was easy cause we were already all touchy feely somehow.. it's that part that Im so bad at getting to.
What is the simple solution!?
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23514679 - 08/05/16 11:09 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I have absolutely NO idea how you could possibly fuck this up. Stop thinking. Get in the moment. Enjoy.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop] 2
#23514853 - 08/06/16 01:02 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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goop said:
I wont "steal kisses", just not happening.
Retitle thread to: how can I make a move, without making a move?
Maybe it would be easier for you when greeting her? Go in for a hug, when you're pulling back - stay close and keep your hands on her hips, make eye contact, smile, go back in for the kiss.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Repertoire89]
#23514914 - 08/06/16 01:47 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You gotta just go for it. Women want you to act like more of a man than them. So as the man you need to go for what you want and just kiss her! You need to make a move asap before she loses interest because my guess is right now she sees you as insecure and lacking confidence so your time is ticking.
It's easy for me to say this because I am not in the situation, but I do know from personal experience that it's not easy to make a move, even when you are sure she wants it. I think the risk of possible rejection is whats holding you back. So just set it in your mind that she 100% wants you to kiss her. When you look at her just imagine in your mind she said out loud "I want you to kiss me" and then just move in for the kiss.
From what you've said I think she will be very happy you finally did it and she might even come out with the age old "It's about damn time" line lol
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop] 1
#23515671 - 08/06/16 10:48 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i usually just say "wanna make out?" lol
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23516764 - 08/06/16 06:42 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Playful touching often leads to 'moments'. Eye contact in the 'moments' are key. Look at her lips.. look into her eyes to gauge her response, back down to the lips and go for it. How you can best go with playful touching comes down to you and the dynamic of what you two have right now. Most important thing is probably to stop over thinking it, things will flow pretty well.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: nuds]
#23516813 - 08/06/16 07:06 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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nuds said: Most important thing is probably to stop over thinking it
Bang. That's it, right there.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Sheekle]
#23517564 - 08/07/16 01:02 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You already have her on your territory, and she seems comfortable enough to self invite herself. Get into a conversation about something sensitive and personal, like her childhood, parent relationships, school life....etc
This is usually my tactic. I get them to try and share something personal and then I try to relate with them by sharing something personal of mine. Usually this leaves you open to display something that says ''i am here for you'' and that's when you make the move*
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Sheekle said: i usually just say "wanna make out?" lol
This sometimes works too
*this is advice coming from a guy who hasn't had any female contact in over 6months so keep that in mind
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Jokeshopbeard] 1
#23519892 - 08/07/16 06:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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nuds said: Most important thing is probably to stop over thinking it
Bang. That's it, right there.
Oh, I forgot to add. Exude confidence. Confident people don't over think, confident people take action.
And if there's one thing I've noticed about humans over the years, most of us are easily swayed by confident people. If you ain't got it by nature, build it and learn it.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23520301 - 08/07/16 08:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rosen_Rot said: You already have her on your territory, and she seems comfortable enough to self invite herself. Get into a conversation about something sensitive and personal, like her childhood, parent relationships, school life....etc
This is usually my tactic. I get them to try and share something personal and then I try to relate with them by sharing something personal of mine. Usually this leaves you open to display something that says ''i am here for you'' and that's when you make the move*
*this is advice coming from a guy who hasn't had any female contact in over 6months so keep that in mind
It sounds like you're describing how to bait women and pretend to care for their emotional well being to satisfy selfish desires.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: sudly]
#23520727 - 08/07/16 11:29 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not really and that is not what I meant.
For me, at least, it's the only way I can connect with someone or at least feel like we're on the same page by sharing something personal. I've been through abuse and the whole 9 yards, going on that level will give me an understanding of my partner and also give them an idea of who I am too. I like finding partners that are as damaged as me cause at least they will be able to understand me and I them
I find it a lot easier on this level, there are no games, no buts, no ifs, no whys, just a reminder that we are all human and we are all on the same level, weak, fragile, all wanting to love and be loved
That's just me though 
I am not a pick up artist, I never baited women and have had long term relationships all my life cause that is what I am after.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: sudly]
#23521136 - 08/08/16 04:49 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot] 1
#23524503 - 08/09/16 10:25 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fuck man I get rejected all the time. OK have a fantastic day. A pleasure I'm sure.
It's all an numbers game. Doesn't matter if 99 say no I only need one to say yes. 
You got a pair of balls between those legs op. Sheesh.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Enjoywho]
#23524954 - 08/09/16 01:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: Fuck man I get rejected all the time. OK have a fantastic day. A pleasure I'm sure.
It's all an numbers game. Doesn't matter if 99 say no I only need one to say yes. 
You got a pair of balls between those legs op. Sheesh.
I love this attitude! Although it isn't easy to go in facing rejection so easily. I'm sure you had to build up slowly right?
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: FruitOfLife]
#23525032 - 08/09/16 02:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sure confidence is something you earn not God given.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Enjoywho]
#23525379 - 08/09/16 04:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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For me its more that I give up before it even started 
Its true though, you can literally just go to every girl you meet and directly say ''wanna fuck'', someone is bound to say yes
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23526977 - 08/10/16 02:56 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just whip out your dick, slap her in the face with it, and say "so you tryna fuck or nah?"
   
No, but in all seriousness, watch a movie with her and get close to her after you grab the remote or whatever you use. Sit next to her from the start. Just put your arm around her like it is all natural. After 20-30 minutes in ask if she wants to lay down. Just cuddle with her. Assuming you are spooning, if she turns around at any point, do what another poster said (look at her in the eyes, back down at her lips, etc.). Get closer when you're face to face and go in for the kiss. Don't rush this but don't puss out either.
If she doesn't turn around, wait until the end of the night. Give her a hug and hold her closer after you have hugged and kind of try to make the eye contact. If she looks back and you have that moment of looking into each other's eyes and lips while you hold her close, go in for the kill.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: big_scrappy97]
#23527143 - 08/10/16 04:28 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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There's always www.reddit.com/r/seduction
It's a bit of a shitshow over there sometimes but there are a lot of guys willing to give advice. There are some good books worth a read too, Models by Mark Manson is excellent for helping learn to be confident and get girls without all the pickup artist bullshit.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: big_scrappy97]
#23527654 - 08/10/16 09:06 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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big_scrappy97 said: Just whip out your dick, slap her in the face with it, and say "so you tryna fuck or nah?"
   
No, but in all seriousness, watch a movie with her and get close to her after you grab the remote or whatever you use. Sit next to her from the start. Just put your arm around her like it is all natural. After 20-30 minutes in ask if she wants to lay down. Just cuddle with her. Assuming you are spooning, if she turns around at any point, do what another poster said (look at her in the eyes, back down at her lips, etc.). Get closer when you're face to face and go in for the kiss. Don't rush this but don't puss out either.
If she doesn't turn around, wait until the end of the night. Give her a hug and hold her closer after you have hugged and kind of try to make the eye contact. If she looks back and you have that moment of looking into each other's eyes and lips while you hold her close, go in for the kill.
Good luck!
Nah you gotta whip your dick out and put it on her shoulder. If she puts it in her mouth it was meant to be.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Enjoywho]
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Nah you gotta whip your dick out and put it on her shoulder. If she puts it in her mouth it was meant to be.
Nah I think slapping her in the face with it shows your alpha side. Bitches love alpha males.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23528468 - 08/10/16 02:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You need to relax. Drink some Kava tea together and do something like...
Read her palm
Give her a hand massage
Touch her shirt or pants and say you like them
Make the hug more personal my moving your hand, squeezing etc.
You got this! I believe in you!
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23528686 - 08/10/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anyone can give me advice on how to approach a chick at a party
There is a metal party next weekend, this chick is gonna be there which I'm kinda interested. Never talked to her. Saw her eyeing me a couple of times at this bar before. I've been out of the game for a while and I'm usually not the approaching type but I gotta do something or this dry spell is going to last for fucking ever
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23528731 - 08/10/16 04:28 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Read her palm
Touch her shirt or pants and say you like them

Those two work well ime
I also have done a little teasing where you ask her "Are your hands bigger than mine? What?" and then press them together to measure and then you tell her she's cheating and not to slide her hand up, then compliment her hands blah blah blah. The teasing flirt game. Good fun.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
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Rosen_Rot said: Anyone can give me advice on how to approach a chick at a party
There is a metal party next weekend, this chick is gonna be there which I'm kinda interested. Never talked to her. Saw her eyeing me a couple of times at this bar before. I've been out of the game for a while and I'm usually not the approaching type but I gotta do something or this dry spell is going to last for fucking ever
Before you even get a drink in your hand just go up to her and tell her that you have seen her at the bar a couple times and wanted to introduce yourself because she looks like a cool chick. Helps to get that out of the way when you are clear headed. Hesitation will get the "overthink it" gears turning in your head. Then say you're on your way to grab a drink and she is welcome to join you. If she goes good, if not at least you laid the foundation for later. Have a couple current event topics to throw out or a good story to tell if you get stuck in an awkward silence from being out of the game for so long.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Starstepper]
#23528810 - 08/10/16 04:51 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm pretty sure it will be like riding a bicycle, you don't forget I'm good with conversations and I like to ask a lot of questions and take interest. It's just that initial ''Hey I've seen ya around, my name is whatever, what's yours'' I overthink a lot and way too easily so that will fuck me up. I was hoping the drinking would make me not give much of a fuck but yea it's probably better if I do it clear headed
Isn't that kinda cheesey though, offering a girl a drink when I just introduced myself
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23528853 - 08/10/16 05:06 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Metal and punk shows, go for the fucking boots.
Walk past her, take a double, look at dem boots then to her eyes and Say something like "nice boots...whats your name"...etc.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23528858 - 08/10/16 05:09 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'll compliment her hair as a starter lol She has shaved hair and for some reason I like that in a chick, her eyes are also fucking gorgeous
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23528869 - 08/10/16 05:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I never said offer her a drink. I meant tell you are getting one for yourself with or without her and she can roll if she wants to. If that seems too cheesy go with a magic trick.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Starstepper]
#23528875 - 08/10/16 05:17 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My bad and gotcha Thank you for tips man I appreciate it
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23528923 - 08/10/16 05:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Girls with shaved heads 
Tell her she looks like Sinead O'Connor, then talk to her how good she is live, invite her back to your place to show her this live video..then start touching her hands.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
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Touch her hands my ass, if she's coming back to mine I'm grabbing her and throwing her on the bed. If I manage to get her round to mine than I'll have super man confidence cause that hasn't happened in a while 
Fuck she kinda looks like her, lips and everything, maybe a smaller nose
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
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Just make sure to update us on what happens.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23529999 - 08/11/16 12:42 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Grateful Dead said: You need to relax. Drink some Kava tea together and do something like...
Read her palm
Give her a hand massage
Touch her shirt or pants and say you like them
Make the hug more personal my moving your hand, squeezing etc.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23530117 - 08/11/16 02:27 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I feel pressured and nervous. What if I pussy out, which is a possibility
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23530515 - 08/11/16 07:39 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah man update us! Your natural instincts will kick in. I have a feeling any tips we give might just end up being little bonuses that kick in.
I don't have any metal chick experience though so GD might be the best advisor for this one.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23530569 - 08/11/16 07:59 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rosen_Rot said: I feel pressured and nervous. What if I pussy out, which is a possibility 
Then stop talking about it, and do it.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead] 1
#23531578 - 08/11/16 01:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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One of my moves is to put on some good song everyone and their mother knows, start shaking my hips n reach out to take her hand for an impromptu living room dance party. A few spins and then you're going in for the kiss
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: TheMovement]
#23532047 - 08/11/16 04:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23532282 - 08/11/16 05:37 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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goop said: Shit I'm so bad at this. I'm 25 and have it made, but my move making skill is level 0.
I've missed out on more pussy than I'm comfortable sharing because I failed to 'make a move'.
The few girlfriends I've had were brave or determined enough to do the initial work for me.
Now I have a cool chick who is literally not going to do any of that work for me and is waiting, and becoming impatient. Shes giving me those impatient signs for sure.
Whats a conversation or game... Or something I can strike up with her that will get us physically closer and touchy feely? She comes over between her classes and stuff and we always just end up hanging and smoking laughing but never physically close yet (except for hi and goodbye hugs) and she's clearly waiting. Theres too much eye contactyness, I can see her staring in my peripheral vision when I'm not looking at her, she always invites herself over and drives a long way to see me, like 25 min each way.
I wont "steal kisses", just not happening. I've successfully initiated make out sessios before but it was easy cause we were already all touchy feely somehow.. it's that part that Im so bad at getting to.
What is the simple solution!?
You have to take a risk to sexually escalate the mood, if you don't 'pay to play' by taking a risk then you won't have a chance to succeed. The truth is that rejection happens a lot, but you also have to face the fact that it doesn't always happen.
If you've been having a good time with the chick and you find yourself in a situation where you're face to face, locked in eye contact and with some privacy, make a move and make out, either she's into it or she's not 
In the end there are two outcomes, you don't get rejected and have a good time, or you get a clear no and you move on taking lessons from your experience.
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Grateful Dead]
#23533479 - 08/12/16 01:15 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Grateful Dead said:
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Rosen_Rot said: I feel pressured and nervous. What if I pussy out, which is a possibility 
Then stop talking about it, and do it.
This guy keeps yelling at me inside my head
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23536115 - 08/12/16 08:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rosen_Rot said:
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Grateful Dead said:
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Rosen_Rot said: I feel pressured and nervous. What if I pussy out, which is a possibility 
Then stop talking about it, and do it.
This guy keeps yelling at me inside my head
I keep thinking of the guy from here
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=7fc_1391934490
Do it
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23540036 - 08/14/16 07:58 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: How to make movessss on chick's who are waiting [Re: goop]
#23540248 - 08/14/16 09:36 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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