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CosmicFool
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Choking during sex
#23514194 - 08/05/16 08:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thoughts? Opinions? Stories?
I've been seeing this new girl for a little while now and she's been hinting at it.
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goop


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Nuttin wrong with it if they don't die and they like it..
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whats this man saying?
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Lophosaurus
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I'm not into it and I wouldn't do it to someone who wanted it.
That girl is sending up a red flag
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CosmicFool
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Quote:
Lophosaurus said:
That girl is sending up a red flag
What's the reasoning there?
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Acaterpillar
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: CosmicFool] 1
#23514246 - 08/05/16 08:36 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's only a red flag if you prefer vanilla sex. I don't mind choking. It doesn't get me off, but lots of girls love it, and I like pleasing the person I'm intimate with. Just make sure to squeeze the sides of her neck and not her windpipe. You're trying to cut/impede blood flow to the brain, not suffocate them. For some girls, just putting your hand around their neck is enough.
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It's fucking great fun if you have a willing partner.
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Idk I dated a guy once who was into it who started testing those waters and I was cool with it so I didn't stop him - just things like putting his hand around my neck without squeezing and almost-rough sex, so one time when we were making out he just stopped abruptly and just flat out asked me if it was okay, and he literally went down like a check list of different kinks he had that he made sure I was okay with beforehand.
I don't like talking about my sex life to anyone other than whom I'm having sex with usually, but ehh I've had a couple of glasses of wine tonight and it was by far the most candid conversation I had about sex with a partner, which I thought was really cool and I didn't find the interruption in anyway a mood killer.
If I were you I'd just like..ask her if that's what she wants, bro
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Do it on the condition you can record it so there is no confusion when she goes to the police or dies.
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Quote:
Lophosaurus said: I'm not into it and I wouldn't do it to someone who wanted it.
That girl is sending up a red flag
yeah same, i wouldnt necessarily say its some big red flag tho
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Quote:
CosmicFool said:
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Lophosaurus said:
That girl is sending up a red flag
What's the reasoning there?
I guess its just a red flag for me because I'm not into violent sex. I would assume that someone who wants to get choked is an angry or disturbed person. I know not everyone is, but that is just the first impression I would get if a random person told me they were into that. And what if things get too heated and someone goes too far?
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CosmicFool
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pirate-blues said: If I were you I'd just like..ask her if that's what she wants, bro 
Already did, after the 2nd or 3rd time she joked about it I caught the hint. I'm 100% sure she's into it.
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nah lol. I'm like the least angry person I know . I know some ladies who are like really into that stuff(like I've seen the restraints in their homes somewhat accidentally ) - they're really down to earth and really just super open minded.Quote:
CosmicFool said:
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pirate-blues said: If I were you I'd just like..ask her if that's what she wants, bro 
Already did, after the 2nd or 3rd time she joked about it I caught the hint. I'm 100% sure she's into it.
lol yeah she probably is, then. A lot of girls like rough sex, I don't want to tell you to just go ahead and do it because I don't know her and maybe she thinks she likes it but she doesn't idk.
Whatever you do, just maintain verbal communication until you get to know her better and you figure out explicitly what she wants and doesn't want. She sounds like she's curious but shy.
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pirate-blues said: just maintain verbal communication
The key to great sex IMO.
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CosmicFool
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I get more of the vibe she wants me to take charge and do it without her holding my hand while I test the waters.
Biggest issue I have is my last relationship lasted 4 years, I knew how to make her cum. This new girl is great in bed but I feel lost on how to get her off and the choking thing is completely new to me.
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Choking and pulling hair is very much so about taking charge. Lot of girls love to be submissive in bed and just want you to dominate them.
Try new things without asking for her permission (within reason). Stuff like new positions, choking, pulling hair, slapping her ass, teasing her clit with your dick, etc.
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: CosmicFool] 4
#23514463 - 08/05/16 09:47 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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she's probably one of those people who wants u to murder her and get all necrophiliac on her corpse to satisfy her nd won't directly tell u so u need to try on ur own
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: Sheekle]
#23514581 - 08/05/16 10:33 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't eat meat
You'll never fuck like a bull
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: Buckthorn]
#23514637 - 08/05/16 10:54 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sometimes it amazes me how vanilla some people are.
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: SARAtonin]
#23514724 - 08/05/16 11:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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My ex liked that. Then one night i apparently hurt her and she said i scared her. Felt like a monster. Then she blocked me on all social media and disappeared only for me to find out she came to my work looking for me, 3 or 4 months later..
Moral of the story, have a safe word.
Also dont put your dick in crazy.
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Re: Choking during sex [Re: DpRwav]
#23514729 - 08/05/16 11:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Safe words are key for this kind of thing.
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