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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Masked]
#23515871 - 08/06/16 12:09 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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qman said: Most men don't care, it's a lot of females that don't want Transgenders in their bathroom, it's not even the true transsexuals that scare them, it's the crazy men taking advantage of the new leniency when it comes to men using the woman's restroom.
Exactly. I don't like where this is going. I don't want my 12 year old daughter in a situation where some creepy fuck is chatting her up in a bathroom because it's now politically correct for him to be in there.
Skeezes on either side of the gender fence WILL take advantage of co-ed bathroom time.
These crusades are getting fucking pathetic if you ask me. A generation of too many little self entitled whiners.
Whatever though, it's one of those things that's just out of my control. From an activist standpoint: damned if I do, damned if I don't
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Sophistic Radiance] 3
#23515886 - 08/06/16 12:14 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i don't have a problem with transgendering people using their gender-appropriate bathroom. but i don't really like sharing the bathroom with anyone. if our bathrooms were designed to be more private for everyone this argument would be far less relevant.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: rickpsfuckyou] 3
#23516059 - 08/06/16 01:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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rickpsfuckyou said: trans in the bathroom is gross
it does pose a safety hazard
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#23516616 - 08/06/16 05:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Visionary Tools said: And ffs, my boyfriend is trans him/herself

I see him as a guy. He sees himself as a girl. I mean, the issue is fucked, but it's not bullshit. I don't claim to understand what he thinks. I just love him.
I feel sorry for her. I hope she realizes she deserves better than you soon.
Well, then she's been through a lot of anxiety, anxiety which I've been though myself, and experienced. She has thanked me for coming out of her shell and being more comfortable. I accept he's not comfortable in his body.
And you know what, maybe there'll come a time when we part ways, or, woe betide, we stop being friends. I can't picture myself with anyone else. I just picture him, but happier, and me, happier to, laughing more. I love him. I appreciate that he can't reciprocate in the same way, but I'm not asking him to. We're friends. I just so happen to love him and no matter what changes he goes through, I'll still love him, because I'm not after what's inbetween his legs, but what's in his heart.
So I see him as masculine. Is that politically incorrect? Is that why you're heaping shit on me? You're welcome to get offended from a paragraph or two I've written expressing my confusion with the transgender phenomenon. You're not him, you're not me. You're not the 6+ years we've spent together, the intimacy we've shared, our first ever holiday abroad, the laughs we've had. Those moments of holding hands and looking into one anothers eyes and smiling, but not looking away.
Don't be so quick to judge. Just because I'm an insensitive prick who doesn't get it doesn't mean I don't have love and compassion for my fellow human being, even if I am hurting, a lot and feel like the world is trying to bury me in shit.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Visionary Tools] 1
#23516656 - 08/06/16 05:56 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I agree on this one radiance gets so damn trigger happy to call people transphobic and therefore label them as one sort of monster immediately without asking what the circumstances are. Your a cool person radiance but you are so sensitive about it you don't take anyone else's feelings or thoughts into consideration.
A teacher of mine said what's the first thing you notice when you meet someone and most said gender/race but I think that's way to presumptuous now and honestly I've always looked at people's eyes first not race not gender, eyes. If more people could think that way our world would be a better place.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Visionary Tools]
#23516669 - 08/06/16 06:02 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's a matter of respect... I don't doubt that you love her but speaking as somebody who is familiar with being in that position, it's very hurtful when the people you love won't respect your judgment of who you are. Since you love her, I hope that you will come around. I don't mean to come off as hypersensitive or hostile, but this is a really big deal.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#23516674 - 08/06/16 06:04 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I couldn't care less. Couldn't care less if a woman decided to use the men's room either for that matter, unless #2 was calling & they were monopolizing the stalls. I'm a guy though, and I can see where this would be more uncomfortable for the ladies.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Dark_Star] 1
#23518987 - 08/07/16 01:40 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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The fucking perverts are the nambla motherfuckers who go to the restrooms with the troughs and urinals with no partitions/walls and look at other guys/kids penises when they pee, they even have stealth cams now that they can record one with. Make all the restroom private stalls and then there is no issue. I have paruresis sometimes anyway, it sucks!
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23519002 - 08/07/16 01:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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the issue for me is that people take this mental disorder seriously Transgenders, what were you born with? Thats your gender and bathroom, everything else is elaborate make believe because you are too unstable to accept reality. The surgery should not be condoned by serious medical professionals, and the hormones they perscribe give cancer.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23519013 - 08/07/16 01:47 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: The fucking perverts are the nambla motherfuckers who go to the restrooms with the troughs and urinals with no partitions/walls and look at other guys/kids penises when they pee, they even have stealth cams now that they can record one with. Make all the restroom private stalls and then there is no issue. I have paruresis sometimes anyway, it sucks!
I didn't know about that word, but I get it too. Even if I could use urinals I wouldn't, for this reason.
I don't even want to think about bathroom perverts. I just don't think about it. I go into the bathroom and I pee and I wash my hands and I GTFO and if there's somebody spying on me when I do it, I'm not sure I'd even want to know about it. The potential trauma hardly seems worth it.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Asante]
#23519129 - 08/07/16 02:17 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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It might be a little weird to me and possibly slightly uncomfortable, but that's the price of existing in society with other people. As long as they don't try to touch my private parts, I fully support the rights of people to use whichever bathroom is more comfortable for them.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: SirShroomsAlott] 1
#23519134 - 08/07/16 02:18 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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SirShroomsAlott said: I don't really look at other people's genitals or really interact with anybody in a bathroom so idc
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#23519138 - 08/07/16 02:21 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: The fucking perverts are the nambla motherfuckers who go to the restrooms with the troughs and urinals with no partitions/walls and look at other guys/kids penises when they pee, they even have stealth cams now that they can record one with. Make all the restroom private stalls and then there is no issue. I have paruresis sometimes anyway, it sucks!
I didn't know about that word, but I get it too. Even if I could use urinals I wouldn't, for this reason.
I don't even want to think about bathroom perverts. I just don't think about it.
Yeah, as much as i like to pretend that what i ignore doesn't exist doesn't make it true in any way. Kinda like just because you think doesn't make you that thing.
I would love to live in a world where my wildest thoughts would become global policy and the world would bend to my will, but sadly i don't so i have to make due and just go along with it.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: LuSiD enthusiast]
#23519144 - 08/07/16 02:22 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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What an odd thing to say
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#23519152 - 08/07/16 02:24 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, just try not to think about it to much. It might hurt your feelings and we can't have that. If feelings are hurt though, you could always write a petition and try to get it made into a bill in congress though.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#23519153 - 08/07/16 02:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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we just need to slowly work into the standard of a third bathroom, and give the transexuals the baby changing table. Theyll change them alrihght
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: LuSiD enthusiast]
#23519158 - 08/07/16 02:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, just try not to think about it to much. It might hurt your feelings and we can't have that. If feelings are hurt though, you could always write a petition and try to get it made into a bill in congress though.
You're stupid
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: specialpeopleclub]
#23519160 - 08/07/16 02:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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specialpeopleclub said: we just need to slowly work into the standard of a third bathroom, and give the transexuals the baby changing table. Theyll change them alrihght
I hate all your posts but that made me go like
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23519162 - 08/07/16 02:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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tyrannicalrex said: The fucking perverts are the nambla motherfuckers who go to the restrooms with the troughs and urinals with no partitions/walls and look at other guys/kids penises when they pee, they even have stealth cams now that they can record one with. Make all the restroom private stalls and then there is no issue. I have paruresis sometimes anyway, it sucks!
Yeah bathrooms should just be designed with better privacy in the first place, just have the hand-washing area public and don't have gaps in the stalls and open it up to whoever. I hate those partition free urinals too, I usually can't go until everyone else leaves.
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Re: Transgenders in the bathroom! Is it an issue for you? [Re: psi]
#23519173 - 08/07/16 02:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, that's what should really happen. Just have all stalls. Hell, even try to make the wash area more private, why not. No one likes urinals except drunk people.
Bars can keep having urinals I guess just because of how much drunk people would fuck up the stalls. Women's bathrooms in bars must be nightmares.
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