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Fennario said: If a girl goes up and give a guy a random kiss, it's usually seen as sweet. If a guy does the same, he's a creep.
no, they call that sexual assault on the indictment
it's amazing that the ones with the privilege are the ones claiming they have none but the actual oppressed and discriminated against are the ones claimed to have all the privilege
Any court cases you can drag up on a biological female getting charged with sexual assault from a random kiss? Not like a female putting someone on the ground and slobbering all over them; but a normal, random, kiss. I just can't see a judge going through with a case like that wherein an average female (build, etc..) kisses an an average guy and would get sentenced for sexual assault.
Either way, thicker skin is needed almost universally, unless you actually were physically forced to kiss someone, or passed an STD, I don't see the damage in a random kiss. I would never go up to a stranger and kiss them, out of common respect, but a sexual assault charge seems excessive.
I was lying down with my eyes closed next to a girl, and she stole a kiss, is that sexual assault? There was no force or consent involved. I think I need to take a long shower, I feel dirty. .
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I love how the MRA's will accuse feminists of ignoring male rape with one breath and then trivialize male rape with the next. It's you guys again who are at the root of that problem.
Women do rape men. Rape doesn't have to take the form of forceful penetration.
However, I wouldn't call it an article of "female privilege" that woman-on-man rape goes underreported. Women do not benefit from it unless they belong in prison. Rather, I expect that many men who have been raped by a woman are so attached to their privilege that they would never compromise it by confessing their victimization by a member of the "subordinate" sex.
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Sophistic Radiance said: I love how the MRA's will accuse feminists of ignoring male rape with one breath and then trivialize male rape with the next.
Women do rape men. Rape doesn't have to take the form of forceful penetration.
However, I wouldn't call it an article of "female privilege" that woman-on-man rape goes underreported. Women do not benefit from it unless they belong in prison. Rather, I expect that men who have been raped by a woman are so attached to their privilege that they would never compromise it by confessing their victimization by a member of the "subordinate" sex.
I believe people are talking about male on male prison rape, not females raping males outside prison.
Who the hell believes there's a subordinate sex? Idiots, maybe... I see a strawman poking out from behind a corner, it's hiding behind the blanket title of "feminism".
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Lotta idiots out there.
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In my life I give females TONS of privilege. In fact I take my privilege and give it to the woman I'm with. My last gf said I constantly self sacrificed for her. I thought it was called being a gentleman but I realized it was more just catering to her every need in hopes of that getting her in the mood. It never did. It was sweet but not sexy.Turns out I don't need to put any effort in to get sex,I never even considered that a few years ago. Now I just have to say "let's fuck" basically.After this last chick I'm still trying to be a gentleman but I found out I don't have to bend over backwards for a woman. and Honestly most women probably don't want anyone bending over backwards for them because they're after all human.
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I dunno, woman love to be catered too unless it's not exactly what they desire. Men are this way also.
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Morel Guy]
#23512818 - 08/05/16 01:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think what it comes down to is some do some don't and it depends on if they can or want to cater to you.For the majority though if she/he can't keep up as far as reciprocating it becomes one person being super romantic and the other person feeling inadequate or overwhelmed. I think every woman likes a little romance but there is for sure a line of being too consistently nice and thoughtful. Not many women want constant romance and attention . After a few months of that it can ruin a relationship.
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This thread offends me as a vegan transgender atheist who vapes and crossfits 4 times a week and im also a male feminist as I identify myself as a pastafarian apache helicopter dog mega multi combo god of hyper death and if you dont agree with me. You're an ignorant arrogant globaphobic sexist lesbian 
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Mescalean]
#23512861 - 08/05/16 01:35 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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women do have some advantages over men that could be construed as privilege, however all balanced out I think it's ridiculous to say that the privileges of women are equal to those of men, or greater. Culturally women still have a lot to deal with, probably always will, and that's just how it is.
now stop being a whiny little bitch mescalean and find a new issue to complain about
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Ezuma] 1
#23512882 - 08/05/16 01:41 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You have to have exacts. You cant be all "well I got a rough idea of what it is. I think that isnt true." What do women have to face? Catcalling? Most of them would be offended if they stopped getting hit on. Pregnancy? Whoa is me. Kidney stones are far worse. Is it rape? We all face that. Domestic violence? Thats about 50/50 for both genders. Is it the gender gap in high powered jobs? Theres no laws or rules preventing them from participating. So wheres this oppression?
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I'd like to point out that kidney stones don't last 9 months... In my case they lasted 6 months though because I got kidney stones DURING pregnancy and they could do nothing about it but keep me comfortable... Meaning strong pain meds and making sure I didn't pass out every time I stood up.
Both genders have their "privileges", this is a pointless argument.
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#23514349 - 08/05/16 09:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I haven't really read any of the replies. But I do think there is definite female privilege as well as male privilege.
I don't like to go deep into it tho but recognize it is apparent in society based upon assumed roles of people who value the traditional sex roles.
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Mescalean] 2
#23514356 - 08/05/16 09:06 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Saw this and thought, why not ask the pub if they agree or not.
"1. Female privilege is being able to walk down the street at night without people crossing the street because they’re automatically afraid of you. 2. Female privilege is being able to approach someone and ask them out without being labeled “creepy.” 3. Female privilege is being able to get drunk and have sex without being considered a rapist. Female privilege is being able to engage in the same action as another person but be considered the innocent party by default.
LOL, some of these are laughable. Notice how most of these so-called "privileges" only exist because men are by default, usually the ones that commit violent crimes and rapes.
Seriously, it's a privilege to have people crossing the street next to you because they're not afraid of you? Isn't that a better privilege than being stalked or followed at night because you're seen as an easy target?
Perhaps if men didn't rape, rob, or kill people so often these 3 "privileges" wouldn't even exist.
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4. Female privilege is being able to turn on the TV and see yourself represented in a positive way. Female privilege is shows like King of Queens and Everybody Loves Raymond where women are portrayed as attractive, competent people while men are shown as ugly, lazy slobs.
Oh is that right? You mean portrayed in positive ways, like the Real Housewives of whatever shows, in pornography, and always being maids or something in cleaning product commercials?
Anyway, one could argue that a constantly positive role of women in media is actually harmful, especially to mothers. Mothers are always expected to be perfect. Do one thing wrong as a mom, and you're seen as a bad mom. Do one minor thing right as a dad, and you're seen as a hero awesome dad.
Part of this is because of the expectation that moms are supposed to be perfect. Moms are always supposed to be the ones to keep a perfectly clean house, and is supposed to be the gourmet chef, and the one that makes sure their kids go to school on time and go to all their appointments. But dads, they can keep their house unkempt and feed their kids Hot Pockets, and whatever, they're just being a typical dad. I would hardly call it a privilege to be held to such an impossibly high standard, and therefore chastised whenever you make a small error.
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7. Female privilege is not having to support a child financially for 18 years when you didn’t want to have it in the first place.
That's bull, women pay child support if they don't have primary custody.
And personally, I think whoever is stuck with the kid loses. You get off easy if you only pay child support. Child support is cheap AF and requires literally no work outside of delivering a paycheck. Court-ordered child support payments only average like $300 a month. It costs way more than that to raise a kid, not to mention all the work and shit. If you're complaining about forking over a couple hundred a month to raise your own spawn, I really can't help you there.
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8. Female privilege is never being told to “take it like a man” or “man up.”
No, instead women are told from childhood "he teases you or bullies you or hits you because he likes you," what kind of nonsense is that?
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9. Female privilege is knowing that people would take it as a gravely serious issue if someone raped you. Female privilege is being able to laugh at a “prison rape” joke.
Because only women laugh at prison jokes? Most of the time comedians on stage telling prison jokes are men. Perhaps if your problem is with prison jokes, you ought to take it up with the men perpetuating these kind of jokes.
Second, nobody takes them seriously, in fact people often question rape victim's motives and ask them whether they are lying.
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13. Female privilege is not having to take your career seriously because you can depend on marrying someone who makes more money than you do. Female privilege is being able to be a “stay at home mom” and not seem like a loser.
Ahahahhaa.... that my friends, is called "beauty" and "youth" privilege. Ain't no way in hell an ugly woman can depend on this.
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14. Female privilege is being able to cry your way out of a speeding ticket.
This is a myth, that never actually happens IRL. In fact, IME cops hate weak people, especially women, who cry. It's no surprise, cops are often misogynists, who believe women are always trying to manipulate men by crying.
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15. Female privilege is being favored by teachers in elementary, middle and high school. Female privilege is graduating high school more often, being accepted to more colleges, and generally being encouraged and supported along the way.
If that is the case, then explain why boys start doing better than girls in high school?
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16. Female privilege being able to have an opinion without someone tell you you’re just “a butthurt fedora-wearing neckbeard who can’t get any.”
No, instead we're called "bitches" if we voice any opinion especially with any assertion or aggression. Oh, and much like in this thread here, from the very OP himself, any time we make an argument we're told we're "illogical" or "emotion-based." Way to go showing your male privilege, OP. 
Look, I'll acknowledge the fact that female privilege exists in certain aspects--like for example, the fact that police usually don't tend to see us as criminals, and therefore usually don't profile us or target us, unless it looks like we're street prostitutes or something. But to say that these above quoted statements are "privileges" is absurd.
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Crystal G]
#23514383 - 08/05/16 09:15 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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You should make an opposite list where the negatives of females are changed to male, Crystal.
Except I have cried out of a speeding ticket. I have been pulled over 12 times and I only got one ticket, only once did I cry though. My mother said it is because I look absolutely frazzled and innocent. She's never gotten off that way.
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: pachoo] 2
#23514394 - 08/05/16 09:17 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was thinking of starting a thread earlier so we could all chip into a list of 'male' & 'female' privileges. Shroomy style.
But then I got lost chatting to a homeless guy in the city and playing with his dog and I was so overwhelmed with compassion I completely forgot about it by the time I got back to work...
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: Crystal G] 1
#23514395 - 08/05/16 09:18 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Female privilege? [Re: pachoo]
#23514423 - 08/05/16 09:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I actually know of 2 guys that were raped by the same girl.
One of them was at a small house party and she dragged him into a side room and since he's a small guy and she's a bigger girl he couldn't really get away. He was saying "NO!!" but was wasted. The people in the room just laughed because everyone was messed up and it seemed comical(female rape privilege?). IDK if she fucked him or sucked him or the details I just know that after he came out of the room and said "I did not want that to happen."
It's well known among the group of people. She didn't think she raped one of them, and the other one she denied messing with altogether but both of them said she took advantage of them in altered states.
The girl was recently called out about it and she is embarrassed because she has a bit of a drinking problem and doesn't really remember it. She thinks everybody hates her but they don't. They just called her out when she tried to make a different guy feel guilty for being a little too grabby with a different girl at a recent party.
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That is awful and definitely happens, even though extremely less frequently than male rape.
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