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Rebelutionsssss
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anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness 1
#23501717 - 08/02/16 12:24 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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seems like all good i try to do in the world gets taken of advantage of and used. is there no fucking humanity and love anymore in this world? im honesty shocked when people do the right thing these days.... like returning a wallet or helping someone thats obviously in need. becoming more and more like were separated instead of one group of people trying to get by. just making me sad today, whats everyones opinion?
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ReposadoXochipilli
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23501729 - 08/02/16 12:29 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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its part of maturing, learning when people are not worth the effort.
i agree there is almost a disbelief when people do the right thing and go out of their way because we are so calloused towards anything suffering that is not our own.
just have to keep on keeping on and not let it stop you from doing it when it is the right situation, just can't be every situation.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23501730 - 08/02/16 12:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah, this happens to me a lot I like to give people the benefit of the doubt and offer a helping hand when they're in need, and though some people respect it, many others take advantage of it and walk all over me. People are shitty.
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Rebelutionsssss
Mdmazing



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like is it so fucking hard to see that you should help someone in need instead of seeing them as prey because they're down? i believe in karma so im going to continue on my path. i feel everyone should treat others how they would want to be
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impatientguy
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23501752 - 08/02/16 12:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Agreed.
It's easier to be nice and care than it is to not give a shit for me.
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goop


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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: impatientguy]
#23501803 - 08/02/16 12:53 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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What did you do? Lol. It's possible that you paved their way to walk over you.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23502069 - 08/02/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Unfortunately, I do notice the tendency in many people to take advantage of others.. "Others" sometimes includes me. I don't wanna shut people out, but I've been growing ever more jaded
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: The5thBeatle]
#23502090 - 08/02/16 02:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Knowing what work means to people. It is work to help people. Just interacting is work. I used to get taken advantage of a lot, then I directed my anger into awareness. Still working on elevating but gotta give up on people.
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Seriously_trippin
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: goop]
#23502426 - 08/02/16 04:09 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yes reb. All my life. My friends are very protective of me because throughout my life . To give an example. I met a friend of my friends one day and he asked if he could crash on the couch. For 2 weeks he ate all my food and lived there. And that was my parents house . So my friends found out what was happening and kind of yelled at him for taking all this food from me and stuff. Basically a group of 4 friends convinced him to leave because I would NOT kick him out. As long as I had the house to myself. There's dozens more stories like that.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#23502427 - 08/02/16 04:11 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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i think one requirement for something to be considered kindness is for someone somewhere to take advantage of it. the ability to be taken advantage of is what classifies something as kindness.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23502455 - 08/02/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Nope but most people are pretty decent in these parts, and I'm a good judge of character besides
also there's a world of difference between being kind and being a doormat
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Ezuma]
#23502519 - 08/02/16 04:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah sometimes. But I put too much of myself out there since I have trouble with regular social interaction. At least I'm a good host I guess... don't let it get you down OP and definitely never let anyone walk on you even if it's hot pussy.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23502989 - 08/02/16 06:54 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its happened to me a bit in my life, yes.
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bass head
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Connoisseur]
#23503094 - 08/02/16 07:23 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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everything in this universe serves a purpose. even a doormat. some doormats are more ok with that than others, but it takes nothing away from their ability to be a doormat. meaning your comfort level with what you are has no impact on how much you are like that... historically someone that's a doormat is more likely to make a statement like "it's not ok to be a doormat"... meaning they're less ok with what they are than just not being ok with others being that. like when's the last time you passed over a rug and thought "it's not ok that you're a rug. it's not ok that people walk on you"... not likely. i would hope. i hope this reaches someone that's a doormat and hasn't accepted it yet. acceptance can transform that which is and always will be.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: bass head]
#23503107 - 08/02/16 07:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
bass head said: everything in this universe serves a purpose. even a doormat. some doormats are more ok with that than others, but it takes nothing away from their ability to be a doormat. meaning your comfort level with what you are has no impact on how much you are like that... historically someone that's a doormat is more likely to make a statement like "it's not ok to be a doormat"... meaning they're less ok with what they are than just not being ok with others being that. like when the last time you passed over a rug and thought "it's not ok that you're a rug. it's not ok that people walk on you"... not likely. i would hope. i hope this reaches someone that's a doormat and hasn't accepted it yet. acceptance can transform that which is and always will be.
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bass head
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: PatrickKn]
#23503116 - 08/02/16 07:30 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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decent movie lol
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impatientguy
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: bass head]
#23503118 - 08/02/16 07:32 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Good books too
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Great Scott
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23503148 - 08/02/16 07:43 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Read the Good Book. It's all in there.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Great Scott] 1
#23503332 - 08/02/16 08:38 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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No but people mistake my weakness for kindness all the time. Mother fuckers.
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Re: anyone ever get their kindness taken for weakness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23503379 - 08/02/16 08:49 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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All the time, man. All the time. Actually my job has really taught me a lot about how to handle stuff like this. It used to happen all the time, but now I know how to handle situations like that much better.
When it happens now, they immediately know they've made a huge mistake
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