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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
    #23494810 - 07/31/16 07:30 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Your opinions about what constitutes a healthy relationship are not valid...




What, so you assume that all my relationships were exactly the same? I know what a healthy relationship is. I've been in many of them. Many of them sweet, kind, and genuine guys. Both of us never once raised our voice, even when we were arguing.

But yeah, I am also impulsive, and I do like to walk down the road that nobody else would dare walk down. My tendency for compulsion and a YOLO lifestyle is what makes me special. Sure, it might not turn out great, but in that sadness you also find beauty, as well as yourself.

I guess you'd just have to be an artist to understand.




I honestly don't believe you've ever been in a healthy relationship, at least not for any longer than a few weeks.  Either way you are free to have your own opinion, I see the issue differently than you do.  If a guy had a profile on an online dating site with a post about how his ex-gf got pregnant with his child and left him most people would agree that would be fucked.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
    #23494814 - 07/31/16 07:32 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

I was in two unhealthy relationships both spanning 3 years to 4 years. Its funny how you dont realize how people treat you until your'e out of that situation. I feel so stupid for staying with them but I guess when you love someone its easy to mask the negatives.. Sorry ahha alittle twisted and rambling.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
    #23494837 - 07/31/16 07:43 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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I honestly don't believe you've ever been in a healthy relationship, at least not for any longer than a few weeks.  Either way you are free to have your own opinion, I see the issue differently than you do.  If a guy had a profile on an online dating site with a post about how his ex-gf got pregnant with his child and left him most people would agree that would be fucked.




Believe it or not my longest relationship lasted 5 years. That's more committment than most young 20-something kids. My best relationship I ever had lasted about a year. And the relationship I'm in now started December 2014, so it's been a little over 1.5 years.

You don't have to believe me. I don't have to prove myself to you.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
    #23494847 - 07/31/16 07:46 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Were you strung out for any of those 5 years?


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
    #23494862 - 07/31/16 08:00 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Were you strung out for any of those 5 years?




Hmm, let's see... the first serious relationship, we were both partiers and enjoyed drugs a little too much. In between that time of the relationship I got off methadone and tapered off and was 2 years clean. The reason we broke is because shortly after this, he had relapsed onto my favorite drug. A drug that I could never touch, because it would make my life spiral out of control. So I had no choice but to dump him. I couldn't even be friends with him, as long as he was using, because I couldn't take that risk and risk my own relapse. I just couldn't, after everything that I'd went through.

It's such a shame, because he was such a good person too. Truly the most beautiful, sincere, kind-hearted, conscientious person I've ever met.

The best relationship I had after that, the one that lasted a year, I was just graduating college so I was sober that whole time. I think we smoked marijuana 10 times or so when we were together. Since he was a square, he wasn't interested in acid or any of other psychedelic shit.

For the last one, you know this story... I had a relapse in Philadelphia while I was out there. Luckily my relapse wasn't that bad, it only lasted 3 months, and I sent myself to rehab. Got clean, and the man I met the first week in Philly stuck through it all with me, despite the fact that we hadn't been dating even that long. That told me a lot about his character, and is why I went back to Philadelphia to be with him.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
    #23494923 - 07/31/16 08:30 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Well I wish you the best of luck either way.  I think you might benefit greatly from taking a year of two off getting fucked up, it really changes your perspective.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
    #23494941 - 07/31/16 08:42 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Were you strung out for any of those 5 years?




For real

Not much input from this "woman" worth considering


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Sanguin3]
    #23495085 - 07/31/16 10:00 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Of course. Wouldn't have to worry about knocking her up myself




Of course not. You could fuck and fuck and fuck and the kid will never be yours.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: imachavel]
    #23495103 - 07/31/16 10:05 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

You cannot own a kid, you can either love it or neglect it. :underageban:


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: danielx]
    #23495106 - 07/31/16 10:06 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Its honestly the trashiest/saddest shit ever. Those girls are so mentally corrupt they cant wait a few months to find a new guy to give them attention and treat them like shit.

Suffice to say,I have a huge pregnant fetish so I have met up with one before. The moment things became real, and I realized she was a deeply disturbed girl with major daddy issues, it lost all the joy for me. I realized its more of a fantasy for me, I feel bad when a real human is infront of me.

That being said, ive heard alot of pregnant women get very horny. And you know they are in 'have to find a beta to take care of me and my kid' mode. Makes sense.




Yeah. I started reading the arguments with Crystal G. Got bored. Went back to page 1. I read this. Now I'm jacking off.

Bro, fuck yeah. I mean, you met up with one and tried to see what would happen. That's the important part. I feel bad for the kid but I still find the experience of sleeping with someone pregnant with someone else's kid fascinating. I won't get into details and say why. Let's just say, I know it's fascinating.

On a real level though jokes aside it is much different in you are in love with the person. Haha, not the same experience though you are describing. What you are describing is just hooking up.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Asante]
    #23495111 - 07/31/16 10:08 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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You cannot own a kid, you can either love it or neglect it. :underageban:




I know. I don't think the OP is talking about taking care of the kid. I think the OP describing his pregnant fetish.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: imachavel]
    #23495319 - 07/31/16 11:44 AM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Pregnant chicks can't get pregnant right?  Seems like a safe bet there, you don't have to worry about ever becoming The father. :wink:


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #23495534 - 07/31/16 12:54 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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I don't get why so many people automatically think because a chick is pregnant on a dating site she is automatically mentally disturbed or "damaged."

She is literally the same woman she was before she got pregnant, the only difference is now she is pregnant. All it means is that she was sexually active at one point and then by pure luck became pregnant.

Sure, if you don't want to date her because of added responsibilities or the burdens of having a child around or whatever, that is sensible. But assuming there's tons of things wrong with her simply because she's pregnant is an erroneous assumption.

I mean, I've never dated a single father--no kids was a requirement for me, for similar reasons, and also because I didn't want to be raising somebody else's kids. Having children should be something special, and ideally it should happen with people who are both first time parents. It would lose some of that special essence if that person has already had kids with somebody else.

I would assume that a single dad on a dating site is an irresponsible parent just looking for a mom to take care of his kids. The only exception to this would be obviously, if he was widowed, or if he had sole or primary custody of his children. Rarely is this the case however. And I would probably think that men who are expectant fathers are cheaters, or probably pretty likely intentionally abandoned whoever they knocked up to get away from any responsibility. Because let's face it, that is a very predictable and likely behavior of young men these days. For women on the other hand, the reasoning varies.

In short, I would consider a man with kids, but only if I already had kids of my own already too.




Way to be super hypocritical. Slamming guys for prejudging pregnant women on dating sites, and then going on & prejudging single dads on dating sites. :thumbdown:


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Dark_Star]
    #23496221 - 07/31/16 04:33 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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I don't get why so many people automatically think because a chick is pregnant on a dating site she is automatically mentally disturbed or "damaged."

She is literally the same woman she was before she got pregnant, the only difference is now she is pregnant. All it means is that she was sexually active at one point and then by pure luck became pregnant.

Sure, if you don't want to date her because of added responsibilities or the burdens of having a child around or whatever, that is sensible. But assuming there's tons of things wrong with her simply because she's pregnant is an erroneous assumption.

I mean, I've never dated a single father--no kids was a requirement for me, for similar reasons, and also because I didn't want to be raising somebody else's kids. Having children should be something special, and ideally it should happen with people who are both first time parents. It would lose some of that special essence if that person has already had kids with somebody else.

I would assume that a single dad on a dating site is an irresponsible parent just looking for a mom to take care of his kids. The only exception to this would be obviously, if he was widowed, or if he had sole or primary custody of his children. Rarely is this the case however. And I would probably think that men who are expectant fathers are cheaters, or probably pretty likely intentionally abandoned whoever they knocked up to get away from any responsibility. Because let's face it, that is a very predictable and likely behavior of young men these days. For women on the other hand, the reasoning varies.

In short, I would consider a man with kids, but only if I already had kids of my own already too.




Way to be super hypocritical. Slamming guys for prejudging pregnant women on dating sites, and then going on & prejudging single dads on dating sites. :thumbdown:




No, it makes perfect sense. In the case of single dads, they don't have primary custody. They aren't the ones taking primary responsibility of their kids. They can flake out at any time.

Single mothers on the other hand, usually do. That is why I said the only exception is if he has primary or sole custody.

The reality is, lots of men abandon pregnant women. Very few women abandon men while pregnant. So, my assumptions make far more sense than the other way around.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Apostle]
    #23496244 - 07/31/16 04:42 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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Would any of you consider meeting a pregnant chick from a dating site?




Yes, yes I would. :pokerawe:

I would not consider getting into a serious relationship with a pregnant woman, as I am not prepared to act in the capacity of a parent. I would be clear and upfront with her about that so she doesn't have any mistaken expectations for what it would mean.

But for the sexhavings. Yes. Would. :x



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i have a lactating fetish.

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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G] * 3
    #23496274 - 07/31/16 04:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

No they don't. You're spouting misandrist horseshit. A single dad is a single dad. They either have full or part time custody, and work their asses off for their kids. A deadbeat isn't a single dad; it's a moron that walked away from his kid. You're extrapolating a completely false opinion about single dad's just based on their sex. Fucking weak. :thumbdown: there are plenty of deadbeat moms as well, and plenty of deadbeat parents that are still together.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Bobabouy]
    #23496308 - 07/31/16 05:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Now that I think about it, it's actually convenient that I'm attracted to pregnant women, because there's a pretty good chance I'm infertile. So when I'm ready to be a mom, I just have to date a pregnant woman. I'd catch her early and encourage her to date around while we get to know each other in case it doesn't work out between us. It makes almost too much sense.



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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Dark_Star]
    #23496395 - 07/31/16 05:34 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

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No they don't. You're spouting misandrist horseshit. A single dad is a single dad. They either have full or part time custody, and work their asses off for their kids. A deadbeat isn't a single dad; it's a moron that walked away from his kid. You're extrapolating a completely false opinion about single dad's just based on their sex. Fucking weak. :thumbdown: there are plenty of deadbeat moms as well, and plenty of deadbeat parents that are still together.




I've also met single dads off dating websites that lied and said they didn't have kids.

These aren't deadbeats either, these are guys that have rooms in their apartments set up for their kids.

These are the same dads that have said, "For men, their primary love is the romantic love interest in their life, it's the main woman in his life. For women, their primary love interest is their children. That's just how it works biologically."

For me, it's a huge turn off to hear crap like that. It basically implies they put their love interest first before their kids.

That's not me saying it. That's these dads themselves who are saying this crap. By their own testimonies, they aren't as dedicated to parenthood as mothers are.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
    #23496432 - 07/31/16 05:45 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

Children should be the #1 priority in the life of any parent, male or female

I don't get why this is so hard for so many people to grasp. Like you can get away with half-assing it as a parent. No. You can't.


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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
    #23496517 - 07/31/16 06:08 PM (7 years, 5 months ago)

This whole thread makes me cringe. Can we get back to the lactating fetish pls


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