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Crystal G



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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: FruitOfLife]
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Kush_Zombie
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23493156 - 07/30/16 05:20 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Patlal said: No. TSingle pregnant women are the biggest red flag in the book
I agree that it's a big bright red flag seeing a pregnant woman on a dating site. What's she there for?
If she's looking for a LTR, that's a red flag because it means she's likely looking for a father for her child and is not competent and/or confident enough to be a single mother. Women should know that a guy you hook up with for an LTR while pregnant could be very dangerous, as pregnancy and post partum are very vulnerable times for a woman; some men know this and act predatorily, trapping naive women in abusive relationships. She could find herself tied up in legality even.
And if she's just there looking for a quick fuck? To me, that says that she could be a reckless mother. Sex with strangers exposes you to STDs, and contracting STDs while pregnant can have catastrophic consequences for the health of the unborn child.
In short, I'd avoid pregnant women on dating sites.
All that, plus I wouldn't waste my time and money on a kid that isn't my own.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Patlal]
#23493367 - 07/30/16 06:25 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Patlal said: No. TSingle pregnant women are the biggest red flag in the book
I agree that it's a big bright red flag seeing a pregnant woman on a dating site. What's she there for?
If she's looking for a LTR, that's a red flag because it means she's likely looking for a father for her child and is not competent and/or confident enough to be a single mother. Women should know that a guy you hook up with for an LTR while pregnant could be very dangerous, as pregnancy and post partum are very vulnerable times for a woman; some men know this and act predatorily, trapping naive women in abusive relationships. She could find herself tied up in legality even.
And if she's just there looking for a quick fuck? To me, that says that she could be a reckless mother. Sex with strangers exposes you to STDs, and contracting STDs while pregnant can have catastrophic consequences for the health of the unborn child.
In short, I'd avoid pregnant women on dating sites.
All that, plus I wouldn't waste my time and money on a kid that isn't my own.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Bobabouy]
#23493540 - 07/30/16 07:27 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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All the responsibilities of knocking some dumb whore up with almost none of the reward. I think I'll pass... If you are pregnant on a dating website chances are you've got some serious issues besides the fetus in your belly.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack] 1
#23493757 - 07/30/16 08:44 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ya I was talking to some girl with a kid on pof. Which I don't mind kids but the more we talked the more craziness was coming up. This girl was obviously insanely Co dependent as fuck. Probably fat too. Which I've rolled a few I'd be OK with a nsa thing.
I got enough of my own problems. If the girl is pregnant and on a dating site that's fucking weird though. Obviously baby daddy no where in sight. Shoulda got an abortion. I wouldn't fuck around with that. Just askin for trouble.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#23493817 - 07/30/16 09:05 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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If enjoywho wouldn't let his dick near her you damned well know it's a bad idea
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Solid advice I'll fuck just about anything.
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Crystal G



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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Enjoywho]
#23494525 - 07/31/16 04:13 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't get why so many people automatically think because a chick is pregnant on a dating site she is automatically mentally disturbed or "damaged."
She is literally the same woman she was before she got pregnant, the only difference is now she is pregnant. All it means is that she was sexually active at one point and then by pure luck became pregnant.
Sure, if you don't want to date her because of added responsibilities or the burdens of having a child around or whatever, that is sensible. But assuming there's tons of things wrong with her simply because she's pregnant is an erroneous assumption.
I mean, I've never dated a single father--no kids was a requirement for me, for similar reasons, and also because I didn't want to be raising somebody else's kids. Having children should be something special, and ideally it should happen with people who are both first time parents. It would lose some of that special essence if that person has already had kids with somebody else.
I would assume that a single dad on a dating site is an irresponsible parent just looking for a mom to take care of his kids. The only exception to this would be obviously, if he was widowed, or if he had sole or primary custody of his children. Rarely is this the case however. And I would probably think that men who are expectant fathers are cheaters, or probably pretty likely intentionally abandoned whoever they knocked up to get away from any responsibility. Because let's face it, that is a very predictable and likely behavior of young men these days. For women on the other hand, the reasoning varies.
In short, I would consider a man with kids, but only if I already had kids of my own already too.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23494544 - 07/31/16 04:34 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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If I were straight I would be fine with a pregnant partner.
Hey, I'm gay, if my lover to be has kids from a former straight marriage, they are all welcome and we'll be one big happy family.
True love man. If its true love, who cares they got kids? The more the merrier.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23494547 - 07/31/16 04:35 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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have you spent time dating pregnant girls off pof? I have, I speak from experience. They all have major issues.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: danielx]
#23494554 - 07/31/16 04:39 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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danielx said: have you spent time dating pregnant girls off pof? I have, I speak from experience. They all have major issues.
Lots of people off pof have issues, I've had guys send me a first message asking me to take a shit on them and dominate them, to guys who threatened to beat the shit out of me, calling me ugly because I didn't respond to any of their messages.
But if I were to say this people would be like #BUTNOTALLMEN! 
As a matter of fact, I don't think I've ever met one "normal" person in my life, ever. But that could be because eccentric people gravitate to me.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Bobabouy]
#23494665 - 07/31/16 05:42 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Why go on a dating site when you can walk to Wal Mart...
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23494690 - 07/31/16 06:04 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: I don't get why so many people automatically think because a chick is pregnant on a dating site she is automatically mentally disturbed or "damaged."
She is literally the same woman she was before she got pregnant, the only difference is now she is pregnant. All it means is that she was sexually active at one point and then by pure luck became pregnant.
Sure, if you don't want to date her because of added responsibilities or the burdens of having a child around or whatever, that is sensible. But assuming there's tons of things wrong with her simply because she's pregnant is an erroneous assumption.
People that can't take off from being in a relationship for several months while pregnant probably have serious codependency issues. They will come off really desperate, they will be seriously hindering their prospects in a partner by not waiting until after they have the child. If they are just trying to have casual sex whatever, if they are looking for a daddy for their child they should wait until after they have it. It's almost like the Standford marshmallow experiment, except instead of marshmallows it is a degenerate boyfriend over a decent boyfriend. Instead of you looking like a chick that dated the wrong guy you look like a chick that makes bad decisions, has poor self control, lacks any type of patience, and won't be getting an abortion if the condom breaks. I'm not surprised you don't see anything wrong with it because you are pretty out there also. if you ask most guys they will agree with me that dating a pregnant girl off an online dating site is a horrible idea.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
#23494721 - 07/31/16 06:24 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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fapjack said: People that can't take off from being in a relationship for several months while pregnant probably have serious codependency issues. They will come off really desperate, they will be seriously hindering their prospects in a partner by not waiting until after they have the child. If they are just trying to have casual sex whatever, if they are looking for a daddy for their child they should wait until after they have it. It's almost like the Standford marshmallow experiment, except instead of marshmallows it is a degenerate boyfriend over a decent boyfriend.
You have absolutely no idea what goes on in pregnancy, do you?
What reason should there be to hold off on pregnancy? First off, women get EXTREMELY horny during pregnancy. This horniness is actually comparable to taking a cycle of testosterone steroids. Wanting to get banged left and right is a pretty common desire among single pregnant women.
Waiting until after birth is nonsensical, for several reasons. The most obvious one being, once she gives birth, she will have NO TIME to be dating. Absolutely none. Pregnancy is basically her last chance she will be dating for a while.
The second reason is, once she gives birth, her hormones disappear, thus rendering her asexual for about a year. And if it's severe, she could end up with postpartum depression. This is no time to be having sex OR dating. So she's basically off the market for like 1-2 years at least.
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Instead of you looking like a chick that dated the wrong guy you look like a chick that makes bad decisions, has poor self control, lacks any type of patience, and won't be getting an abortion if the condom breaks. I'm not surprised you don't see anything wrong with it because you are pretty out there also. if you ask most guys they will agree with me that dating a pregnant girl off an online dating site is a horrible idea.
There's plenty of reasons pregnant women end up single. The most common reason is, the man decides to abandon her, and uses her pregnancy as a way to manipulate her and hurt her when she needs him most. And this type of guy often does this after the 1st or 2nd trimester, when HE KNOWS it's too late to get an abortion. And of course she is left with the blame of being a "sleazeball" even though it was completely his fault.
There's plenty of reasons too why pregnant women wouldn't get an abortion. She could have gotten pregnant at a much older age, and this could be her first child. She might have had an abortion before but it was too traumatizing. She could come from a religious family who doesn't believe in abortion. She might personally be too emotionally invested in the baby to have an abortion. And, shocker--she might actually WANT the kid! There's plenty of reasons.
Lacks any patience, lol. Pregnancy is all about patience. If anything, it teaches you patience. Ask any mother or pregnant mom, and they will tell you the whole waiting game was the most infuriating thing they've ever experienced.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23494746 - 07/31/16 06:49 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Are you pregnant, Crystal G? You're kinda acting pregnant.
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: Crystal G]
#23494773 - 07/31/16 07:12 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: remember how i made a thread about smoking rocks and slamming dope in philly, and talked about being in love with a Latin man ive been partying and sexing it up with? All found in this thread right here. https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/21064739#21064739
Well... he asked me to marry him. About 2 weeks ago, actually. And im going to fucking do it. Why? because it makes no difference if we get married now, or wait 2 years and get hitched. And im honestly so afraid of committment, I feel like it will never happen for me unless its a spontaneous, passionate, and impulsive decision.
... I know, it sounds crazy because we have only known each other 1 month. But this is straight up a love at first sight deal here, with incredible sexual chemistry. Plus, who the fuck else am I going to find thats totally cool with my lifestyle and can keep up with me, someone who isn't a total scumbag or criminal, AND somebody who I connect with so well mentally, physically, and emotionally?
This is honestly it for me. There is nobody better suited for me. If this doesnt work out, this will be the end of dating altogether for me. This is the end of the line for me, guys.
I hit the motherfucking jackpot. Just saying, if you dont see me log in or posting on the Shroomery for a while, its because I got busy with life.
Your opinions about what constitutes a healthy relationship are not valid...
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
#23494784 - 07/31/16 07:17 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Your opinions about what constitutes a healthy relationship are not valid...
What, so you assume that all my relationships were exactly the same? I know what a healthy relationship is. I've been in many of them. Many of them sweet, kind, and genuine guys. Both of us never once raised our voice, even when we were arguing.
But yeah, I am also impulsive, and I do like to walk down the road that nobody else would dare walk down. My tendency for compulsion and a YOLO lifestyle is what makes me special. Sure, it might not turn out great, but in that sadness you also find beauty, as well as yourself.
I guess you'd just have to be an artist to understand.
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Crystal G



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Burke Dennings said: Are you pregnant, Crystal G? You're kinda acting pregnant.
LOL I tried Facebooking you with your Shroomery name to post something on your status, and I got this kid
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Re: Pregnant chicks on dating sites [Re: fapjack]
#23494794 - 07/31/16 07:21 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Your opinions about what constitutes a healthy relationship are not valid...
Also, forgot to add, that just because I'm a fucked up person doesn't mean I'm incapable of analyzing other people's situations.
Psychologists tend to be the most depressed and mentally ill people with some of the highest suicide rates. Yet they treat people all the time.
Sometimes you have to live harsh experiences yourself to understand what other people are going through.
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