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Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight
#23482780 - 07/27/16 04:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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As a youngster, if me and another guy had beef we could scrap it out. Even if party 2 didn't want it, if he made me mad enough i would just swing on him any way. As an adult im forced to compose myself because the repercussions are far greater. Now its criminal charges and losing my job. This guy at work is soooo asking for it but i just cant do it. I want to more than anything at times but all i find myself doing is asserting my alpha male status verbally, which is enough to show him to stop fucking around temporarily but i dont get satisfaction from that.
I can deal with a lot of shit without even thinking of violence but this guy is a different story. He's stealing, snitching, and lying.. all on the job, And everyone knows it but nobody has it in them to confront him. He always claimed to be a tough guy but he wont look me in my eye anymore. I dont know... i dont really have friend to vent to so ima do it here. Anyway, anyone got some ideas how i could get at him subliminally? He really deserves it buy im beyond snitching.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 1
#23482792 - 07/27/16 04:07 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Just start doing UFC or boxing or whatever....you'd prob get fucked up, tho
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482795 - 07/27/16 04:07 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said: all i find myself doing is asserting my alpha male status verbally

there are better ways to deal with confrontational situations, keeping on the way you were going will get you a severe beating at some point.
i would be willing to wager that if this guy is pulling all this stuff he will get whats coming to him, patience is a great life lesson.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy]
#23482796 - 07/27/16 04:08 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Finished reading the post
just confront him without fighting?
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482800 - 07/27/16 04:09 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I read it again
what kind of stuff is he doing??
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy] 1
#23482803 - 07/27/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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He's stealing, snitching, and lying.. all on the job
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Haha. I know EVERYBODY says this, but i really dont fear an ass whooping. I just cant afford to get caught up legally. If this guy can out fight me he got it but win or lose he gonna tell.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 2
#23482805 - 07/27/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I see you were raised in the hood under the guidance of ill equipped parents. There are more intelligent ways of dealing with these situations. They require a certain amount of social finesse to pull of however. An obvious one would would be catching definitive proof of his shady dealings.
Hooray for using your brain
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy]
#23482806 - 07/27/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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put some mash in his shoes
at'll get'm
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 1
#23482808 - 07/27/16 04:11 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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there was a really shitty post not too long ago here about a member that was jumped and really hurt, you might change your mind about that when you realize you are not indestructible and pain as well as disability can last a life time.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482813 - 07/27/16 04:13 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Its a crazy deal with this dude. He nabbed 3 oz of some loud from a guy then dropped my name as the guy who told dude he did it.... while i was on vacation all week.(yeah). Then snitches on the guy he stole from and the list of fuckery continues to add up. Its gone too far already and everybody here knows who he really is now. He's burned every bridge he ever had and still keeps pouring gas everywhere.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#23482815 - 07/27/16 04:14 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well you know what they say about opinions.. but no you're very wrong. No hood shit here bud. Lolol
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 2
#23482816 - 07/27/16 04:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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-huge amount of LSD in his water
-pure capsaicin extract in his water/on his personal belongings/on his kleenex
-daily nails/screws/caltrops under his tires
-cut brake lines
-rocks thrown through his home/car window
-phenazepam/ultrapotent benzo in his water/food
-planted drugs in his car
The list goes on as to what you can do without hitting him or getting in trouble
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Aedium] 2
#23482820 - 07/27/16 04:16 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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aaronlolz said: put some mash in his shoes
at'll get'm
Nope
I said this before and I'll say it again
Moths
Release moths in his house
In ten years he'll have dime sized holes in all of his dress shirts
It may take some patience OP but eventually you'll have the last laugh
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 3
#23482821 - 07/27/16 04:16 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said: Its a crazy deal with this dude. He nabbed 3 oz of some loud from a guy then dropped my name as the guy who told dude he did it.... while i was on vacation all week.(yeah). Then snitches on the guy he stole from and the list of fuckery continues to add up. Its gone too far already and everybody here knows who he really is now. He's burned every bridge he ever had and still keeps pouring gas everywhere.
no offence but this sounds very hood
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: JvF]
#23482825 - 07/27/16 04:17 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Somebody already got his tires at work so he gets dropped off now... and definitely not wasting good drugs on him.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482830 - 07/27/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said: Well you know what they say about opinions.. but no you're very wrong. No hood shit here bud. Lolol
Punch your co-worker out then tough guy. Show everyone how beeeg, strong and ill equipped for society you are.
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It reads very hood you mean? I dont know how i sound to you but I've never lived in any hood ever.. no desire to
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#23482833 - 07/27/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Can you read. Every human being has urges that are unethical to react upon....
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482840 - 07/27/16 04:21 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well if it's illegal shit, then you're gonna have to do some illegal shit back...you gotta fire vs. fire this one...
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 1
#23482843 - 07/27/16 04:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Bang his mom.
Alright, I know that's not illegal, but it's still pretty good.
and that's, like, off the top of my head
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy] 1
#23482845 - 07/27/16 04:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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suck his dick, it'll negate everything. Two positives make a negative.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482846 - 07/27/16 04:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sounds like you have some very unstable mental issues. I have never onced swung on any of my friends no matter how mad they made me EXCEPT for when I was barred out.. Idk y but for some reason bars get me angry for no reason.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Niffla]
#23482860 - 07/27/16 04:27 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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 Gin end up like this dude
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: iLLeXXXX]
#23482862 - 07/27/16 04:27 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Far from a friend.. and perhaps i have anger issues but nobody's perfect.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#23482872 - 07/27/16 04:30 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Or you could come down here and help him chow down on this cockmeat sammich!
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 1
#23482938 - 07/27/16 04:49 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said: It reads very hood you mean? I dont know how i sound to you but I've never lived in any hood ever.. no desire to
This kind of drama comes across as hood like due to the ghetto traits of the story. Stealing drugs, slashing tires, wanting to fight... all hood activities
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23482952 - 07/27/16 04:52 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Try meditating.. Helps drastically with anger issues at lease for me. Use ISO tones to enhance it.
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Oh Gotcha. yea i mean i work in a factory and this dude lives in the shittiest part of the county we live in so i guess you could say some hood factors are in play. Lol
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: iLLeXXXX]
#23483047 - 07/27/16 05:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I just dont have the mental patience for meditation. Using psychedelics is my meditation but thats not too often.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23483056 - 07/27/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mental patience is what you need, you're probably impulsive and dramatic in every other aspect of your life as well.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23483080 - 07/27/16 05:32 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You don't have mental patience.. Thats part of the problem there.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23483082 - 07/27/16 05:32 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mental patience comes from within.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy]
#23483227 - 07/27/16 06:12 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mental patience is what you need, you're probably impulsive and dramatic in every other aspect of your life as well.
acting like u know the OP... the guy he is having issues with is a scumbag and everyone knows it, and OP hasn't even done anything impulsive
In my personal experience these types of people are just low-lifes and most people tend to not like them and they tend to get into problems with everyone else, or get on everyone else's nerves and they will eventually get whats coming to them, thats just the truth of it because if they are putting out negativity then thats what they will receive.
Just a waiting game at this point tho, imo it's not worth it to have a personal problem with the guy if it can be avoided, often these situations resolve themselves
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: ergoticmandala]
#23483249 - 07/27/16 06:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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agreed brandon seems level headed just invested in the situation and wanting resolution and is pissed, that is the easiest way to relive the negative emotions involved. not the smartest or most dignified but easy release.
also agreed if the perpetrator is doing all this they will reap what they have sown.
brandon stick around, you are young as you said (how old?) as we all journey at different rates but you will see someone else deal with this. patience is not easy but it can be satisfying
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: shadyy]
#23483541 - 07/27/16 07:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i hate liz said: Mental patience comes from within.
Mental patience comes from the mental area of the brain
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon]
#23483624 - 07/27/16 08:02 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You sound like you're caught up in some pretty sketchy stuff. Always remember rules 1 and 2: trust no one, tell no one.
Stay away from sketchy untrustworthy people/situations. You don't need to punch them, you need to avoid having them in your life at all.
Sketchy job? Quit. Sketchy neighborhood? Leave. Sketchy friends? Don't talk/hang out with them.
Beyond that, I'm a bit concerned about your decision making process in general with the whole "not being able to randomly beat people is bad" thing. People not just randomly beating each other is probably one of the nicest parts of adult life.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 2
#23483640 - 07/27/16 08:06 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said: I want to more than anything at times but all i find myself doing is asserting my alpha male status verbally, which is enough to show him to stop fucking around temporarily but i dont get satisfaction from that.
You clearly do not have alpha male status to assert, dude.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: California]
#23483690 - 07/27/16 08:20 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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If you wanna make a man your bitch dominate him sexually. He'll be your bitch for life after you fuck his girl.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: California]
#23483692 - 07/27/16 08:21 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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This is a hard situation to fully describe. Im in my late 20s and hes probably a few years older. I have chilled with him a few times and smoked some bud with at work. I could tell then he lied about everything that he said. ( making up stories about how tough he is and how many guns he has etc.) I can totally tolerate that cuz he seemed like a cool dude that just wanted friends.
The fact that he tells the world he is so "gangsta" i figure ill beat him at his own game and show him how tough he really is. I can absolutely deal with some pretty moderate bullshit that makes me angry and be perfectly ok. Its certain occasions such as these that bring out that primal instinct to cause this man physical harm.... not too much but enough to end this shit.
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#23483700 - 07/27/16 08:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You sound like people did when we were still in high school.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#23483701 - 07/27/16 08:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: If you wanna make a man your bitch dominate him sexually. He'll be your bitch for life after you fuck his girl.
Whats crazy is so many things suggested already have been done to him by other people. Someone stole his motorcycle helmet, someone flattened his truck tires, and he told management that the guy he took the weed from threatened to fuck his girl, among other things.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: brandonshmandon] 1
#23483709 - 07/27/16 08:26 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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brandonshmandon said:
The fact that he tells the world he is so "gangsta" i figure ill beat him at his own game and show him how tough he really is. I can absolutely deal with some pretty moderate bullshit that makes me angry and be perfectly ok. Its certain occasions such as these that bring out that primal instinct to cause this man physical harm.... not too much but enough to end this shit.
A real alpha would be content. Why do you want to get into a dick-measuring contest over who is tougher? Forget about that guy, and focus on you.
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Re: Being an adult sucks. I just wanna fight [Re: California]
#23483792 - 07/27/16 08:54 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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In only this situation I say snitch OR stfu. Unless you want to catch a charge
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