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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: vandago]
#23480186 - 07/26/16 09:00 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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vandago said: I'm at the point of saying just stay away from everyone.
Move to the PNW, you got 3 months to get a job, no drugs unless we are doing them together, and make a couple grand like everyone else does come picking season. I'll be making 5-7 thousand on spores (edit: and photos) alone.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: vandago]
#23480196 - 07/26/16 09:04 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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vandago said: Half sister, and she's only 14 in november. She had no idea what was going on.
The fact my parents had me move all my shit in there was the fucked part. Then my own fuck up was getting into legal trouble binding me to that residence unless I request a transfer, but with all the money dumped into lawyers and court fines ( 5k + ) that isn't an option anymore.
I'm at the point of saying just stay away from everyone.
that's super shitty. i was hoping maybe you had one person there on your side. considering your PO sounds like a raging asshole, it isn't likely you'll get any sympathy there, either. does requesting an in-county transfer cost you anything? where i am, i can move within the county with approval at no cost.
staying away from everyone is certainly they safe bet, as depressing as it is. for my family's (the people that have been like a family to me) safety, i'm staying away from them.
now i understand your desire to bail. i share the desire, but it's not logical
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: Adden]
#23480197 - 07/26/16 09:05 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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He should stay where he is.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: California]
#23480222 - 07/26/16 09:12 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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California said: He should stay where he is.

PNW Romp 2016 did you get the memo?
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: Adden]
#23480230 - 07/26/16 09:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I just saw the thread in the vets area a bit ago.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: California]
#23480309 - 07/26/16 09:35 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My mom's been switching from one guy to the next since I have been born when she was 18. I have 3 siblings, all 4 of us have different dads, all of those dads aside from mine got vasectomy's. She's got seriously issues, so I remember that.
We still talk but I am jaded about it.
Can't wait to finally start MY life, on MY path. I'm too old to feel this unaccomplished with my own future, instead of cleaning up others past.
I'd come stay out that way, but I can't abandon my dogs. had em 10 years now, gotta figure out a move that involves them. Though I deeply appreciate it.
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California said: He should stay where he is.
I should stay where there is no opportunity for growth in an area I don't enjoy at all?
Everyone's entitled to grow and move. If I thought YOU knew what was best for me I'd ask you.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: vandago]
#23480340 - 07/26/16 09:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Also, the other half of my blood family lives in Santa rosa. My real dad, half brother, their entire side of the family, I have a lot of friends on the west coast, and multiple job opportunities. There's an entire life I could be building somewhere else while my life here is just picking up others pieces.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: vandago]
#23480342 - 07/26/16 09:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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vandago said: My mom's been switching from one guy to the next since I have been born when she was 18. I have 3 siblings, all 4 of us have different dads, all of those dads aside from mine got vasectomy's. She's got seriously issues, so I remember that.
We still talk but I am jaded about it.
Can't wait to finally start MY life, on MY path. I'm too old to feel this unaccomplished with my own future, instead of cleaning up others past.
I'd come stay out that way, but I can't abandon my dogs. had em 10 years now, gotta figure out a move that involves them. Though I deeply appreciate it.
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California said: He should stay where he is.
I should stay where there is no opportunity for growth in an area I don't enjoy at all?
Everyone's entitled to grow and move. If I thought YOU knew what was best for me I'd ask you.
And everyone is also entitled to post that you should stay. You'd make a mistake asking me that anyway if you presumed I was thinking about what is best for you. If you must come to the PNW, please go to Washington or NorCal.
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: California]
#23480350 - 07/26/16 09:41 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'll go where I please and what suits my best. I have many options of where to move too, but I have family I'd like to start building with I haven't had a chance too. The only reason I didn't move out there years ago is because I stayed here to be a caretaker for my GPA as he passed.
Thanks/not thanks for your input though
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Re: Battling the storm I have created. [Re: vandago]
#23480468 - 07/26/16 10:09 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's pretty fucked man and ya fuck your family at this point.. you gotta look out for yourself. They obviously don't have your best interests in mind. I agree that place is rotting you, you need to be free. Move west when you can! Don't necessarily come here cause it's expensive and cutthroat, but you need to cut your ties from toxic people like that (even/especially if your own blood) and have your own, happy life.
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