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Vriska Serket
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i miss my best friend
#23475253 - 07/25/16 11:31 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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sorry im just vomiting all over the forum with emotional bullshit but my best friend got thrown in jail on june 1st for violating drug court stuff and i miss him so much. he was the only person ive ever felt any kind of connection to in life and every day i spend without hanging out with him is agony. is there anything i can do to numb the pain? how do I make new friends?
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goldcaphunter
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One of my best buds up and joined the air force so I see them like once a year now. I'm socially inept so...yeah idk. It's like getting to see family for me .
I don't know how to make new friends and I'm pretty over it at this point. Fuck it.
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sanchothestoner
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i'll be ur friend
i'm sorry you are dealing with stuff, but that's life. shit happens and you have to learn to deal with it.
go out and find people you can connect with, i guarantee they're out there.
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ReposadoXochipilli
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i feel ya my best buds been in prison for 3 years. hopefully he will be out in another 4.
such a good guy, complete tragedy that he is in there.
with a little perseverance they will be out in sweet freedom again soon.
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trekie
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Tinder goto bars wake up outside in pile of own vomit just get out there get fucked up and find someone else
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Vriska Serket
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its so shitty to lose friends like this
ive always been an extrovert and a bit of a social butterfly but at the end of the day i never really felt like i belonged with anyone like i belonged with him, it was a sort of connection thats like a once in a lifetime thing and even though im seeing other friends now nothing really fills that void, ya know?
we just -got- each other
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Vriska Serket
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: trekie]
#23475288 - 07/25/16 11:45 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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oh believe me ive been doing my fair share of getting fucked up but its just not the same to meet some rando at a crowded bar than it is to share clove cigarettes on some nice patio furniture and talk about the coming end times and how we'll watch the ship go down together
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trekie
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At least he is alive and you can visit call him ect.
Wait till you have my dead friends then alive ones. You can either wait it out (most likely you wont not trying to be a dick but IMO jail ,going overseas or any extended period apart will kill any relationship.)
I would try to move on to someone who isnt a jail bird. Unless you are into that life then keep on keepin on
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sanchothestoner
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you have to stop searching for that same connection. every one will give you a different feeling and you'll have a different connection with everyone.
go make different connections with people.
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trekie
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I get what your going through. My wife bailed on me when I had a mental breakdown and ended up in the nut house. Moved out and on before I even got out. I was out of state when I went to the nut house. Came back to an empty house and she even took the dog

Time helps but I do get the rando bar thing its not the same . Just keep your head up and know that everything is temporary.
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Vriska Serket
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: trekie]
#23475314 - 07/25/16 11:54 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
sanchothestoner said: you have to stop searching for that same connection. every one will give you a different feeling and you'll have a different connection with everyone.
go make different connections with people.
thats good advice, thank you
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trekie said: I get what your going through. My wife bailed on me when I had a mental breakdown and ended up in the nut house. Moved out and on before I even got out. I was out of state when I went to the nut house. Came back to an empty house and she even took the dog

Time helps but I do get the rando bar thing its not the same . Just keep your head up and know that everything is temporary.
yo thats fucked im really sorry that happened to you
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trekie
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Its been months now . Guess Im glad its over she treated me pretty shitty and is already with a mutual friend who I ran into before I found out and he was shaking he was so afraid of my ass. Real tough biker from the suburbs.
Im working on letting go. Shes doing coke again and is really just a bad person.
-------------------- I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
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Vriska Serket
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: trekie]
#23475320 - 07/25/16 11:58 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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sounds like you got out of a bad situation then. still, thats got to hurt. i lost a long term girlfriend in a sort of similar way a few years ago and the hurt took years to go away but it did go away eventually.
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: trekie] 1
#23475321 - 07/25/16 11:59 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Usually to make new friends I'll just go to the mall and sit down with strangers and straight up tell them we are friends now
It works if you're patient. A lot of weirdos out there
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Vriska Serket
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: plasma]
#23475326 - 07/25/16 12:01 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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you wild
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vinsue
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How much back time is he doing?
Also, send letters... . . .
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Crixalis
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I was in the same predicament not too long ago
when my friend was released after 5 months for violation of his probation, he went back to doing the same shit that got him in there.
that's when I decided it would be best to cut him off
at first I felt bad because I wanted to help support him and get healthy but then it struck me
He doesn't want to get clean at all, so I kinda just said fuck it.
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Vriska Serket
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Re: i miss my best friend [Re: Crixalis]
#23475343 - 07/25/16 12:07 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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the fucked up thing is that my friend WAS getting clean, everything was going great, but his judge made him live with his mom instead of his dad, and his mom is a fucking crazy piece of shit who ran him over with a car and then called the cops on him for "shoving her"
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Dribble
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That's my best friend, that's my best friend
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