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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Kinko]
#23494538 - 07/31/16 04:30 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: Eh, I'd wait.
You lose impact having to approach twice imo (now + after vacation)
Girls lose interest rather quickly if you dont act fast enough....
Not necessarily, but if that were the case she would have plenty of time to forget on vacation She'll likely be too busy / preoccupied for anything in lieu of leaving
If he's patient and waits, he could line up a date for the same night he asks her out, or sometime sooner than 2 weeks hence 
Also, imo, passing off your phone number is a weak play and should be reserved for when you're short on time
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23494852 - 07/31/16 07:53 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Also, imo, passing off your phone number is a weak play and should be reserved for when you're short on time
I think it depends entirely on the guy. I am just never going to come off as a sexy pimp so I've got to use different strategies. Also I don't ask out cowards, any girl who would be too nervous just to shoot me a text is a girl I'm not really interested in
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23495935 - 07/31/16 02:55 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Also, imo, passing off your phone number is a weak play and should be reserved for when you're short on time
I think it depends entirely on the guy. I am just never going to come off as a sexy pimp so I've got to use different strategies. Also I don't ask out cowards, any girl who would be too nervous just to shoot me a text is a girl I'm not really interested in
Well I give out my number, but only if there isn't time to get their number.
One of my sisters wouldn't call out of principle, some women might just be too lazy to initiate, or their initial interest might be enough to pick up but not to call. If you get their number, imo you're in a much better position.
Anyways this is just my opinion, I didn't go to college for this shit.
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23496602 - 07/31/16 06:39 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Also, imo, passing off your phone number is a weak play and should be reserved for when you're short on time
I think it depends entirely on the guy. I am just never going to come off as a sexy pimp so I've got to use different strategies. Also I don't ask out cowards, any girl who would be too nervous just to shoot me a text is a girl I'm not really interested in
Well I give out my number, but only if there isn't time to get their number.
One of my sisters wouldn't call out of principle, some women might just be too lazy to initiate, or their initial interest might be enough to pick up but not to call. If you get their number, imo you're in a much better position.
Anyways this is just my opinion, I didn't go to college for this shit.
I think you are right most of the time but I unfortunately have this face that I'm stuck with so I have to be careful how I approach women.
Agreeing to give out your phone number is, IMO, pretty much the same as agreeing to go out on a date. But accepting a phone number gives HER the control. Maybe she sits on it for a day or two and thinks "You know, now that I think about it, that guy isn't THAT ugly." Or in a couple weeks maybe shes feeling lonely and shes thinks "What the fuck."
Probably just wishful thinking. But for real, I'm not somebody that anybody wants, I'm not about trying to trick some girl into agreeing to go out with me because she doesn't have time to really decide if shes interested
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23496824 - 07/31/16 07:52 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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They can flake on you even if you call, they're not being mind raped man
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23496838 - 07/31/16 07:57 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its psychological. She has my information but I don't have hers, which gives her total power. I can't send 100 random texts, I can't look her number up online, until she does something I can't do a damn thing to interact with her life
I think you might underestimate the amount of fear women feel from men on a daily basis. I certainly didn't appreciate it until a couple years ago when I had a gender heart-to-heart with a female friend of mine. It was disturbing and eye-opening for sure
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23496892 - 07/31/16 08:18 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its psychological. She has my information but I don't have hers, which gives her total power. I can't send 100 random texts, I can't look her number up online, until she does something I can't do a damn thing to interact with her life
I think you might underestimate the amount of fear women feel from men on a daily basis. I certainly didn't appreciate it until a couple years ago when I had a gender heart-to-heart with a female friend of mine. It was disturbing and eye-opening for sure
I don't see how this matters to you, if they agree to give you their number that's all that matters.
Just don't harass or rape anyone
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23496954 - 07/31/16 08:38 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its psychological. She has my information but I don't have hers, which gives her total power. I can't send 100 random texts, I can't look her number up online, until she does something I can't do a damn thing to interact with her life
I think you might underestimate the amount of fear women feel from men on a daily basis. I certainly didn't appreciate it until a couple years ago when I had a gender heart-to-heart with a female friend of mine. It was disturbing and eye-opening for sure
I don't see how this matters to you, if they agree to give you their number that's all that matters.
Just don't harass or rape anyone 
How could getting a glimpse into the mind of the opposite sex possibly not matter? I'm attempting to set off as few mental alarms in a woman as possible.
Again, if I was super attractive I wouldn't have to worry about all this bullshit. But I'm not so I do
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23496978 - 07/31/16 08:48 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Honestly I don't understand your concern, if you're covered in prison tats or something that makes sense, but otherwise I don't see the point.
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23497013 - 07/31/16 08:58 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Repertoire89 said: Honestly I don't understand your concern, if you're covered in prison tats or something that makes sense, but otherwise I don't see the point.
You sound just like me 3 years ago. Idk dude, I didn't grow up as a woman in the city, I don't get it. Women on the whole are afraid of men on the whole. Its just a fact. Fair or not its something we have to deal with
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23497026 - 07/31/16 09:00 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its something they have to deal with
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23497051 - 07/31/16 09:09 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its psychological. She has my information but I don't have hers, which gives her total power. I can't send 100 random texts, I can't look her number up online, until she does something I can't do a damn thing to interact with her life
I think you might underestimate the amount of fear women feel from men on a daily basis. I certainly didn't appreciate it until a couple years ago when I had a gender heart-to-heart with a female friend of mine. It was disturbing and eye-opening for sure
I don't see how this matters to you, if they agree to give you their number that's all that matters.
Just don't harass or rape anyone 
How could getting a glimpse into the mind of the opposite sex possibly not matter? I'm attempting to set off as few mental alarms in a woman as possible.
Again, if I was super attractive I wouldn't have to worry about all this bullshit. But I'm not so I do
I don't know a whole lot about women but I do know they like confidence more than anything. So you thinking you aren't attractive is only going to hold you back. Act confident and they will think you're attractive!
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Repertoire89]
#23497319 - 07/31/16 11:26 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bad mud butt brewing in your stomach and you had to dip out?
Mud butt be the medical term for diarrhea.
Oh. I was kind of thinking a chew or some shit don't they call that a dip?
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: LunarEclipse]
#23501386 - 08/02/16 10:38 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Going out with a coworker is probably the worst choice you could make.
In this case she was leaving so wow, sucks for you :V
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: micro]
#23504259 - 08/03/16 01:31 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Teenage me Sitting by creek feet dipped in water having a great time with super cutie. We been flirting all day but no moves yet. She says "Hey we should go find _____ she's probably worried about us." For some reason I put my arm around her and say "Well, we don't have to go yet"
Awkward bomb on a perfect afternoon.
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Black_Sunset]
#23505211 - 08/03/16 11:21 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I once asked a girl out by saying ''Fuck, your breasts are huge. Would you like to meet sometime'' and then it spiralled into a year and a half of on again/off again relationship
I empathise though, I'm shit at talking to women. I find myself pretty attractive, I have the viking look going for me but I don't have any confidence, I feel like I have nothing really worth while to offer and I feel like such a shit to just randomly butt-in someone's life like it's no one's business
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: bloodsheen]
#23530276 - 08/11/16 04:48 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hey man, at least you had the balls to go out on a limb and put yourself out there. The feeling of not doing anything feels infinitely worse than trying & striking out.
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23530294 - 08/11/16 05:02 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum. I feel like I have loads to offer, but I just can't be available to women right now cause I'm too busy working on myself.
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#23533488 - 08/12/16 01:20 AM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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That feeling fluctuates between I have a lot to offer and I have nothing to offer. Some days I feel like women should feel lucky to have me and other days I just wanna crawl in a hole and die due to me being so useless
I think on the whole, I'm pretty unique in comparison to some of the generic basic guys you get here
still dont do shit about it though
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Re: I just fumbled the fuck outta asking a girl out [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23541422 - 08/14/16 04:31 PM (7 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm apparently just a creep. I saw a girl that I thought was enjoying talking to me literally go out of her way to avoid me yesterday.
Pretty much just want to die
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