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beforethedawn
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I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause 1
#23460508 - 07/20/16 07:50 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Just amazed. I am quite a passionate, strong-willed, confident man but it all comes crashing down with the slightest doubt about my sexuality.
Amazing.
I have had all sorts of neurosis, depression, weirdness in my life until today where I've decided it doesn't matter, straight or gay, these are society's inventions.
For what it's worth, I must be straight as an arrow, but certain early life experience and decisions to explore have generated immense doubt historically.

If you're having sexuality issues, anything, the slightest doubt, I tell you, get on top of it ASAP, it might solve EVERYTHING.
EVERYTHING.
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: beforethedawn]
#23460526 - 07/20/16 07:55 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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No one cares but good for you.
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OrgoneConclusion
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: Mental Taco]
#23460534 - 07/20/16 07:57 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Are we talking taco or "taco"?
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beforethedawn
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#23460858 - 07/20/16 09:29 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ya, don't really know if I'm trying to celebrate or just talk on the topic.
Amazing, though
The stress, weirdness, depression
Sexuality too powerful to just leave up in the air
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tump
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: beforethedawn]
#23461380 - 07/21/16 01:30 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Wrong the choices we make define us. Not will power or sexual will power.
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redgreenvines
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: tump]
#23461599 - 07/21/16 04:10 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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it could boil down to shame and confusion related to the reactions people in your family or group have demonstrated.
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beforethedawn
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: redgreenvines]
#23461615 - 07/21/16 04:22 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Very true actually.
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zzripz
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: beforethedawn]
#23461650 - 07/21/16 05:00 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am intrigued by, and admire bisexuals
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: zzripz]
#23463360 - 07/21/16 05:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I sometimes look at a erotic picture collaboration site and among aesthetically pleasing heterosexual pics they have some minor gay and especially cross dressing/tranny content and I sometimes can feel that it peeks my interest with a almost immediate control reaction setting in, causing me to scroll over it. Well, being open for a gay side just isn't what I learned to be. So it will never happen, not even be possible to enjoy without serious "therapy". You need a strong desire to overcome societal repression and I can't see that happen so I'll leave it at an occasional peek.
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: Murzelpfrumpft]
#23463697 - 07/21/16 07:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Murzelpfrumpft said: I sometimes can feel that it peeks my interest with a almost immediate control reaction setting in, causing me to scroll over it.
That's not uncommon at all, it's also not uncommon for a hetero guy to be turned on by homo porn, doesn't mean you're bi/pan or whatever, just means you're a sexual being.
Sexuality is a touchy subject, many people want to pigeon hole it into certain labels, when it's just not that way.
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: beforethedawn]
#23463757 - 07/21/16 07:37 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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sudly
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Re: I am amazed at the struggles sexuality issues/misidentification can cause [Re: beforethedawn]
#23463958 - 07/21/16 08:48 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I used to struggle with my sexuality until I realised I was tantric.
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