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Anonymous #1
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Friends and relationship advice
#23450056 - 07/17/16 02:26 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You can tell people that a partner or romantic interest is toxic for them, or not a good idea, or whatever. And yeah they might rationally agree with you, but IME it has never stopped me, or my friends, from pursuing said interests. Matters of the heart must be figured out on your own, for the most part. Advice usually only helps after the fact.
Do you listen to your friends when they tell you "she's a crazy hoe/you shouldn't date her" or anything else you don't want to hear about a love interest?
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Sleepwalker
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Re: Friends and relationship advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23450601 - 07/17/16 05:33 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Agreed, I didn't take my friend's warnings when I was in a toxic relationship,
and on the other side, I've been trying to help my friend get out of / recover from a terrible, abusive, on-and-off relationship, but most of my advice falls on deaf ears and he has to suffer through his own mistakes to get it.
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Friends and relationship advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23451515 - 07/17/16 11:11 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Do you listen to your friends when they tell you "she's a crazy hoe/you shouldn't date her" or anything else you don't want to hear about a love interest?
I think I'd be pretty pissed if a friend said this to me. For starters, I'd be asking them how they were in any position to judge. And secondly, as has already been said twice, we must suffer our own mistakes to learn and grow.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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Anonymous #2
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There are always two sides
1. Your drunk and no I won't let you have your keys.
2. I'm drunk, your drunk, let's switch keys so neither of us can drive.
Honestly, the heart does have a strange place in the brain
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Curious Shroomer
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Re: Friends and relationship advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#23454750 - 07/19/16 12:05 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Havent been in this Situation but if one of my close Friends would properly tell me my Partner is Bad for me id listen and consider his Opinion and might ask other Friends/Family on their Opinion...
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pineninja
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Nope just you wait the penis will be your only muse when smitten.
-------------------- Just a fool on the hill.
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