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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: AuroraBorealis88] 3
#23446503 - 07/16/16 10:39 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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If you are living at home, you have to have better sense of boundaries and personal privacy.
personally I do not think jumping out of a plane is that good an idea, but it's your family and your space, and I want the acid if you are throwing it away.
finishing school is most important, and getting out of the house comes after that, or before if it flows.
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So basically OP you fucked up by telling your parents but it doesn't matter anymore because it's already too late and who knows maybe it was meant to be. However that was a major mistake mentioning that to them. Of course they're gonna say no, it's fucking Acid after all..
Even if they are "open" about these things (which they don't seem to very much be) you don't just go and say you're gonna take acid. Like I said earlier even people who I know who were open with their parents never told them about acid or DMT or whatever until after they did it. You're telling them beforehand which makes them feel like they have an obligation to steer you away from the acid because that would tehcniqually be more "responsible". And the reason I'm telling you all this isn't just for the acid but just for the sake of handling things a little bit differently from now on when you engage your parents about drugs. Telling people really anyone that you're "going to take acid" not "I have taken acid" is a little off putting in itself. Even just telling people you're gonna try shrooms in the near future will warrant a few odd reactions and weird looks easily.
Also why is it that you want to take acid anyways? Is that what you have the best connection for? If not then I would honestly suggest shrooms but w/e.
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It's nice to read all these comments, hearing about other peoples stories.
Well, things has "settled" down, and my mom has went from shock to being angry at me for telling, and that pissed me off, here's the reason why: My big bro had been smoking weed for around 3-4 years without my mom knowing, and my mom HATES weed, she is disgusted by anything related to weed, then one day, the only reason she found out, was because my big bros friends dad, which they smoked with occasionally, told her in the grocery store like it was nothing, because he thought my mom already knew. Well she didn't, and I've never seen her so dissapointed and abandoned before, because my big bro kept it from her. Since then, my mom told me she wanted to know when I tried smoking weed for the first time, and I assumed this went with everything, so that's why I told her about the LSD. I do see now that I shouldn't have done it, however I'm getting a free parachute jump (lol), and we have come to the conclusion, that it's time for me to move out. I want to live my own life, without the boundaries of my mom, and not just because I want to try LSD, I just want to feel like a grownup at last.
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AuroraBorealis88 said: So basically OP you fucked up by telling your parents but it doesn't matter anymore because it's already too late and who knows maybe it was meant to be. However that was a major mistake mentioning that to them. Of course they're gonna say no, it's fucking Acid after all..
Even if they are "open" about these things (which they don't seem to very much be) you don't just go and say you're gonna take acid. Like I said earlier even people who I know who were open with their parents never told them about acid or DMT or whatever until after they did it. You're telling them beforehand which makes them feel like they have an obligation to steer you away from the acid because that would tehcniqually be more "responsible". And the reason I'm telling you all this isn't just for the acid but just for the sake of handling things a little bit differently from now on when you engage your parents about drugs. Telling people really anyone that you're "going to take acid" not "I have taken acid" is a little off putting in itself. Even just telling people you're gonna try shrooms in the near future will warrant a few odd reactions and weird looks easily.
Also why is it that you want to take acid anyways? Is that what you have the best connection for? If not then I would honestly suggest shrooms but w/e.
Yeah I realise I have been very naive of some sort, because all I know about LSD and other psychadelics, is what I have read online, even though I have spent the over 50-60 hours researching on everything, and reading about peoples experiences, I had come to the conclusion that for the most part, LSD is actually pretty acceptable, because it basically only has upsides and no actual downsides, as long as you don't have a weak psyche, and you are in a good place in your life. But ofcourse as a parent you can never think of it like that, it doesn't matter what I show my mom about facts, studies and such.
The reason I bought LSD, is because even though I tried contacting everyone I knew, no one could get shrooms sadly.
But now when I move away from home, I can just grow them myself, I've read a lot about it in here, and it seems like an interesting hobby
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hopefully you can stay in school until your spelling and grammar come up.
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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: redgreenvines]
#23453257 - 07/18/16 03:08 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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redgreenvines said: hopefully you can stay in school until your spelling and grammar come up.
Wow, what is your problem? English isn't my mother language, and I don't really bother spellchecking, because it doesn't matter.
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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: redgreenvines]
#23453271 - 07/18/16 03:14 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've seen so many people on here with WAY worse spelling than yours. Your spelling and grammar seem fine to me, I didn't even see anything wrong but then again I'm also not going through every single word trying to make sure you spell it right either.
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redgreenvines said: hopefully you can stay in school until your spelling and grammar come up.
You didn't capitalize the 'H' in "hopefully".
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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: Kush_Zombie]
#23453552 - 07/18/16 04:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I started taking acid when I was 14
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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: GiBBz]
#23453582 - 07/18/16 04:41 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Personally op I agree with your father and think he cares about you immensely. Whichever way you choose be honest with him it sounds like you have a solid relationship and you him and yourself to keep it.
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Re: [Help!] My dad thinks I'm too young for LSD [Re: pineninja]
#23453609 - 07/18/16 04:48 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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What is it exactly that you "agree" with him about? Do you just agree with the fact that he's being protective? Because I definitely agree with that but is it that or is it the content of what he's actually saying that you agree with because I didn't hear anything remotely accurate or agreeable in that sense.
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AuroraBorealis88 said: What is it exactly that you "agree" with him about? Do you just agree with the fact that he's being protective? Because I definitely agree with that but is it that or is it the content of what he's actually saying that you agree with because I didn't hear anything remotely accurate or agreeable in that sense.
The exact reason why my dad thinks I'm too young for LSD, is because my mind haven't yet matured, and I have not yet created my own identity. He said that you will change a lot from when you're 19 till you're 25, and you have a lot to yet discover and find out about yourself. He thought that if I did LSD, I might not mature the way I'm supposed to be.
I don't think it's true at all, but I can't say for myself, only from what I have read, that many people who tried psychedelics has turned their lives into something better, but he thinks it will turn into something worse.
He also said that because of my young age, the LSD can take over in a way, so I can't tell the difference between drug and reality, because all I can refer to are movies and games, and not real life experience, which I will first have obtained when I'm older, so I won't get any spiritual and radical insight of myself.
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SvampebobFirkant said: He also said that because of my young age, the LSD can take over in a way, so I can't tell the difference between drug and reality, because all I can refer to are movies and games, and not real life experience, which I will first have obtained when I'm older, so I won't get any spiritual and radical insight of myself.
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SvampebobFirkant said: The exact reason why my dad thinks I'm too young for LSD, is because my mind haven't yet matured, and I have not yet created my own identity. He said that you will change a lot from when you're 19 till you're 25, and you have a lot to yet discover and find out about yourself. He thought that if I did LSD, I might not mature the way I'm supposed to be.
I don't think it's true at all, but I can't say for myself, only from what I have read, that many people who tried psychedelics has turned their lives into something better, but he thinks it will turn into something worse.
He also said that because of my young age, the LSD can take over in a way, so I can't tell the difference between drug and reality, because all I can refer to are movies and games, and not real life experience, which I will first have obtained when I'm older, so I won't get any spiritual and radical insight of myself.
Only people who are well into their thirtys or older can have this perspective only people younger would discount or laugh at it.
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SvampebobFirkant said:
The exact reason why my dad thinks I'm too young for LSD, is because my mind haven't yet matured, and I have not yet created my own identity. He said that you will change a lot from when you're 19 till you're 25, and you have a lot to yet discover and find out about yourself. He thought that if I did LSD, I might not mature the way I'm supposed to be.
He also said that because of my young age, the LSD can take over in a way, so I can't tell the difference between drug and reality, because all I can refer to are movies and games, and not real life experience, which I will first have obtained when I'm older, so I won't get any spiritual and radical insight of myself.
LMFAO ya that's all a bunch of bs but he's just morally obligated so there's not much else for him to say.
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I think your dad is just trying to keep you off drugs. You will be perfectly able to tell that youre on a drug and decipher the difference between the high and reality. I dont think movies and games have anything to do with your experience unless you are watching/playing games during your trip haha. At 19 you are perfectly able to think deeply about life and yourself. Take a hit when you have a chance to, like if youre able to have a whole day to yourself or with a friend. Ive had some of my strongest trips at 17/18 years old. Id like to do bigger doses again, just need to get my legs back with acid haha.
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SvampebobFirkant, I don't think you made a mistake by telling your parents. It sound like even though the conversation didn't go the way you thought it would go, it's still been productive. You've learned more about your parents and they've learned more about you. Whether they agree with what you say is less important than having open communication. In the end both of you're parents will respect you more for being open and truthful with them. It's not all that common at 19 to have an open, truthful relationship with your parents.
Hopefully they will both help and support you in finding you're own place and becoming more of your own person!
The LSD scare tactics are just that. There are some great long term studies you can look up about psychedelics changing your personality if you want to research it on your own. My dad told me at 18 that if I was going to try hallucinogens to take mushrooms because LSD will change your DNA. It was some crazy scare tactic someone told him long ago and it scared him. I thanked him for the advice, but took LSD when I thoght I was ready anyway. I'm pretty sure my DNA is fine
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Take it and go parachuting.
WAIT! Don't do that! Man that was a close call, you almost forgot to put your goggles on.
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Just do it when they are sleeping if it's such a big deal and you want it that bad
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