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OfflineRainman13


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Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience
    #23442832 - 07/15/16 02:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

We have been together for 2 and a half years. We are like opposites.

I smoke lots of weed. Like to take shrooms, lsd anything trippy really.

Im going to take acid pretty soon. Within the next month or so id say. I just asked her if she wanted to try it. This is how the convo went....

Me: Do you wanna try acid?

Her: What why?

Me: Old mate is getting me some

her: What why?

Me: Because i asked him to...

Her: What isnt that stuff really bad? At school they told it was really bad. And mum always did too because of dad
(i think her dad had drug/alcohol problems, we dont talk about her dad much because he dead)

Me: *laughing* Oh god.... Its all lies. Its not bad. Its the stuff hippies take and go on about peace and love etc

her: Why would want to do that?

Me: Because it is good shit! You dont really get it do you...

Her: Well what do you want me to be like? (sarcastically) OH YEA LETS GET REALLY FUCKED UP ALL THE TIME AND GROW LOTS OF WEED AND MUSHROOMS AND DO ALL THE DRUGS.

Me: ummmmmmm.... yes?

She just looked at me with this what the fuck face.

She just does not get it. She has been told all her life that all this stuff is bad. I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her.. So because of this she thinks its all bad news. I grow a little bit of weed and she HATES IT, she doesnt like me smoking, drinking or taking shrooms because it makes me "diffrent" Which is probably true. But its not like it turns me into this monster or something like she expects it all to

Ive tried talking her around but she just wont get the message. Can anybody try to help me make her understand? This is literary a part of my life and it bothers me that she disaproves! I cant eat mushrooms around her because i get bad vibes from her because of this!

HALP! :noob:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23442839 - 07/15/16 02:54 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Well you could show her some psycedelic experiences maybe read em to her? Tell her you can't OD on shrooms and maybe you could get her to do shrooms first then after tell her that lcd is a lil more intense ? Perhaps this will work gl brother


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Niciskarma]
    #23442876 - 07/15/16 03:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Maybe have a chat about trying shrooms together instead of acid, might not make any difference but being a natural thing that grows rather than a man made one might change her view? I myself favour things if they grow natural so maybe she might. Just suggest a low dose together and see how it goes, and say you know if dont like it i wont ask again :shrug:

But hopefully she'll love it hahaha :lol:

Say shit like how it might make you closer and all that kinda thing as they can put you on a kinda level together cant they lol shrooms are special :heart: cant od on them, and maybe have some great sex too ^_^

First time i tried them was with an ex he had used things and i hadnt and i didnt wana really cos i didnt understand about them, but he wanted me to try with him and promised we have a low dose and just see what i think, so i did, and was so glad :laugh:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Spellbound]
    #23442877 - 07/15/16 03:40 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Yeah, bring her over to the darkside, OP.

She'll be a psychonaut in no time :thumbup:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Spellbound]
    #23442879 - 07/15/16 03:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Ive thought about it but because of her views and stance on it im not sure if its a good idea. Ill definatly give it a shot. Il ask her when she comes back into the room and ill let you know what she says. I bet she will say no. I will persist!


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. [Re: Niciskarma]
    #23442880 - 07/15/16 03:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23442881 - 07/15/16 03:43 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Does anybody have some points i could bring up or anything i could try say to get her to try? I just thought acid might be more forgiving than shrooms though for her to try


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: ruaware]
    #23442885 - 07/15/16 03:45 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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ruaware said:
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Rainman13 said: I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her..




The feeling of having a direct family member like a brother or father be a drug addict, is a feeling you cant imagine until you experience. Her being against drugs isn't largely due to misinformation or anti drug propaganda. Its more than likely because of the trauma she's experienced growing up.

You wrote it yourself that you probably think its because of her father and brother. You're aware of it. But you have to try to understand it, in order to understand where she's coming from. If you can't understand it, then you need to at least respect it.

You know, while writing this to try to give you some advice from someone whose been there, i ended up learning something about my own life.



Yea i do understand and respect it. I dont push her to do anything. What do you mean you ended up learning something about your own life?

She also should understand and respect my choices also. Its not really a big issue or anything but it would be nice for her to understand why i do these things.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13] * 1
    #23442887 - 07/15/16 03:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You could try to show her or tell her about the various studies that have been done with psilocybin. That no one has ever overdosed, show her that graph that shows that psilocybin is the safest drug, tell her about the history, that it's an incredibly beautiful and wonderful experience, that it's non addictive, that all it does is bind to 5HT2A receptors in the brain and then leaves the body, that you can experience things on mushrooms that you can't in normal life like synesthesia, maybe show her some psychedelic art.

I'm sure there's a bunch of other good stuff I'm missing, this is just off the top of my head.


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    #23442889 - 07/15/16 03:50 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nooneman]
    #23442890 - 07/15/16 03:51 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Can you guys please tell me why you take LSD/ mushrooms.

This might help her understand it a little more. I tried googling this but got lots of stupid answers.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: ruaware]
    #23442893 - 07/15/16 03:52 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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ruaware said:
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Rainman13 said:
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ruaware said:
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Rainman13 said: I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her..




The feeling of having a direct family member like a brother or father be a drug addict, is a feeling you cant imagine until you experience. Her being against drugs isn't largely due to misinformation or anti drug propaganda. Its more than likely because of the trauma she's experienced growing up.

You wrote it yourself that you probably think its because of her father and brother. You're aware of it. But you have to try to understand it, in order to understand where she's coming from. If you can't understand it, then you need to at least respect it.

You know, while writing this to try to give you some advice from someone whose been there, i ended up learning something about my own life.



Yea i do understand and respect it. I dont push her to do anything. What do you mean you ended up learning something about your own life?

She also should understand and respect my choices also. Its not really a big issue or anything but it would be nice for her to understand why i do these things.




I don't want to get too personal, but simply put, my dad is a heroin addict and i figured some things out about my own life while writing that.



Sorry to hear.

My father was an alcoholic. He could get abusive. I dont mind a drink though. or two!


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Niciskarma]
    #23442906 - 07/15/16 04:00 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Manipulating someone that has a strong opinion like her (because of the abuse from her family) is a task that requires a lot of time and effort. There nothing that will change her opinion over night or in just a few days. Youll probably have to work on changing her whole outlook on life by gradually implementing ideas in her head. You have to be sneaky tho. She wont be receptive if she knows what youre trying to do. Shell be more receptive the more respect she has for you so you should do whatever you can to earn it. Try to make her come to the conclusion herself instead of telling her what to do.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23442907 - 07/15/16 04:02 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You should tell her that magic mushrooms are magic because you don't need anything for the experience, just the courage to eat them. Unlike many other substances that need to be cooked, smoked, brewed, or otherwise altered, the mushroom does not. Maybe do some research with her to try and show her how long these substances have been used, the harms (or lack there of) and benefits and as others have said, read about the experiences of others.

I think for the mushroom, history speaks for itself.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: HamHead] * 2
    #23442908 - 07/15/16 04:04 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You sound like a knob, respect your girlfriends decisions or move on.
Obviously you can try and reason with her but dont act like your a special cupcake because you do acid and stuff and she doesnt


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nssurge]
    #23442912 - 07/15/16 04:13 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

^ How did you know? I actually am a knob. Cheers

Well i asked her if she wanted to try shrooms and she said no. I asked if she is in any way interested in trying them and she said no. She is not really the type in any way. Not suprised. Oh well.

The main reason i want her to understand is it bothers me while im tripping. Just knowing this while i am tripping, in a fragile state of mind is bothersome and would make me more comfortable. Not trying to be the next Delhi lama mate.



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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nssurge]
    #23442944 - 07/15/16 05:13 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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nssurge said:
You sound like a knob, respect your girlfriends decisions or move on.
Obviously you can try and reason with her but dont act like your a special cupcake because you do acid and stuff and she doesnt



Maybe your right. She obviously isnt into it and i need to get over myself. Roger.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23443038 - 07/15/16 06:34 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Rainman13 said:
Does anybody have some points i could bring up or anything i could try say to get her to try? I just thought acid might be more forgiving than shrooms though for her to try




You should both watch the first two documentaries in my sig. PM me if you need more info.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: reppc]
    #23443167 - 07/15/16 07:53 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Does your girlfriend get bad headaches? Is she on one of those horrible migraine medications? My wife is - and hates it. I got her to watch a documentary about shrooms and cluster headaches, and I got her to read some articles and now when the headaches hit she's asking me when I'm gonna grow more shrooms.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
    #23443187 - 07/15/16 08:02 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

does she smoke weed?


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: guyute22]
    #23443221 - 07/15/16 08:21 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Im gonna use that conversation in a personal ad. Wanted:female that thinks what the fuck is an appropriate resonse to that haha. Try cooking some in her food like a microdose. She'd tell you that for some reason she's be in a good mood etc all week
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: reppc]
    #23443222 - 07/15/16 08:22 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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reppc said:
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Rainman13 said:
Does anybody have some points i could bring up or anything i could try say to get her to try? I just thought acid might be more forgiving than shrooms though for her to try




You should both watch the first two documentaries in my sig. PM me if you need more info.





Wherecan i watch neurons to nirvana? The link in your sig is only the trailer


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I do not know its name; I call it tao.
If forced to give it a name, I call it
Great (ta). Being great, it flows out;
Flowing out means far-reaching;
Being far-reaching, it is said to return.


It's just a shot away..


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
    #23443458 - 07/15/16 09:47 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Pretty typical....Men are risk takers...women are not....it's in our DNA... not to say some women don't really enjoy tripping but my experience shows that it's typically guys that are most into this!

  You can't really Force this experience on her she has to do it willingly. Mostly you should focus on just getting her to accept the fact that you do them and just enjoy doing your trips and if she chooses to join you then cool:awethumb:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: voodoochild1000]
    #23443609 - 07/15/16 10:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I've had plenty of friends that absolutely did not get the whole psychedelic experience.

To them, LSD and shrooms destroyed lives, made your brain bleed, gave you psychosis, etc. I was never able to sway their opinions.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: jds]
    #23443866 - 07/15/16 12:47 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

There's a meme about this. The girlfriend gets dumped. Good luck friend.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: voodoochild1000]
    #23443870 - 07/15/16 12:49 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

No. No no no. Being female has nothing to do with enjoying drugs. Sure men take more risks - but this is assuming you see drugs as a risk in the first place. It's about perception and strength of mind. If she doesn't get it now she won't until she learns for herself or she'll just ignore drugs forever. No changing her. There are plenty of women like myself who grow, without the help of a man, and who do so for their own enjoyment. It sounds like that's what you need. (Especially if she's upset over something like growing cannabis...)


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23444223 - 07/15/16 02:59 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Quote:

Rainman13 said:
We have been together for 2 and a half years. We are like opposites.

I smoke lots of weed. Like to take shrooms, lsd anything trippy really.

Im going to take acid pretty soon. Within the next month or so id say. I just asked her if she wanted to try it. This is how the convo went....

Me: Do you wanna try acid?

Her: What why?

Me: Old mate is getting me some

her: What why?

Me: Because i asked him to...

Her: What isnt that stuff really bad? At school they told it was really bad. And mum always did too because of dad
(i think her dad had drug/alcohol problems, we dont talk about her dad much because he dead)

Me: *laughing* Oh god.... Its all lies. Its not bad. Its the stuff hippies take and go on about peace and love etc

her: Why would want to do that?

Me: Because it is good shit! You dont really get it do you...

Her: Well what do you want me to be like? (sarcastically) OH YEA LETS GET REALLY FUCKED UP ALL THE TIME AND GROW LOTS OF WEED AND MUSHROOMS AND DO ALL THE DRUGS.

Me: ummmmmmm.... yes?

She just looked at me with this what the fuck face.

She just does not get it.




No offense man but I don't think you handled that very well. You didn't do a very good job at conveying how absurdly different it is from other drugs. Ask your gf if she wants a mystical experience because that's what LSD is. You can't treat it like other intoxicants. You can't just say to people who have never done psychedelics things like "oh acid is awesome" because they just won't get it.
Your gf will probably have this weird attitude until she tries it or looks into it, you can't just be like "haha because it's awesome" or because whatever because that just makes it seem like "another thing". Right now your gf thinks LSD is just another dumb thing just another silly drug for immature people. You have to get through to her in a different way than you're doing right now unfortunately.
My gf I have been dating for about 2 1/2 years now too and though she may have a somewhat weird view on psychedelics she still wants to try them because I've explained over and over again how safe, amazing and spiritual they are.

It isn't comparable to drugs or cartoons or dreams the only thing I can think to compare it to is traveling.


Edited by AuroraBorealis88 (07/15/16 03:06 PM)


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: AuroraBorealis88]
    #23444233 - 07/15/16 03:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

And I don't think reiterating how "safe" it is will sway anyone's opinion either because even then they just wont see the point in doing it.

I tell most people because the true nature of life, reality and consciousness cannot be encompassed from the viewpoint of the ego and the only way to dissolve it is through using psychedelic tryptamines like LSD, Mushrooms or DMT.

Tell your gf she'll only be able to get their if she takes a psychedelic tryptamine, meditates for years or takes up sensory deprivation.
IMO if you're not meditating or doing yoga or sensory deprivation then you absolutely need to take a psychedelic tryptamine because there's no way you can really "get it" without doing at least one of those things. Human beings need a regular ritual encounter with the forces that dissolve boundaries.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: AuroraBorealis88]
    #23444547 - 07/15/16 04:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Mike4aco said:
Im gonna use that conversation in a personal ad. Wanted:female that thinks what the fuck is an appropriate resonse to that haha. Try cooking some in her food like a microdose. She'd tell you that for some reason she's be in a good mood etc all week
Oh really mush be the mushies



haha... yea na... She would not be impressed.

To everybody that asked she does not smoke weed. She even hates the smell of it.

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Rainman13 said:
We have been together for 2 and a half years. We are like opposites.

I smoke lots of weed. Like to take shrooms, lsd anything trippy really.

Im going to take acid pretty soon. Within the next month or so id say. I just asked her if she wanted to try it. This is how the convo went....

Me: Do you wanna try acid?

Her: What why?

Me: Old mate is getting me some

her: What why?

Me: Because i asked him to...

Her: What isnt that stuff really bad? At school they told it was really bad. And mum always did too because of dad
(i think her dad had drug/alcohol problems, we dont talk about her dad much because he dead)

Me: *laughing* Oh god.... Its all lies. Its not bad. Its the stuff hippies take and go on about peace and love etc

her: Why would want to do that?

Me: Because it is good shit! You dont really get it do you...

Her: Well what do you want me to be like? (sarcastically) OH YEA LETS GET REALLY FUCKED UP ALL THE TIME AND GROW LOTS OF WEED AND MUSHROOMS AND DO ALL THE DRUGS.

Me: ummmmmmm.... yes?

She just looked at me with this what the fuck face.

She just does not get it.




No offense man but I don't think you handled that very well. You didn't do a very good job at conveying how absurdly different it is from other drugs. Ask your gf if she wants a mystical experience because that's what LSD is. You can't treat it like other intoxicants. You can't just say to people who have never done psychedelics things like "oh acid is awesome" because they just won't get it.
Your gf will probably have this weird attitude until she tries it or looks into it, you can't just be like "haha because it's awesome" or because whatever because that just makes it seem like "another thing". Right now your gf thinks LSD is just another dumb thing just another silly drug for immature people. You have to get through to her in a different way than you're doing right now unfortunately.
My gf I have been dating for about 2 1/2 years now too and though she may have a somewhat weird view on psychedelics she still wants to try them because I've explained over and over again how safe, amazing and spiritual they are.

It isn't comparable to drugs or cartoons or dreams the only thing I can think to compare it to is traveling.



Yea i could have handled it better. I sort of put myself on the spot and i could have said something better. Maybe ill try talking to her about it. But she has 0 interest in anything drug related so i dont think i will et very far any time soon. I will tread lightly.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23444800 - 07/15/16 06:08 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Holy shit. You described my relationship to a T... i feel you man


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: brandonshmandon] * 1
    #23444885 - 07/15/16 06:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Holy shit. You described my relationship to a T... i feel you man



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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23445009 - 07/15/16 07:17 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

IDK dude is she your soulmate? If she ain't then maybe reevaluate your priorities. Meaning: Ditch the bitch, no offense.

If she is your soulmate... you need to reevaluate your priorities. Meaning maybe you should choose her over the experience.

I had a significant other much like this once.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13] * 1
    #23445019 - 07/15/16 07:24 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I don't mean to piss on your party OP, but your GF isn't the woman for you. Trying to convince her that your drug use is a positive aspect of your life is never going to work, in her mind it's all bad. You're never going to receive her acceptance.

You want your cake and to eat it as well, it doesn't work that way. At a certain point it will either be the drugs or her, I suggest just being independent and stop trying to seek her approval, eventually you will have to move on.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: qman]
    #23445440 - 07/15/16 10:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I just explained to my gf all of the positives of mushrooms and explained how these been used as spiritual tools for thousands of years and it's a profound experience.

I even got my gf to do mushrooms after all that she did them three times and had a difficult time and now doesn't see the need to do them. She gets upset when I trip but it's usually only for a little bit. I know what you mean about how her dissaproval can make your head space wrong for tripping it'd happened to me but I just tell my gf I see mushrooms as medicine and not a drug if that makes any sense lol.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: impaired420]
    #23445715 - 07/16/16 01:19 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

My GF has dropped more acid than me and is usually the first with the idea to hook some up. Its kind of cool but in all honestly at the peak we are totally separate in any event and more at one with the "all". So I am not sure why this bothers you so much?

That said pushing anybody into it is a bad idea and asking for trouble.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Jeff Vader]
    #23445803 - 07/16/16 02:30 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

It's sucks that people stay in long relationships and get married to people they have nothing in common with. My parents were basically associates and had nothing in common, hated, and resented each other when I moved out and they're still together:rolleyes:

I've never considered a long term relationship with someone who doesn't at least understand psychedelics.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Eggtimer] * 1
    #23445826 - 07/16/16 02:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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It's sucks that people stay in long relationships and get married to people they have nothing in common with. My parents were basically associates and had nothing in common, hated, and resented each other when I moved out and they're still together:rolleyes:

I've never considered a long term relationship with someone who doesn't at least understand psychedelics.



Sometimes its quite hard... Espically when we he hate each others music taste.

We have talked about splitin up and i honestly feel like we should but we do get along so well aside from these things.


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    #23446789 - 07/16/16 12:54 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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It's sucks that people stay in long relationships and get married to people they have nothing in common with. My parents were basically associates and had nothing in common, hated, and resented each other when I moved out and they're still together:rolleyes:

I've never considered a long term relationship with someone who doesn't at least understand psychedelics.



Sometimes its quite hard... Espically when we he hate each others music taste.

We have talked about splitin up and i honestly feel like we should but we do get along so well aside from these things.




If theres any doubt then you have to break up man, its hard but so worth it for both of you. So many fish in the sea


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nssurge]
    #23446791 - 07/16/16 12:54 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I don't get it either.. :shrug:


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    #23446844 - 07/16/16 01:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

As others have said your best bet is dropping it for now. Being pushy will just make her more suspicious/ doubtful most likely. However also as has been said showing her some of the many recent positive studies on mushrooms could help change her view. Maybe try explaining their long and amazing history, if she is even a remotely spiritual/ religious person she might be interested in that.

Finding some really beautiful deep trip reports to read with her could help as well. She probably can't even begin to imagine the nature of these experiences so how can you expect her to be interested in partaking in them? I would try to slowly educate her if she is interested at least, if not you only really have 2 options. Move past this issue or break up and try to find a better match :shrug:

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: qman]
    #23446866 - 07/16/16 01:25 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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I don't mean to piss on your party OP, but your GF isn't the woman for you. Trying to convince her that your drug use is a positive aspect of your life is never going to work, in her mind it's all bad. You're never going to receive her acceptance.

You want your cake and to eat it as well, it doesn't work that way. At a certain point it will either be the drugs or her, I suggest just being independent and stop trying to seek her approval, eventually you will have to move on.





Or....

You could do like I do. My GF doesn't do drugs, and has never even smoked anything ever not once.

I get all sorts of trippy.

Just don't try to get your girlfriend to do drugs with you, problem mostly solved.

Next thing I do is, just don't trip around her so much. If I'm trippin at home, I drop after she leaves for work. I'm close enough to baseline that it's all just good vibes and smiles by the time she gets home.

She has rarely seen me looped out of my mind. Mostly after glows and stuff.

She isn't against me tripping and stuff because I let her know up front at the beginning that I don't fuck around with that kind of bullshit.

Been together for years.

Op if your lady is anti drugs and doesn't want you doing them, I would suggest taking her to a festival, that'll give her a good idea of what the psychedelic experience is like without having to trip herself.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Supachopped719]
    #23447251 - 07/16/16 04:21 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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I don't mean to piss on your party OP, but your GF isn't the woman for you. Trying to convince her that your drug use is a positive aspect of your life is never going to work, in her mind it's all bad. You're never going to receive her acceptance.

You want your cake and to eat it as well, it doesn't work that way. At a certain point it will either be the drugs or her, I suggest just being independent and stop trying to seek her approval, eventually you will have to move on.





Or....

You could do like I do. My GF doesn't do drugs, and has never even smoked anything ever not once.

I get all sorts of trippy.

Just don't try to get your girlfriend to do drugs with you, problem mostly solved.

Next thing I do is, just don't trip around her so much. If I'm trippin at home, I drop after she leaves for work. I'm close enough to baseline that it's all just good vibes and smiles by the time she gets home.

She has rarely seen me looped out of my mind. Mostly after glows and stuff.

She isn't against me tripping and stuff because I let her know up front at the beginning that I don't fuck around with that kind of bullshit.

Been together for years.

Op if your lady is anti drugs and doesn't want you doing them, I would suggest taking her to a festival, that'll give her a good idea of what the psychedelic experience is like without having to trip herself.



Yea she isnt totally against me doing it she knows i do it. The way i phrased things it might have come accross that way.

I think for now ill just leave it. I will defiantly take any opportunity to spark her interest but no pushing for sure! Its not really that bi of a deal!

And i got my hit of acid last night so im ready to go for next weekend!!! Looking foward to it so much! First time ive dropped in nearly 3 years! Hopefully its not some sort of RC. Shame its $40 for 1 hit in my country... Crazy that thats the norm round here...


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23447267 - 07/16/16 04:30 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Shame its $40 for 1 hit in my country... Crazy that thats the norm round
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Where on earth do you live? :confused: It may be worth getting a test kit in the future to be safe especially if your spending that much.


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    #23447333 - 07/16/16 05:01 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

New Zealand. I tried to buy a elhrich? kit online but the transaction kept failing and there is no other place i can find that sells one. Id have to import one and i dont think it will come in time by next weekend!

Id love to get a bunch off darknet but no way am i taking that risk.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23447379 - 07/16/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Or....

You could do like I do. My GF doesn't do drugs, and has never even smoked anything ever not once.

[snip]




:whathesaid:


My girlfriend is Korean, and in her culture all drugs are viewed as really bad and illegal things without any merit. Cannabis is seen as on par with heroin, from what I can gather. Luckily for me she's a really open-minded girl, and she doesn't have a problem with me smoking up every day even though we live together. I've explained to her that for me, smoking a few cones every evening is akin to having a glass of wine with dinner, and she's seen that I don't actually get very stoned due to my tolerance. She's actually smoked a bit of bud herself before I met her, and will occasionally have a puff with me on the weekend when we're watching a movie or something.

She knows that I also like magic mushrooms, because I've never made any effort to hide it from her -- hiding drug use from your SO is a terrible idea, by the way. I've shown her fresh ones I've collected and my dried stash, and I've described the effects and whatnot. I think she might slightly disapprove of it or prefer that I wouldn't do them, but she doesn't have any major hangups with them and she's openly told me that it's my hobby, it's been my hobby since before I knew her, and she's OK with that. I don't trip around her though, because that might get a bit weird.

The only stipulation she has is that I don't do drugs which are addictive or harmful, which is something I've always subscribed to long before we were going out. I've often brought up some drug harm indexes and shown her that psilocybin always ranks in the bottom of those lists. Funnily enough alcohol always rates near the top, and Korea has a huge problem with alcoholism and alcohol ingrained into their culture. It's lead to some interesting discussions about the perception of the drugs I do as being harmful, versus the reality of the harm of legal drugs.

Anyway. Sorry for rambling OP. I don't have any advice to give, I'm just sorry that your girlfriend isn't as understanding as mine :love: Relationships are full of compromises. You've just got to do decide what you are and aren't willing to compromise on.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23447405 - 07/16/16 05:37 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

That is weird the transaction kept failing. Like I said it may be a good idea to get one in the future as I know they are not easy to come by everywhere.

The dark net really is less risky in many ways at least on a personal level and if you are at least a bit computer savvy.

Getting stuff locally is usually more convenient though of course. But now a days you can actually find higher quality stuff and lower prices online.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: musiclover420]
    #23447431 - 07/16/16 05:50 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I would just break up with her, she sounds close minded and indoctrinated and irritating.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Matai]
    #23447710 - 07/16/16 07:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Supachopped719 said:

Or....

You could do like I do. My GF doesn't do drugs, and has never even smoked anything ever not once.

[snip]




:whathesaid:


My girlfriend is Korean, and in her culture all drugs are viewed as really bad and illegal things without any merit. Cannabis is seen as on par with heroin, from what I can gather. Luckily for me she's a really open-minded girl, and she doesn't have a problem with me smoking up every day even though we live together. I've explained to her that for me, smoking a few cones every evening is akin to having a glass of wine with dinner, and she's seen that I don't actually get very stoned due to my tolerance. She's actually smoked a bit of bud herself before I met her, and will occasionally have a puff with me on the weekend when we're watching a movie or something.

She knows that I also like magic mushrooms, because I've never made any effort to hide it from her -- hiding drug use from your SO is a terrible idea, by the way. I've shown her fresh ones I've collected and my dried stash, and I've described the effects and whatnot. I think she might slightly disapprove of it or prefer that I wouldn't do them, but she doesn't have any major hangups with them and she's openly told me that it's my hobby, it's been my hobby since before I knew her, and she's OK with that. I don't trip around her though, because that might get a bit weird.

The only stipulation she has is that I don't do drugs which are addictive or harmful, which is something I've always subscribed to long before we were going out. I've often brought up some drug harm indexes and shown her that psilocybin always ranks in the bottom of those lists. Funnily enough alcohol always rates near the top, and Korea has a huge problem with alcoholism and alcohol ingrained into their culture. It's lead to some interesting discussions about the perception of the drugs I do as being harmful, versus the reality of the harm of legal drugs.

Anyway. Sorry for rambling OP. I don't have any advice to give, I'm just sorry that your girlfriend isn't as understanding as mine :love: Relationships are full of compromises. You've just got to do decide what you are and aren't willing to compromise on.



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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: xzylocybin]
    #23447853 - 07/16/16 09:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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I would just break up with her, she sounds close minded and indoctrinated and irritating.




That's kinda what I'm thinking.  :lol:

Some people might think it's petty to break up with someone over drugs, but psychedelics are obviously a big deal to OP, as with many of us.  Somebody having such an opposing, polarizing opinion on this topic would be a deal-breaker for me.
There are way too many people out there to stick around with someone who doesn't get you.

On the other hand, the rest of the relationship could be a mind-blowing, beautiful thing that is worth the trouble.  It's impossible to say from a single shroomery thread.

Follow your heart, OP.  :mushroom2:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #23448269 - 07/16/16 11:21 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I feel like you should be dating someone who will share the beauty of psychedelics with you, it is so amazing to trip with someone you love and sex on psychedelics is fucking epic, you don't need to miss out on that.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: xzylocybin]
    #23448618 - 07/17/16 02:04 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Id just drop it. If she isnt willing to listen or consider trying it, dont push her toward it. If she at least respects your choice to trip that is more important.

I would explain what psychedelics have done for me and shown me. And if she doesnt wanna hear it id just leave it at that.


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    #23448810 - 07/17/16 05:00 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I'l never see a girl who doenst go raving with me ever again. Its so much better


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    #23448926 - 07/17/16 06:51 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Id accept that she doesnt like it. But i would also show her that its not the horrible stuff that the general public tells us its is.

Thats what i did with my GF....at first she freaked out when i told her i was going to try shrooms and acid (well 1P LSD) but when i was tripping and showed her im not going insane and explained her how it felt and all that she was ok with it. She wont try it herself but she respect my decision to use this instead of alcohol.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Curious Shroomer]
    #23449129 - 07/17/16 08:40 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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I would just break up with her, she sounds close minded and indoctrinated and irritating.




Only a complete loser / drug addict would break up with his woman because she won't use drugs. If that is a deal breaker, then you need help. Drugs are fun and interesting, but a life that revolves around drugs alone is not a long one. There's much more to life. At 18 I would have rejected this as nonsense, but a few decades down the line, looking back, it's the truth.

Also, if you plan to stick around on this planet and get married, have kids, you don't really want a woman who's all gung hoe on drugs. You need a woman who can reel you in when you get too out there, and one who can stay clean for a few years, a decade or longer while the kids are growing up.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
    #23449233 - 07/17/16 09:10 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Sounds like you two just aren't compatible. There's nothing wrong with that, such is life.


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    #23449689 - 07/17/16 12:00 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

That culture is quite indoctrinated about 'the evils of drugs'


Easier to do that, than give detailed education on all types. Rx and alcohol of course are perfectly fine!  ><


Quite a few SEA countries have death penalties for drug offenses, so it's serious shit.


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    #23449755 - 07/17/16 12:27 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

not everyone wants a woman to reel them in and poop out babies, I would rather have a woman who I can experience the wonders of psilocybin and marijuana with, that doesn't make me a drug addict or mean I need help


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: xzylocybin]
    #23449766 - 07/17/16 12:32 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

:whathesaid:
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When I was younger I thought I would never date a woman who didn't at least toke, but my last GF barely smoked and we lasted almost 2 years :shrug:

Though I would have much rather spent those 2 years with someone I could connect with more and toke up with...


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: musiclover420] * 1
    #23449795 - 07/17/16 12:47 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I like having a girlfriend that doesn't get messed up.

I can always have a sober sitter if I need.

I don't have to smoke someone else out constantly.

I don't have to worry about her getting in trouble with the law pretty much ever.

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Supachopped719]
    #23449879 - 07/17/16 01:17 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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not everyone wants a woman to reel them in and poop out babies, I would rather have a woman who I can experience the wonders of psilocybin and marijuana with, that doesn't make me a drug addict or mean I need help




Yeah, but that reduces your selection to mostly slobs and dirtbag women who have poor personal hygiene. Sober women have sweeter breath and cleaner vaginas. That's been my experience.


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    #23450125 - 07/17/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

good point that has been my experience too, still hoping to one day find a clean hygienic trippy girl without mental issues though, lol but so far it has been like chasing a rainbow


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
    #23450589 - 07/17/16 05:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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not everyone wants a woman to reel them in and poop out babies, I would rather have a woman who I can experience the wonders of psilocybin and marijuana with, that doesn't make me a drug addict or mean I need help




Yeah, but that reduces your selection to mostly slobs and dirtbag women who have poor personal hygiene. Sober women have sweeter breath and cleaner vaginas. That's been my experience.




lol what?  Not all trippy people are fucking wooks, man.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #23450667 - 07/17/16 05:56 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

:whathesaid:

I feel like more grotty girls and guys probably drink and use harder drugs over cannabis and psychedelics../


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
    #23450682 - 07/17/16 06:02 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Sober women have sweeter breath and cleaner vaginas. That's been my experience.




Not in my experience. Who the fuck is sober anyways? Where are these so-called "sober people" that I sometimes hear about?


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: AuroraBorealis88]
    #23451073 - 07/17/16 08:16 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Universe said:
Sober women have sweeter breath and cleaner vaginas. That's been my experience.




Not in my experience. Who the fuck is sober anyways? Where are these so-called "sober people" that I sometimes hear about?



 

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: xzylocybin]
    #23451106 - 07/17/16 08:26 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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good point that has been my experience too, still hoping to one day find a clean hygienic trippy girl without mental issues though, lol but so far it has been like chasing a rainbow





Good luck ever finding anyone without some form of mental issues. There is no such thing as a perfect human brain. Assuming that there is such a thing seems like a form of mental "issue" in and of itself . Which actually relates back to the main issue quite a bit, the mindset that we all have to be a certain way in the first place. Of course morals and common sense are not connected to mental issues so.. Maybe be a bit less selective..


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
    #23451144 - 07/17/16 08:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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not everyone wants a woman to reel them in and poop out babies, I would rather have a woman who I can experience the wonders of psilocybin and marijuana with, that doesn't make me a drug addict or mean I need help




Yeah, but that reduces your selection to mostly slobs and dirtbag women who have poor personal hygiene. Sober women have sweeter breath and cleaner vaginas. That's been my experience.




That's fucking hilarious.


I bet these chicks pussies have rotting garbage in them. Gross :scat: Their teeth probably black from all the loads they've eaten.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Eggtimer]
    #23451410 - 07/17/16 10:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23451489 - 07/17/16 10:59 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Can you guys please tell me why you take LSD/ mushrooms.

This might help her understand it a little more. I tried googling this but got lots of stupid answers.




If you don't mind me asking, does your girlfriend suffer from any issues such as any form of anxiety or depression or combo thereof? I ask because I know from personal experience that trauma victims are more susceptible to such--and that for me psychedelics work better than any SSRI or talk therapy or combo thereof that I've tried.

Using psychedelics allows me to cope with my abuse, which I still struggle with now and again even though it's been years. I have severe anxiety that many times doesn't let me leave my house or leaves me so terribly irritable and nervous that I can't even be around my SO or family. It's crippling--BUT any week I find myself having more bad days than good, I'll make room on my schedule for a good trip. I dance, paint, me and my SO go on walks, talk about the universe, and I'm ALWAYS feeling better and having more good days vs bad days the next week. :thumbup:

There is also fascinating new research showing that LSD 'makes your brain more complete'.
LSD Makes The Brain More Complete

Another thing I'm a firm believer is that while you can coax her as much as your want, even if/when she comes around, it's still going to be first-time dive off the high board. A relaxed environment might do her good.

Does she enjoy coloring/drawing/music/artsy-type activities? If she's into art even a little bit that's probably another one of your best bets at getting her to come around. ANY art-type things on psychedelics as I'm sure you know is such a beautiful experience, she's pretty much guaranteed to have a good trip painting/dancing/playing music/coloring etc.

Maybe by the time you're ready to bring up the topic to her again this helps.

Best of luck and good vibes to you and yours~


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: PickleJam]
    #23451559 - 07/17/16 11:38 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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PickleJam said:
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Rainman13 said:
Can you guys please tell me why you take LSD/ mushrooms.

This might help her understand it a little more. I tried googling this but got lots of stupid answers.




If you don't mind me asking, does your girlfriend suffer from any issues such as any form of anxiety or depression or combo thereof? I ask because I know from personal experience that trauma victims are more susceptible to such--and that for me psychedelics work better than any SSRI or talk therapy or combo thereof that I've tried.

Using psychedelics allows me to cope with my abuse, which I still struggle with now and again even though it's been years. I have severe anxiety that many times doesn't let me leave my house or leaves me so terribly irritable and nervous that I can't even be around my SO or family. It's crippling--BUT any week I find myself having more bad days than good, I'll make room on my schedule for a good trip. I dance, paint, me and my SO go on walks, talk about the universe, and I'm ALWAYS feeling better and having more good days vs bad days the next week. :thumbup:

There is also fascinating new research showing that LSD 'makes your brain more complete'.
LSD Makes The Brain More Complete

Another thing I'm a firm believer is that while you can coax her as much as your want, even if/when she comes around, it's still going to be first-time dive off the high board. A relaxed environment might do her good.

Does she enjoy coloring/drawing/music/artsy-type activities? If she's into art even a little bit that's probably another one of your best bets at getting her to come around. ANY art-type things on psychedelics as I'm sure you know is such a beautiful experience, she's pretty much guaranteed to have a good trip painting/dancing/playing music/coloring etc.

Maybe by the time you're ready to bring up the topic to her again this helps.

Best of luck and good vibes to you and yours~



She takes stuff for depression. She is not into any arty things or anything. All she really does is sit around the house all day playing games on her phone. Sometimes i really wonder why im with her. Im quite an active person and i feel like she drags me down alot to be honest.

(To my girl, if you are reading this while im at work sorry :/ but its true)


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23451626 - 07/18/16 12:12 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

ain't no way I'd put up with that OP so hopefully your girl is something special. Certainly at least try swaying her to your side. I could not date someone like that, just flat out no


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23453528 - 07/18/16 04:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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She takes stuff for depression. She is not into any arty things or anything.




She takes stuff for depression? Are you serious? Dude why are you not telling her about all the benefits of psychedelics?

There's no greater cure on earth for depression than psilocybin. Plus antidepressants fuck up your brain permanently...
Don't tell me you're letting her take anti depressants..I would never let anyone I care for take that nasty stuff.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Sleepwalker]
    #23453614 - 07/18/16 04:50 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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lol what?  Not all trippy people are fucking wooks, man.




Well, I did say "Mostly" and "in my experience". YMMV. If you find a clean one, don't let her go! :cool:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe] * 1
    #23453866 - 07/18/16 06:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Im in almost the exact same situation my wife hates all drugs for the same reasons as yours but i recently explaned to her my experience on shrooms and how i find shrooms (and all other psychedelics) to be a teacher rather than a party drug, they're not addictive and you cant overdose and also showed her some positive life changing trip reports on youtube. She is still nervous and hasnt had any yet but has said its something she wants to do.

So maybe try explaining like that and dont be to pushy let her find it in her own time.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: AuroraBorealis88]
    #23456916 - 07/19/16 05:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I agree. But her depression medication wouldn't interfere with a Psychedelic drug, right? I mean that's an obvious thing, but just felt like I should bring it up.

I would maybe talk to her about Philosophical/Spiritual ideas first. Get comfortable with talking about things like that. Maybe let her listen to some Alan Watts talks or Terence McKenna or whatever, you know? That way she can at least have some kind of inclination towards those kinds of things before just talking about Psychedelic drugs directly.

Just telling her "They're safe, don't worry." probably won't convince her. Even if she trusts you, which I'm sure she does.

Show her some books, information, etc... But don't be pushy of course. Good It's hard to convince someone right away that Psychedelics are good. Usually people are spiritually-inclined or the more artistic kind of people that eventually take Psychedelics. I would say to just try to get there eventually through a different route. Show her some of the respectable people who have taken Psychedelics and their ideas and what not. Good luck man.


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
    #23461706 - 07/21/16 06:05 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Rainman13 said:
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PickleJam said:
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Rainman13 said:
Can you guys please tell me why you take LSD/ mushrooms.

This might help her understand it a little more. I tried googling this but got lots of stupid answers.




If you don't mind me asking, does your girlfriend suffer from any issues such as any form of anxiety or depression or combo thereof? I ask because I know from personal experience that trauma victims are more susceptible to such--and that for me psychedelics work better than any SSRI or talk therapy or combo thereof that I've tried.

Using psychedelics allows me to cope with my abuse, which I still struggle with now and again even though it's been years. I have severe anxiety that many times doesn't let me leave my house or leaves me so terribly irritable and nervous that I can't even be around my SO or family. It's crippling--BUT any week I find myself having more bad days than good, I'll make room on my schedule for a good trip. I dance, paint, me and my SO go on walks, talk about the universe, and I'm ALWAYS feeling better and having more good days vs bad days the next week. :thumbup:

There is also fascinating new research showing that LSD 'makes your brain more complete'.
LSD Makes The Brain More Complete

Another thing I'm a firm believer is that while you can coax her as much as your want, even if/when she comes around, it's still going to be first-time dive off the high board. A relaxed environment might do her good.

Does she enjoy coloring/drawing/music/artsy-type activities? If she's into art even a little bit that's probably another one of your best bets at getting her to come around. ANY art-type things on psychedelics as I'm sure you know is such a beautiful experience, she's pretty much guaranteed to have a good trip painting/dancing/playing music/coloring etc.

Maybe by the time you're ready to bring up the topic to her again this helps.

Best of luck and good vibes to you and yours~



She takes stuff for depression. She is not into any arty things or anything. All she really does is sit around the house all day playing games on her phone. Sometimes i really wonder why im with her. Im quite an active person and i feel like she drags me down alot to be honest.

(To my girl, if you are reading this while im at work sorry :/ but its true)




I used to be with someone like this, let me guess shes shit in bed too? or never horny?
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: mctaveesh]
    #23462280 - 07/21/16 10:23 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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I agree. But her depression medication wouldn't interfere with a Psychedelic drug, right? I mean that's an obvious thing, but just felt like I should bring it up.

I would maybe talk to her about Philosophical/Spiritual ideas first. Get comfortable with talking about things like that. Maybe let her listen to some Alan Watts talks or Terence McKenna or whatever, you know? That way she can at least have some kind of inclination towards those kinds of things before just talking about Psychedelic drugs directly.

Just telling her "They're safe, don't worry." probably won't convince her. Even if she trusts you, which I'm sure she does.

Show her some books, information, etc... But don't be pushy of course. Good It's hard to convince someone right away that Psychedelics are good. Usually people are spiritually-inclined or the more artistic kind of people that eventually take Psychedelics. I would say to just try to get there eventually through a different route. Show her some of the respectable people who have taken Psychedelics and their ideas and what not. Good luck man.




  Her medication very well could interfere with her trip! My girlfriend was in anti depressants last summer and tried LSD for her first time and had no effect where as I took the same amount and was tripping calls. If her medication is an SSRI than it wouldn't be a good idea for her to take psychedelics. Those drugs effect the seretonin and will stop the lsd or fungus from working.
  She also tried DMT and had no effect on her either where as my friend and I were on another planet. Once she got off her anti depressants she was able to trip on L again. I've read it can also do damage to your brain taking certain drugs on top of SSRI's and other kinds of anti depressants so just be careful and look into it before taking it. :smile:


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: AVShroomer]
    #23468407 - 07/23/16 06:44 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I'm new here but just wanted to add that it sounds like there are other issues in the relationship besides tripping you need to think really hard about. If it's worth it don't let something like psychedelics get in the way of happiness.

That being said, my wife and I have always been into tripping together a couple times a year and it really bonds us together. It's amazing to share that with someone you love. We've been married over 7 years now and have kids... I realize how lucky I am daily. Safe travels and good luck OP.


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