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Rainman13


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Girlfriend doesnt get the whole Psychedelic Experience
#23442832 - 07/15/16 02:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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We have been together for 2 and a half years. We are like opposites.
I smoke lots of weed. Like to take shrooms, lsd anything trippy really.
Im going to take acid pretty soon. Within the next month or so id say. I just asked her if she wanted to try it. This is how the convo went....
Me: Do you wanna try acid?
Her: What why?
Me: Old mate is getting me some
her: What why?
Me: Because i asked him to...
Her: What isnt that stuff really bad? At school they told it was really bad. And mum always did too because of dad (i think her dad had drug/alcohol problems, we dont talk about her dad much because he dead)
Me: *laughing* Oh god.... Its all lies. Its not bad. Its the stuff hippies take and go on about peace and love etc
her: Why would want to do that?
Me: Because it is good shit! You dont really get it do you...
Her: Well what do you want me to be like? (sarcastically) OH YEA LETS GET REALLY FUCKED UP ALL THE TIME AND GROW LOTS OF WEED AND MUSHROOMS AND DO ALL THE DRUGS.
Me: ummmmmmm.... yes?
She just looked at me with this what the fuck face.
She just does not get it. She has been told all her life that all this stuff is bad. I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her.. So because of this she thinks its all bad news. I grow a little bit of weed and she HATES IT, she doesnt like me smoking, drinking or taking shrooms because it makes me "diffrent" Which is probably true. But its not like it turns me into this monster or something like she expects it all to
Ive tried talking her around but she just wont get the message. Can anybody try to help me make her understand? This is literary a part of my life and it bothers me that she disaproves! I cant eat mushrooms around her because i get bad vibes from her because of this!
HALP!
Edited by Rainman13 (07/15/16 03:12 AM)
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Niciskarma
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
#23442839 - 07/15/16 02:54 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well you could show her some psycedelic experiences maybe read em to her? Tell her you can't OD on shrooms and maybe you could get her to do shrooms first then after tell her that lcd is a lil more intense ? Perhaps this will work gl brother
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Niciskarma]
#23442876 - 07/15/16 03:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Maybe have a chat about trying shrooms together instead of acid, might not make any difference but being a natural thing that grows rather than a man made one might change her view? I myself favour things if they grow natural so maybe she might. Just suggest a low dose together and see how it goes, and say you know if dont like it i wont ask again 
But hopefully she'll love it hahaha
Say shit like how it might make you closer and all that kinda thing as they can put you on a kinda level together cant they lol shrooms are special cant od on them, and maybe have some great sex too ^_^
First time i tried them was with an ex he had used things and i hadnt and i didnt wana really cos i didnt understand about them, but he wanted me to try with him and promised we have a low dose and just see what i think, so i did, and was so glad
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Spellbound]
#23442877 - 07/15/16 03:40 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, bring her over to the darkside, OP.
She'll be a psychonaut in no time
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Rainman13


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Spellbound]
#23442879 - 07/15/16 03:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ive thought about it but because of her views and stance on it im not sure if its a good idea. Ill definatly give it a shot. Il ask her when she comes back into the room and ill let you know what she says. I bet she will say no. I will persist!
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Edited by ruaware (12/05/16 04:53 PM)
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Rainman13


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
#23442881 - 07/15/16 03:43 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Does anybody have some points i could bring up or anything i could try say to get her to try? I just thought acid might be more forgiving than shrooms though for her to try
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Rainman13


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: ruaware]
#23442885 - 07/15/16 03:45 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rainman13 said: I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her..
The feeling of having a direct family member like a brother or father be a drug addict, is a feeling you cant imagine until you experience. Her being against drugs isn't largely due to misinformation or anti drug propaganda. Its more than likely because of the trauma she's experienced growing up.
You wrote it yourself that you probably think its because of her father and brother. You're aware of it. But you have to try to understand it, in order to understand where she's coming from. If you can't understand it, then you need to at least respect it.
You know, while writing this to try to give you some advice from someone whose been there, i ended up learning something about my own life.
Yea i do understand and respect it. I dont push her to do anything. What do you mean you ended up learning something about your own life?
She also should understand and respect my choices also. Its not really a big issue or anything but it would be nice for her to understand why i do these things.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13] 1
#23442887 - 07/15/16 03:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You could try to show her or tell her about the various studies that have been done with psilocybin. That no one has ever overdosed, show her that graph that shows that psilocybin is the safest drug, tell her about the history, that it's an incredibly beautiful and wonderful experience, that it's non addictive, that all it does is bind to 5HT2A receptors in the brain and then leaves the body, that you can experience things on mushrooms that you can't in normal life like synesthesia, maybe show her some psychedelic art.
I'm sure there's a bunch of other good stuff I'm missing, this is just off the top of my head.
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Edited by ruaware (12/05/16 04:53 PM)
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Rainman13


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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nooneman]
#23442890 - 07/15/16 03:51 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Can you guys please tell me why you take LSD/ mushrooms.
This might help her understand it a little more. I tried googling this but got lots of stupid answers.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: ruaware]
#23442893 - 07/15/16 03:52 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ruaware said:
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Rainman13 said:
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ruaware said:
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Rainman13 said: I think the main reason she is so against it all is that her brother is a loser and has drug problems like her dad and he used to abuse her..
The feeling of having a direct family member like a brother or father be a drug addict, is a feeling you cant imagine until you experience. Her being against drugs isn't largely due to misinformation or anti drug propaganda. Its more than likely because of the trauma she's experienced growing up.
You wrote it yourself that you probably think its because of her father and brother. You're aware of it. But you have to try to understand it, in order to understand where she's coming from. If you can't understand it, then you need to at least respect it.
You know, while writing this to try to give you some advice from someone whose been there, i ended up learning something about my own life.
Yea i do understand and respect it. I dont push her to do anything. What do you mean you ended up learning something about your own life?
She also should understand and respect my choices also. Its not really a big issue or anything but it would be nice for her to understand why i do these things.
I don't want to get too personal, but simply put, my dad is a heroin addict and i figured some things out about my own life while writing that.
Sorry to hear.
My father was an alcoholic. He could get abusive. I dont mind a drink though. or two!
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Niciskarma]
#23442906 - 07/15/16 04:00 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Manipulating someone that has a strong opinion like her (because of the abuse from her family) is a task that requires a lot of time and effort. There nothing that will change her opinion over night or in just a few days. Youll probably have to work on changing her whole outlook on life by gradually implementing ideas in her head. You have to be sneaky tho. She wont be receptive if she knows what youre trying to do. Shell be more receptive the more respect she has for you so you should do whatever you can to earn it. Try to make her come to the conclusion herself instead of telling her what to do.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
#23442907 - 07/15/16 04:02 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You should tell her that magic mushrooms are magic because you don't need anything for the experience, just the courage to eat them. Unlike many other substances that need to be cooked, smoked, brewed, or otherwise altered, the mushroom does not. Maybe do some research with her to try and show her how long these substances have been used, the harms (or lack there of) and benefits and as others have said, read about the experiences of others.
I think for the mushroom, history speaks for itself.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: HamHead] 2
#23442908 - 07/15/16 04:04 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You sound like a knob, respect your girlfriends decisions or move on. Obviously you can try and reason with her but dont act like your a special cupcake because you do acid and stuff and she doesnt
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nssurge]
#23442912 - 07/15/16 04:13 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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^ How did you know? I actually am a knob. Cheers
Well i asked her if she wanted to try shrooms and she said no. I asked if she is in any way interested in trying them and she said no. She is not really the type in any way. Not suprised. Oh well.
The main reason i want her to understand is it bothers me while im tripping. Just knowing this while i am tripping, in a fragile state of mind is bothersome and would make me more comfortable. Not trying to be the next Delhi lama mate.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: nssurge]
#23442944 - 07/15/16 05:13 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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nssurge said: You sound like a knob, respect your girlfriends decisions or move on. Obviously you can try and reason with her but dont act like your a special cupcake because you do acid and stuff and she doesnt
Maybe your right. She obviously isnt into it and i need to get over myself. Roger.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Rainman13]
#23443038 - 07/15/16 06:34 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rainman13 said: Does anybody have some points i could bring up or anything i could try say to get her to try? I just thought acid might be more forgiving than shrooms though for her to try
You should both watch the first two documentaries in my sig. PM me if you need more info.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: reppc]
#23443167 - 07/15/16 07:53 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Does your girlfriend get bad headaches? Is she on one of those horrible migraine medications? My wife is - and hates it. I got her to watch a documentary about shrooms and cluster headaches, and I got her to read some articles and now when the headaches hit she's asking me when I'm gonna grow more shrooms.
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Re: Girlfriend doesnt the the whole Psychedelic Experience [Re: Universe]
#23443187 - 07/15/16 08:02 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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does she smoke weed?
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