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Living alone
#23435012 - 07/12/16 01:50 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anyone here live alone? I've recently moved to a new place and being alone is so weird. I think it's made worse by the fact I am signed off from work right now too. I feel like I could become a heavy alcoholic / drug user if I'm not careful.
I need to constantly detract my mind from getting slaughtered during the "lonely" moments. I take myself outside but I wonder how long it will last.
Been about a week so far in my new place!
Anyone got some input on this? tips?
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde] 2
#23435016 - 07/12/16 01:52 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Masturbation. Lots and Lots of Masturbation.
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Re: Living alone [Re: plasma]
#23435043 - 07/12/16 02:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've lived alone for the last year or so of my life, in a massive 3 bed house. Just this weekend I moved into a single room in a shared house again.
But fuck man, living alone, especially when you've lived with a woman for 4 years prior (in the same house no less) is a FUCKING kick in the balls. I swear man, I was bouncing off the walls in that place at times (my abuse of stimulant drugs probably didn't help, although it did lead to hours and hours of masturbation at times, like Ras suggested).
It's hard man, feeling lonely like that. One of the hardest feelings I've ever known. Cause feeling lonely made me feel depressed. Feeling depressed made me avoid people, which in turn fed the loneliness, which in turn fed the depression, ad infinitum.
There were times I'd break out of it, even times when I reached new heights of realisation, self-love, and spiritual understanding (often helped by psychedelics), but there would always be an eventual collapse again, often followed by some nefarious, ruinous, self-destructive drug abuse.
I bounced up and down more times in these last 12 months than in the last 12 years of my life. Only coming up with a massive, life changing plan really helped me break out of the downward spiral. And now I'm putting it into action, and it's coming together, I feel the best I've felt in a year.
It's hard man, but there's always an end in sight.
Good luck brother.
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Wow thanks for that. Interesting to know it's not just me feeling that way. I really don't know what to say. At the moment I'm sleeping it off. My bed is becoming a real comfort. I suppose it's better than drugs / alcohol but I don't know how long it will last. I can see depression coming back pretty intensely.
What's worse, I bought some butry-Fentanyl when I got depressed last time and was thinking about OD'ing off it to end it all. I still have the stamp laying around and can't bring myself to get rid of it. I suppose because it feels like a "bail out" button it gives me comfort.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde] 1
#23435078 - 07/12/16 02:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Any hobbies?...push yourself to do that thing that you always told yourself you would do if you had time. Maybe grow some cubies.
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Growing some cubes is a great idea. I've been thinking about doing that for a while. It's so complicated though. I need to read, read and read again.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
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I don't live alone but I'm not working at the moment and the house is empty most of the time - so yeah cabin fever can really set in. It wouldn't be so bad if I lived closer to the centre or had some social group I was part of.
For me I'm pretty optimistic naturally but not immune to depression and spiralling into hopelessness... I think the best thing to do is to just stay positive and keep your mind active for stuff to do/solutions to your problems.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435091 - 07/12/16 02:20 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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yup!
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde] 1
#23435099 - 07/12/16 02:24 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Walk around naked.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435106 - 07/12/16 02:29 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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YeOlde said: I bought some butry-Fentanyl when I got depressed last time and was thinking about OD'ing off it to end it all.

That's pretty heavy.
You alright now??
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435113 - 07/12/16 02:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, sleep is another one to watch out for. Along with opiates, stims and vodka, excess sleep was also a form of self abuse for me at times. I would wake up and just want the world to fuck off so pop some valium and sleep again. Wake -> benzo -> sleep -> etc. I think the longest I slept in any one go during that time was like 40 hours. Keep an eye on that one man.
If there's one thing that I think is most guaranteed to keep you up it's keeping in touch with friends. Followed by keeping a good pattern or sleeping/eating/exercise/meditation.
And most importantly, try not to be hard on yourself. That's a fucking sure fire route to the downwards spiral.
But overall, like I say, the thing that really did it for me was coming up with a plan to change the course of my life. I had been unconsciously heading into a life that deep down, I don't believe I ever truly wanted. Now I'm more aligned with my true path, my soul is again glowing.
Shout me anytime if I can help man.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
#23435131 - 07/12/16 02:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i hate liz said:
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YeOlde said: I bought some butry-Fentanyl when I got depressed last time and was thinking about OD'ing off it to end it all.

That's pretty heavy.
You alright now??
Without getting too complicated, I'm bordering on 30 and have had a hard life. I'm kinda at that "point" now you know? I'm ok "now" and haven't really been that depressed since my last mushroom trip. Psyches have been great for me so I'm trying to stay positive but it's hard.
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Jokeshopbeard said: Yeah, sleep is another one to watch out for. Along with opiates, stims and vodka, excess sleep was also a form of self abuse for me at times. I would wake up and just want the world to fuck off so pop some valium and sleep again. Wake -> benzo -> sleep -> etc. I think the longest I slept in any one go during that time was like 40 hours. Keep an eye on that one man.
You seem to really know the score. I'm a dangerous candidate to be on my own I really am. I have a drawer full of benzos, opiates, amphetamines and psyches.
The sleeping thing only really started today but that was after like an hour of me convincing myself to put the vodka away. I had a heavy weekend and kept Monday clear but today was hard.
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Jokeshopbeard said: If there's one thing that I think is most guaranteed to keep you up it's keeping in touch with friends. Followed by keeping a good pattern or sleeping/eating/exercise/meditation.
And most importantly, try not to be hard on yourself. That's a fucking sure fire route to the downwards spiral.
Sounds like great advice. I had this intention. I went Gym yesterday but haven't meditated yet.
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But overall, like I say, the thing that really did it for me was coming up with a plan to change the course of my life. I had been unconsciously heading into a life that deep down, I don't believe I ever truly wanted. Now I'm more aligned with my true path, my soul is again glowing.
Shout me anytime if I can help man.
Hmm I hate to say this but I feel like I need to assess my direction too. I can see me getting high tonight though. I feel resigned. It's easier to just be a fuck up. I've had a lot of experience.
I feel like you got this bang on point though. Truth hurts I guess.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde] 1
#23435172 - 07/12/16 03:01 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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So get high man. Go balls to the wall, you'll recover. We all need to wallow in self-pity from time to time, whether we care to admit it or not. Life is fucking hard, and sometimes you just need to metaphorically 'blow your brains out' for a short while to deal with it.
It's all part of the healing/recovery process IMO. You just gotta watch out for it becoming habitual is all. Everything in moderation:
Use, do not abuse; neither abstinence nor excess ever renders man happy. --Voltaire
This has really been with me for a while now:
He who has a Why to live for can bear almost any How. --Nietzsche
When my wife left my life, I lost my dog, the buying of my house subsequently fell through, and then my gym of 7 years shut down, I lost my 'Why' to live. Only in losing my why did I realise just how badly the 'How' was taking it's toll on me.
Finding a new 'Why' is, ultimately, what saved me.
Until that point, I felt like I was trapped down a dark hole, with the bottom rung of a ladder just out of my reach. I would compose myself, jump and make a grab at the bottom rung, only to find it was coated in grease or something, slip off back into a short stint of self abuse, get pissed off with being in the hole again, and then make another grab for the bottom rung. Time and time and time and time again. That bottom rung is the hardest one.
Once you get a few rungs up, and you manage to finally get a foot on it, climbing out of the hole gets so much easier.
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fuck man wish I lived alone but I'm trying to stretch my dick out so it's not happening and even if it does I'll be in the fucking ghetto so I'll never be alone
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Sometimes I'll just get all fucked up when I'm sad face and just bathe in that shit.
Whatever keeps ya sane, ya know?
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
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get off the computer, go meet new people man.
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You nailed it. The self perpetuating cycle of slipping off the rung, being in the hole, hate being in the hole and repeating. Yeah it's hardcore. I guess the moral there is to keep trying and not give up. I got that.
Finding the "Why" is the key isn't it. Your personal situation sounds a lot like mine. "When it rains it pours". Everything fucks up at once.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: rackem]
#23435206 - 07/12/16 03:13 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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rackem said: get off the computer, go meet new people man.
I don't have a TV or a computer at my place. This is the only hour or two I've spent on the computer all day. I had to leave the apartment and go to my mums place because I was on the verge of washing down some benzos with vodka. Not good at all.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
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Yeah but it's a Tuesday night and it's a bad thing for me to do. Once I start breaking my own rules I can get really reckless.
The problem with getting obliterated is it works so amazingly well. It really makes me not care about being on my own in a place with nothing apart from a mattress, shower and a Kitchen!
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
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Well if it's taking a prescribed medication versus the end, I'll take the prescribed medication!
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
#23435233 - 07/12/16 03:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i hate liz said: Well if it's taking a prescribed medication versus the end, I'll take the prescribed medication!
Oh nothing is prescribed Well it's been prescribed by me LOL
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435238 - 07/12/16 03:25 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh.
But if benzos really help you, why not get a prescription and just do you?
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
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i hate liz said: Oh.
But if benzos really help you, why not get a prescription and just do you?
Benzo's are fucking bad news for me. I keep them on hand for when I trip on LSD in case anything happens. I need to be careful with them as they can easily become a once a night thing.
Dr's here don't dish them out either.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
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i hate liz said: But if benzos really help you, why not get a prescription and just do you?
Cause the man likes a drink too. Benzos and alcohol combined have been the cause of the worst and most destructive behaviour I have ever committed.
I don't think he needs a quack to give him a prescription here. The guy knows whats up. He just needs time and persistence. Of that much I feel very sure based on his words.
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If he's suicidal, maybe that's exactly what he needs.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
#23435267 - 07/12/16 03:35 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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What a quack? With all of their lovely pushing of pharmacuitical poison?
When my wife was becoming suicidal all that shit only did one thing: it made her worse.
I wouldn't trust them, or their poisons, over my own intuition and knowledge of self. Ever.
Obviously that's just me, and of course that doesn't work for everyone, but from my interaction tonight with YeOlde I reckon he definitely doesn't need ANY of that shit in his life. I feel an inner wisdom and knowing/self-knowledge from his words. He's just in a dark place right now - we all have them in our lives.
In fact, I think many of us would deal with our shit a LOT better if we didn't go running to the doctors at the first sign of trouble and owned it ourselves. There'll always be exceptions to any rule, but I strongly feel this to be the case, and I know I am not alone in feeling this way.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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I'm with you on not running to the doc whenever you hit a speed bump, but being at a point where you actually have a plan to commit suicide changes the game.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
#23435271 - 07/12/16 03:37 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I wouldn't say I'm suicidal right now. I'm just a little agitated with being alone and was wanting some tips from others on how they handled the cabin fever without becoming an alcoholic/drug addict.
I felt suicidal some time ago before I submitted my mushroom trip report on here which was some weeks ago. I've not felt that way since the shrooms. They had a lasting positive effect on me mentally. But they haven't made me immune to cabin fever.
Benzo's aren't prescribed for depression anyway. The Dr would stick me back on SSRI's and I'd rather they shot me in the head than put me on them fucking things.
-------------------- My Psychedelic experiences: LSD - 30+ times (2 hits min / max 3 hits) every time. Shrooms - 4 times (2.5 - 3.5g) DMT - 5 times (Powerful breakthrough only once) Life can be one hell of a bitter pill to swallow so I chose acid instead -YeOlde
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
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No, but they're prescribed for anxiety, and very often the two go hand in hand.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
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Very true indeed. I've had them offered to me before but refused. I didn't want them long term. I know someone who's addicted pretty heavily from a legitimate prescription and it looks like hell.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435308 - 07/12/16 03:51 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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YeOlde said: The Dr would stick me back on SSRI's and I'd rather they shot me in the head than put me on them fucking things.
See liz? That's some fucking wisdom right there man. The man knows whereof he speaks.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
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I've been living alone for all my life, with a couple of short exceptions. There are ups and downs to this. As of this moment... I wouldn't have it any other way. Really, it's the greatest freedom you could imagine. You can do what you want, when you want to. There's nobody complaining about anything, you can be yourself. You can learn from that.
Of course, there's nobody to cuddle with either. You can fall in numerous traps, especially drugs and alcohol. Have an eye on that, it gets old really soon.
Hey, in my opinion, you should be able to live/be alone anyways before living with someone.
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So just don't take the SSRI's, big deal.
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Re: Living alone [Re: shadyy]
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i hate liz said: So just don't take the SSRI's, big deal.

Don't take them unless you're dysfunctional. Therapy is a better alternative.
I've taken Seroquel to end a trip a few times. DO NOT DO THAT! I don't care what anyone says.
A chemist one time at a party told me a story where someone accidentally got a vial spilled on their hand and a girl gave him Seroquel. I still think that guy is an undercover fed OR SOMETHING because SEROQUEL is a terrible idea.
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Malcolm_Xtasy
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I'm just here to say living alone is awesome. No dealing with roommates, people touching your shit, eating your food etc.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435408 - 07/12/16 04:33 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, living alone isn't bad at all.
You could always get a roomie.
Or get that Pokemon Go game...I hear that's real big right now.
Any takers on that?? I'm sure we've got a few.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23435410 - 07/12/16 04:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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YeOlde said: Anyone here live alone? I've recently moved to a new place and being alone is so weird. I think it's made worse by the fact I am signed off from work right now too. I feel like I could become a heavy alcoholic / drug user if I'm not careful.
I need to constantly detract my mind from getting slaughtered during the "lonely" moments. I take myself outside but I wonder how long it will last.
Try setting a limit. I had to set a limit for myself. For instance I only allow myself to drink once a week these days. Or else things will/could get ugly, like it did for me when I first got out on my own such as yourself.
I took an out of state promotion when I first really got out on my own, in a far away and really remote tucked away corner of the country (a true middle of nowhere shit hole called Rock Springs, Wyoming), and I quickly found myself going down the same slippery slope you mention.
To quell my lonely state of mind, I drank. A lot. The bottle became my best (and really only) friend for those 2 years and change.
Seemingly overnight I found myself in an everyday drinking habit. I mean literally every single day. I'm not just talking a few beers, either. And it took me a LONG time to climb out of that hole.
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Niffla



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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I'm just here to say living alone is awesome. No dealing with roommates, people touching your shit, eating your food etc.
This is definitely true, no doubt. After living on my own I don't think I could ever possibly do an arranged roommate situation again for the rest of my life
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Re: Living alone [Re: Niffla]
#23435435 - 07/12/16 04:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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God I would love to live alone. I've lucked out with my current roommate, but our lease is up soon and she's moving in with her bf - I've had other awesome roommates.
...but I've also had one that went crazy and tried to tunnel through the wall, and took all our living room furniture out of the house, set up the living room outside, and tried to have a bonfire, among other shenanigans.
I'm trying to find a decent studio apartment in a decent part of town, but roommates are by far the cheapest option here.
That being said, you've got the place to yourself, if you feel lonely then invite some homies over to chill.
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Niffla



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...but I've also had one that went crazy and tried to tunnel through the wall, and took all our living room furniture out of the house, set up the living room outside, and tried to have a bonfire, among other shenanigans.
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Re: Living alone [Re: Niffla]
#23435484 - 07/12/16 05:01 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Niffla said:
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...but I've also had one that went crazy and tried to tunnel through the wall, and took all our living room furniture out of the house, set up the living room outside, and tried to have a bonfire, among other shenanigans.

he was a good dude. He just partied kinda hard. Landlord actually had us all on separate leases and managed to evict him.
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pirate-blues said:
...but I've also had one that went crazy and tried to tunnel through the wall, and took all our living room furniture out of the house, set up the living room outside, and tried to have a bonfire, among other shenanigans.

he was a good dude. He just partied kinda hard. Landlord actually had us all on separate leases and managed to evict him.
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lol one time I came home and in our little tiny alley way there was a mattress wedged between both buildings(it was a very narrow alley in between two massive Victorian twins) - mattress was probably 15 feet up in the air just wedged there. It was like...practically ripped to shreds. Guess who somehow for some reason managed to push it out his tiny ass window?
at that point I was just like "oh" and walked inside.
good times
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I fucking love living alone. I hate roommates unless they are introverts.
I lived alone in a 2 bedroom house for a couple years and it was pure bliss. Walk around naked, use different rooms of different stuff. Leave my messes around however I like without having to hear bitching.
I now live alone again in a big house and it's amazin
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Re: Living alone [Re: goop]
#23435713 - 07/12/16 06:25 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I dont have many friends I see during the week besides my girlfriend. And only a couple close friends on weekends. I've learned to endorse myself into lucid dreaming, exercise and diet ( trying to put on some muscle), meditation with binaural beats, xbox and lots of reading. Time flies when you have hobbies to occupy yourself. But try and find a couple new friends to start. Maybe hit up a pool bar near campus, or bar crawls, find a community group like church or secular meetings. Lots of people are in the same boat as you
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Nah I don't want any "friends" at all
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Re: Living alone [Re: goop]
#23437236 - 07/13/16 07:51 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Reading your responses got me buzzing! It's true what you say. I love it and hate it at the same time. It's a weird thing. I think going from living with people to not is kinda weird.
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Re: Living alone [Re: YeOlde]
#23437252 - 07/13/16 08:03 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I love living alone. You have to pay a bit more and budget alittle tighter but so worth it.
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