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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23428383 - 07/10/16 04:19 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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vandago said: She's pretty much sucked my ability to love or trust a female ever again I think. It's been years and I still can't fathom honesty.
GTFO brother. Seriously.
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Ya I pretty much needed a few more "Drop her". I dunno why.
I guess the good thing that came from her was she helped purge some of my "friends" who were doing the same thing she was doing. There when I was up, obsolete when I am down.
I hung around some people I swear had an inner voice that told them when my bank account was on 0 or doing good. If I picked up the tab they were always around, then suddenly I would have to use my money for things that didn't benefit them and every time I've ever been an asshole suddenly got thrown in my face when I couldn't let them borrow or have money or drugs anymore.
Things have to eventually either get better, or at the very least come to a point of acceptance and a bit calmer. I have been growing much calmer over the years but I am far from my expectations of calm.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23428865 - 07/10/16 09:53 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quit picking up the tab. That's something you should do like once a year, at Christmas time or something.
Kinda sounds like you're a really friendly fella and vultures are circling you waiting for some generosity to show.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23428869 - 07/10/16 09:55 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My personal rule is to stay away from problematic people altogether.
If they ask me for help by themselves, I'll try to help. I they don't ask me, I stay away
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: Patlal]
#23428911 - 07/10/16 10:16 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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addicts are good at being victims it makes justifying hardcore drug usage and the destruction that follows with it easier
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23429093 - 07/10/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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vandago said: Ya but she was never romantically intimate with me.
One time she was so high on dope and I didn't even notice it til I went down on her and she nodded off, farted in my mouth, and called me her ex finances name
Dude! YES!!

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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: stzacrack]
#23429141 - 07/10/16 12:07 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i forgive instantly
I wear my heart n my sleeve.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23429259 - 07/10/16 12:53 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My uncle is going to jail for at least a few years due to his crazy dope fiend girlfriend... They are both addicts but she is a nut.
Anyways the point is don't get used by someone like that, she is literally the reason he is going to jail yet he still lets her mooch off him...
Simply becouse he is too co dependent to let her go even though he can see how terrible she is for him, she even tried to lie about being prego awhile back
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yea dude seriously why are you still talking to her? having a garbage person in your life turns you into a garbage person. My cousin was fucking with an H whore who he would talk shit about all the time too and now she's got his baby in her so he is stuck with her, don't let her get her evil dirty claws in you
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: xzylocybin]
#23429378 - 07/10/16 01:41 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ya dummy
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23429836 - 07/10/16 04:56 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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The ones with biggest hearts suffer the most

hope shes alright but I LOL"d at the farted in my face .. lol variables
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: aysen]
#23429875 - 07/10/16 05:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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One of the most painful realizations, especially when it concerns someone you care about, is that you can't help them if they won't help themselves.
I have been there before, man. It sucks - eventually you realize that it's up to them to change, otherwise you'll both get dragged down.
"Sad little boy, I know you get confused But everyone goes through these trials of self-truth and self-abuse When you're selfless you're so hard not to adore When you're selfish, I just love you even more I want to help you, but you've got to say the words: 'I want to be cured.'"
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23430076 - 07/10/16 06:43 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I have not read this whole thread, so don't know if someone has mentioned this yet, but in many states you can get naloxone OTC, tell her dumb butt to procure some for future OD's.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: pirate-blues] 1
#23430099 - 07/10/16 06:53 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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thanks for that song, good stuff.
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you're very welcome
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#23430218 - 07/10/16 07:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That sucks & you deserve better.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: Lucis]
#23430230 - 07/10/16 07:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fennario said: I have not read this whole thread, so don't know if someone has mentioned this yet, but in many states you can get naloxone OTC, tell her dumb butt to procure some for future OD's.
or just don't heroin. that shit is garbage. fuck heroin.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: vandago]
#23430233 - 07/10/16 07:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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dude you're a chump.
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Re: Ex Od'd on H this morning. [Re: Bigfeely123] 1
#23430263 - 07/10/16 07:53 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Bigfeely123 said:
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Fennario said: I have not read this whole thread, so don't know if someone has mentioned this yet, but in many states you can get naloxone OTC, tell her dumb butt to procure some for future OD's.
or just don't heroin. that shit is garbage. fuck heroin.
Wow great point.
Everyone knows that the good old 'Don't Do Drugs' mantra always works - especially with addicts!
op, have you tried telling her not to do heroin, maybe?
on another less stupid note - fenarrio has a great point - I've never done heroin and idk how realistic it is for someone to be able to administer it themselves in the event of an od, but if she can get ahold of it or you can get ahold of it for her - might be worth it to have on hand.
On the other hand an addict might be less cautious knowing they have it on hand, but it's still something to consider.
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Bigfeely123
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thank you. not doing heroin works wonders.
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