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anonin
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My Sexual Burden
#23426090 - 07/09/16 10:03 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hello. I am making this post because I desperately need help, and I wanted opinions on what kind of therapy I should pursue. I have a small penis. I have homosexual tendencies because of this reason. I find it hard to have sex with girls because of my issue. It is easier for me, psychologically, to have sex with men, although I don't. I do not mean anything bad but I am not happy I have these tendencies and I am very aware of why they exist. I am not emotionally attracted to men whatsoever and I envision my future to be with a woman, because that is what I want. I am just incapable of acting/being normal on a sexual front. I spent the weekend with this super hot girl and there was weirdness caused by me because we were together in a summer villa and it was natural for me to make a move and for us to have sex. I did neither. My problem makes me suicidal. I don't think I would ever end my life because it would affect those around me negatively and I just don't have the guts to do it, and I have other good things in my life that make me hopeful. And I am also convinced that one day I will be with someone again that I am comfortable with. I had a girlfriend for 3 years and we were happy and she loves me to death and we used to have sex and she used to orgasm but still knowing all that doesn't make me brave enough to have sex with someone who doesn't love me etc. I want to fix myself. What would be the best type of therapy to solve this issue? I really don't want just someone to talk to because I know all there is to be said and I know my self pretty well, so I doubt it will be of use. I don't want to be told that size doesn't matter. I don't want to be told that it's okay. Are there other disciplines/techniques that could help? Other than therapy, can ayahuasca help me?
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Perception7
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Re: My Sexual Burden [Re: anonin]
#23426138 - 07/09/16 10:20 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Post your questions in a format like this:
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This will help me identify exactly what your concerns are.
"I am just incapable of acting/being normal on a sexual front." Briefly explain why you think this is.
Based on what you say, gay sex and suicide are not options, so when these thoughts arise, do not ponder on them, ignore these temptations, ignore the whispers. There are people and forces constantly trying to keep us from happiness, from finding the direction we need to take to heal. You are the only person capable of silencing those temptations.
"I had a girlfriend for 3 years and we were happy and she loves me to death and we used to have sex and she used to orgasm but still knowing all that doesn't make me brave enough to have sex with someone who doesn't love me etc. I want to fix myself."
You were with someone for 3 years, that's a long time, why the hell would you doubt for a second you can't find a new love. Have you no idea of our over population problem
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impatientguy
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Re: My Sexual Burden [Re: anonin]
#23426144 - 07/09/16 10:21 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You should just eat a few grams of cubes and then you'll probably have found the courage or answers you need.
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CosmicJoke
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Re: My Sexual Burden (moved) [Re: anonin]
#23426333 - 07/09/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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This thread was moved from Philosophy, Sociology & Psychology.
Reason: Better suited for P&MWB
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Bomb Diggity
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The best therapy I recommend is to just throw yourself out there, make the moves on the ladies, show them what's up. If they don't like your package, then move on, no big deal. Or you could even be up front about your insecurities with a lady you start talking to, and if she genuinely likes you for you, she will not be scared away, and then you can rock her world
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Asante
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What are you afraid of.
You are EXACTLY afraid of this:
Dont say I didnt warn you.
Well it aint like that. Fuck her and fuck anyone like her. A woman worthy of your love would NOT think of you like that. She would take that literal shortcoming along with all the positives of your personality and simply go with it.
If she loves you, she will.
The size of your dick doesnt define you for anyone who truly loves you.
So fuck those superficial ones and go for the gold.
-------------------- Omnicyclion.org higher knowledge starts here
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Bomb Diggity
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Re: My Sexual Burden [Re: Asante]
#23426854 - 07/09/16 02:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fuck yes Asante
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bigdoodie
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we all are in search of the God mind. Not a superior being, the state of mind of ones true self. That is what God is. Through God we rid ourselves of the 7 deadly sins (lust being one of them). We have sex to make children, any other desires are the result of an ego (demon) that controls us. The Vatican has intentionally morphed our interpretation of these concepts specifically to promote the sins and drive us away from God as if it is only for religious people, and then makes religious people. Until the God mind is achieved we can not be fulfilled, and as a result we crave empowerment because it is the only other thing that makes us feel alive. all expression of emotion is a false projection of who we are, as we are not "who" but what, and what we are is the universe, as division is the ultimate illusion. One embodiment of atoms, one brain of human bodies, one network of galaxies, one object, physical and non physical. God can only be achieved through self reliance. The ego can only manifest through other people's acceptance of its existence. to live life as if we are the last person alive on the planet. the ego will have nowhere to manifest an have no choice but to die, and allow full consciousness to emerge and gain clarity and strength and acceptance
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JustForToday
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Re: My Sexual Burden [Re: Asante]
#23434432 - 07/12/16 09:18 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Asante said: What are you afraid of.
You are EXACTLY afraid of this:
Dont say I didnt warn you.
Well it aint like that. Fuck her and fuck anyone like her. A woman worthy of your love would NOT think of you like that. She would take that literal shortcoming along with all the positives of your personality and simply go with it.
If she loves you, she will.
The size of your dick doesnt define you for anyone who truly loves you.
So fuck those superficial ones and go for the gold.
I'm honestly curious as to how you find these videos.
-------------------- Hey Shae, Are you still doing that hand thing? I heard you was doing that hand thing today. Oh God what is that?!
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Asante
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I got a decent memory for all sorts of things, especially outrageous and extreme ones and a well developed sense of what goes with what.
Thanks for noticing the appropriateness of a lot of my vids
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