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Re: How long to date before making a relationship official? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
    #23429690 - 07/10/16 03:46 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Seriously_trippin said:
If I want true love it has to start as a relationship.



Personally, I think you have it backwards. True love hits instantly, and from that a relationship naturally blooms. Starting a relationship on shaky ground like 'are we official?' sounds like a disaster waiting to happen to me.

But hey, that's just my opinion, and it probably doesn't work for 95% people.


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Re: How long to date before making a relationship official? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
    #23430037 - 07/10/16 06:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Seriously_trippin said:
Tonight I told her this
Thank you so much. "Thank you for being you. It makes it so much easier on me to be me"

and she was so happy she had tears in her eyes and grabbed me and wouldn't let go. I didn't want her too either :heart: I appreciate all the suggestions in this thread thank you all. Now I just have to keep being myself and take it a step at a time. Not only did it go from just going to a movie together tomorrow. We will spending all day and night together. And we are officially planning a day trip to Venice/Santa Monica or Morro Bay. She said that she really needed some kind of change of pace because of our medical problems we don't get out much and we need to. So we are now going there. Also I'm going to give her a pamphlet of this REALLY amazing "inn" there. 100$ a night for a big room king size bed,balcony,fireplace,big flat screen. Amazing shower and bathroom. Im just going to give her the pamphlet and tell her a friend heard I might be going and gave me a pamphlet for this place.


We will probably just go to Venice & Santa Monica . Either way I'm stoked




happy for you man and wish you all the best.


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Re: How long to date before making a relationship official? [Re: Tipote]
    #23430159 - 07/10/16 07:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Jokeshopbeard said:
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Seriously_trippin said:
If I want true love it has to start as a relationship.



Personally, I think you have it backwards. True love hits instantly, and from that a relationship naturally blooms. Starting a relationship on shaky ground like 'are we official?' sounds like a disaster waiting to happen to me.

But hey, that's just my opinion, and it probably doesn't work for 95% people.



Yeah everyone is different, i just have to do what I think is right. Although I do respect your opinion.We went to the movies today and one of my big problems is I have a plethora of injuries/illnesses. I was telling her just as a passing thought how much my neck hurts because we can talk about these things. So when we got to the movie theater we got there a little early and she brought me instant ice packs :heart: that may seem small but I told her once I have occipital nerve damage and that ice would help it. So she got that and a whole bunch of other stuff to make me feel better including a shit ton of weed (which always helps me)  :smile: I swear that almost brought a tear to my eye
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Tipote said:
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Seriously_trippin said:
Tonight I told her this
Thank you so much. "Thank you for being you. It makes it so much easier on me to be me"

and she was so happy she had tears in her eyes and grabbed me and wouldn't let go. I didn't want her too either :heart: I appreciate all the suggestions in this thread thank you all. Now I just have to keep being myself and take it a step at a time. Not only did it go from just going to a movie together tomorrow. We will spending all day and night together. And we are officially planning a day trip to Venice/Santa Monica or Morro Bay. She said that she really needed some kind of change of pace because of our medical problems we don't get out much and we need to. So we are now going there. Also I'm going to give her a pamphlet of this REALLY amazing "inn" there. 100$ a night for a big room king size bed,balcony,fireplace,big flat screen. Amazing shower and bathroom. Im just going to give her the pamphlet and tell her a friend heard I might be going and gave me a pamphlet for this place.


We will probably just go to Venice & Santa Monica . Either way I'm stoked




happy for you man and wish you all the best.





Thank you :smile: :hug:


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Re: How long to date before making a relationship official? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
    #23433084 - 07/11/16 08:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

One year before commitment, 3 years before moving in together, BAM!


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