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Offlinech1ck3n.s0up
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Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy
    #23419940 - 07/07/16 11:26 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

What are the unwritten rules about this?

If a girl walks in with a guy, you must assume that she's with him, right? Is it appropriate to ask if she's with the guy, or ask the bartender if she's with him, before you buy?

What if a guy walks in with two girls? Can you buy a drink for one of them, doing your best to determine by their body language, which one is not with the guy?

The other day a guy walked in with a stunning woman... and then passed out at the bar! She ended up leaving, but wth... is she fair game at that point?


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up] * 1
    #23420065 - 07/07/16 12:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Why not find a girl who enters the bar with other girls? It's not like they're few and far in between.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23420415 - 07/07/16 02:33 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

lol...I didn't know guys still bought drinks for strangers. First off...you need to read the signs....If she notices you and sneaks an occasional smile at you...then maybe. If she hasn't even begun to acknowledge you being alive....no. Also, if the dude is a redneck, no....the inevitable  confrontation is a fucking drain on your happy evening.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #23422238 - 07/08/16 02:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Why would you waste money and alcohol on a girl whom you're not even sure if she is available ? More importantly why waste your time ?

There are plenty of other women out there whom you don't need to wreck your brain trying to figure out if she's available or not. Trust me, if a woman wants to let the world know she's on the market, you'll know. Other than that maybe she brought her guy friend so dudes don't hit on her and she can have a quiet evening?

I think you're trying too hard man. I am not trying to insult you, but maybe you should fish somewhere else

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Why not find a girl who enters the bar with other girls? It's not like they're few and far in between.




Isn't this a kind of recipe for disaster? lol

I absolutely have no idea how to separate a girl from the rest of the herd. I find it so intimidating, not only there is a chance you'll get rejected but also in front of her friends which is like x100 embarrassment


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Rosen_Rot]
    #23422315 - 07/08/16 03:53 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

No dude she's fair game. If a women walks in with two more women your goal should be all three at the same hotel room or not at all. The missing signs is clear as day most of the time. It's very common practise that women will bring guy freinds to bars just not to end up hot on or taken home by the bad men at the bar.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: tump]
    #23430800 - 07/10/16 11:08 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You have to feel out the situation.  Randomly asking to buy her a drink?  Will usually result in you being 7$ poorer at my age.  You start talking to a girl who came with a guy, she's flirty and acceptive of your advances, buy her a drink. 

It's so situational this question is STAL.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
    #23430820 - 07/10/16 11:12 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

If you want to make this approach work you buy the girl AND the guy a drink while putting the girl in your long term playbook.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Mojo] * 2
    #23438130 - 07/13/16 03:38 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Put on your best Bro physique, make sure you are wearing one of your best ed hardy Tee's or of something of similar caliber.  I like to put on a little extra bro cologne so people are more likely to notice me. Shades or no shades, it's up to you.

Walk up to dude and be sure to size him up, make sure the lady(ladies) sees this and notices you are the dominate male. Give a quick sarcastic chuckle as you look him in the eyes and then smoothly move your attention to the ladies, try to situate your self between the beta male and females if possible. Don't say anything for a good half minute, just soak in the atmosphere and multiply your cool by being extra smooth and calm; no sudden movements.

Now look them in the eyes and and nod your head up, not Down, like you just noticed them.  " Ss-up, ladies. This guy giving you problems"?

Make sure the beta male feels threaten and insecure. If the ladies say the guy isn't a problem let it slide, don't worry it's cool- Now they know that you are the kind of bro that looks after the well being of ladies in America.

"Let me buy you ladies a drink" as you say this push the guys drink down the bar a few feet, or if sitting at a table move his drink and belongings to another near by table- He's gone now, outta the picture.

Focus here.

Look suave here, if you have sun glasses, take the glasses by one hand and put one of the arms of the frame in your mouth and look like your contemplating something deep.

Move in closer to the ladies as they get their drinks, tip the bar tender a dollar but look at the ladies as you hand the bill over, the bar tender doesn't matter in this case, let him know you know he's trash. Also fold the bill prior to handing it over so the ladies can't see it's a just a one. The mind fills in the blanks of what it can't see so to them you gave that guy a hundred bucks because you yourself are surely worth multiple millions.


This is your time to shine.

Let the ladies know you are interested and are a suitable sexual partner. I like to start by taking off my shirt so the ladies know what's in store for them if they play their cards right. I then smoothly walk over to the music box and put on a suave tune as I light up a cigarette. Fuck the rules, I am a man and I'll make my own decisions.  The ladies will be extra hot and horny now and may begin fighting with each other as to who will be sleeping with you. Let them know that you have the means and capabilities of taking them both on.


That's just a starting point.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Atreyu] * 1
    #23438498 - 07/13/16 05:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Psilosoulful]
    #23442541 - 07/14/16 11:42 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Why would you buy a girl a drink if she already has a dude. I personally don't enjoy throwing money away maybe that's your thing though.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Atreyu]
    #23443720 - 07/15/16 11:44 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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Put on your best Bro physique, make sure you are wearing one of your best ed hardy Tee's or of something of similar caliber.  I like to put on a little extra bro cologne so people are more likely to notice me. Shades or no shades, it's up to you.

Walk up to dude and be sure to size him up, make sure the lady(ladies) sees this and notices you are the dominate male. Give a quick sarcastic chuckle as you look him in the eyes and then smoothly move your attention to the ladies, try to situate your self between the beta male and females if possible. Don't say anything for a good half minute, just soak in the atmosphere and multiply your cool by being extra smooth and calm; no sudden movements.

Now look them in the eyes and and nod your head up, not Down, like you just noticed them.  " Ss-up, ladies. This guy giving you problems"?

Make sure the beta male feels threaten and insecure. If the ladies say the guy isn't a problem let it slide, don't worry it's cool- Now they know that you are the kind of bro that looks after the well being of ladies in America.

"Let me buy you ladies a drink" as you say this push the guys drink down the bar a few feet, or if sitting at a table move his drink and belongings to another near by table- He's gone now, outta the picture.

Focus here.

Look suave here, if you have sun glasses, take the glasses by one hand and put one of the arms of the frame in your mouth and look like your contemplating something deep.

Move in closer to the ladies as they get their drinks, tip the bar tender a dollar but look at the ladies as you hand the bill over, the bar tender doesn't matter in this case, let him know you know he's trash. Also fold the bill prior to handing it over so the ladies can't see it's a just a one. The mind fills in the blanks of what it can't see so to them you gave that guy a hundred bucks because you yourself are surely worth multiple millions.


This is your time to shine.

Let the ladies know you are interested and are a suitable sexual partner. I like to start by taking off my shirt so the ladies know what's in store for them if they play their cards right. I then smoothly walk over to the music box and put on a suave tune as I light up a cigarette. Fuck the rules, I am a man and I'll make my own decisions.  The ladies will be extra hot and horny now and may begin fighting with each other as to who will be sleeping with you. Let them know that you have the means and capabilities of taking them both on.


That's just a starting point.



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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
    #23447808 - 07/16/16 08:40 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Its always cool to buy a girl a drink of she's with a guy..... If you're trying to catch an ass whipping. Cause that's what you'd get. Herrr derrr she's with a guy.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Psilocamel]
    #23449163 - 07/17/16 08:50 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You need balls to buy a drink for a girl with a guy. That's a direct move on his territory. even if they are just friends, that totally paints him as a bitch...

If the guy is her boyfriend it sends the message that you don't think he's man enough for her

If the guy is just a friend it sends the message that it's obvious he's been friendzoned and has no chance


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Patlal]
    #23449994 - 07/17/16 02:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Infiltrate the hive first.

I would be so much more receptive to a guy buying me a drink after he came over and chatted for a bit. If it's a group outing then it's usually a 'the more the merrier' type of deal and if you hit if off with her and then offer to buy her a drink it just feels way more natural/chill than approaching a group of people and singling just one person out to buy them a drink. And then at least you'll actually know you guys have some kind of chemistry before you buy her a drink and it's more personal.


Honestly, kinda a side note but I went out with another girl and a guy who went out to smoke, there were two guys alone at another table across the room who had made eyecontact with us a couple time and they kinda looked interested so we just said hi to them and invited them to come over. We weren't cruising for hookups that night and just really wanted to bro out, so when they offered to buy us drinks right off the bat we politely refused and told them upfront 'we've got another friend coming in and we're just tryna chill for a drink or two' and introduced ourselves. They seemed kinda confused at first but they were cool. When I'm in that situation if I really hit it off with one person then hey, cool, but idk no one has to by me a drink as an excuse to talk to me - I'm a total weirdo so I get that people are just trying to break the ice and gauge the friendliness/openness of a stranger in a socially acceptable way but god, it's just such a boring routine.

It's just funny how many people have these percieved unspoken rules, codes, and scripts for social situations when it comes to navigating those waters. It's just feels so unnecessarily  exhausting sometimes.


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: pirate-blues]
    #23450044 - 07/17/16 02:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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pirate-blues said:
Infiltrate the hive first.
When I'm in that situation if I really hit it off with one person then hey, cool, but idk no one has to by me a drink as an excuse to talk to me - I'm a total weirdo so I get that people are just trying to break the ice and gauge the friendliness/openness of a stranger in a socially acceptable way but god, it's just such a boring routine.

It's just funny how many people have these percieved unspoken rules, codes, and scripts for social situations when it comes to navigating those waters. It's just feels so unnecessarily  exhausting sometimes.




Seriously, buying a stranger a drink is kind of silly ime.  If they are at the bar, they are gonna be drinking anyway, you don't need to buy them a drink just to get their attention :shrug:


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Re: Buying a girl a drink at a bar if she's with a guy [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #23450127 - 07/17/16 02:46 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

yeah, always felt silly to me too - it's one thing to get drunk and go make friends with other drunk people there or to hit it off and then buy someone a drink as a gesture of idk, goodwill or whatever - but I really value genuine people, interesting conversation and just good authentic company -  and I hate having to go through the whole song and dance and gettin to know you chit chat to get there. It's boring.


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