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I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I. Goddamn
#23415207 - 07/05/16 09:32 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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By "tapes" I obviously mean video files on a USB stick.
I'm currently in a long term relationship (3 years), but man I get fucking super turned on watching those. 
We used to do RC stims and fuck around ALL NIGHT and it was the only times she'd let me record it.
I can't help it, but I turns me on so hard it's unbelievable.
Am I being shady to my current gf you think? (by watching/enjoying/jerking off to them)
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23415213 - 07/05/16 09:35 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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If you don't think your being shady why dont you ask her.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: pineninja]
#23415251 - 07/05/16 09:49 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ask my gf what exactly?
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23415263 - 07/05/16 09:51 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Whether she minds.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: pineninja]
#23415271 - 07/05/16 09:54 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't like it  Not that I'd blame her one bit tho
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#23415275 - 07/05/16 09:55 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Shady it is.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: pineninja]
#23415298 - 07/05/16 10:07 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fair enough, mate. Thank you.
I figured that'd be the general concensus.
Now... Would this be considered cheating in any form? Since it's not just normal porn.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23415664 - 07/06/16 12:40 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't know if it constitutes of cheating but why would you make your partner uncomfortable like that if you care about them? I am pretty sure if you told her she would mind and probably find it betraying
Masturbating to some random chick getting cuckolded online is one thing, masturbating to someone you know well is another.
If I were you I would delete the tapes. Not only does it suggest that you are not over her/your sex life isn't where it should be but they are also a potential future argument/fight if your current girl finds them 
Not worth it in my opinion. I deleted all of my ex stuff as soon as we broke up. They are nothing but trouble once the relationship is over but that's just my 2cents
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23415720 - 07/06/16 01:10 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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you're being shady as fuck to your partner dude. That is if you guys are in a real relationship and not fuck buddies... or "whatever you darn kids call it these days!"
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #2] 2
#23415809 - 07/06/16 02:03 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Pics or it didnt happen
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #3]
#23416088 - 07/06/16 06:22 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't thinks it's shady necessarily. You're allowed to have sexy thoughts about other people. Being in a relationship doesn't stop that, and what you jack it to is your own business for the most part. You should be allowed to have the freedom to explore your sexual interests in private IMO. I could see your GF feeling threatened by the situation and get jealous if she found out about it, but that doesn't mean that you're doing anything wrong. If she finds out, then you might need to help her sort out her jealousy and make it clear that there's a difference between liking the memory of having crazy sex with somebody and loving somebody.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#23416188 - 07/06/16 07:32 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'll just delete em.
Nothing good can come from it.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23416294 - 07/06/16 08:35 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#23416337 - 07/06/16 08:55 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Do some rcs with the new girl and record all night ? Make a new collection
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I. Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23416354 - 07/06/16 09:04 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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oP I don't know if it's shady but if it makes you feel a certain way about it then that's on you. I don't think any number of questions about that is going to change your core values. It might make you feel better but in the end if you feel like you are betraying your spouse by enticing yourself with those old feelings then I think you know what to do. I'm sure you know how you'd feel if you caught her watching videos of her getting railed by her ex, let alone if you just randomly found a USB stick with that sTuff on it.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416463 - 07/06/16 10:14 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Spellbound said: Do some rcs with the new girl and record all night ? Make a new collection 

Make a new collection with your girl, will probably trump your old sex tapes
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23416679 - 07/06/16 11:33 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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We need a what she said icon
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416686 - 07/06/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's what she said literally!
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416695 - 07/06/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Apologies m'am
I'm still bound to 4chan rules ''anyone on the internet is a male unless proven otherwise''
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23416702 - 07/06/16 11:41 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ahh no worries, just call me john hahaha
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416706 - 07/06/16 11:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Is John hot?
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23416715 - 07/06/16 11:43 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah of course lol everyone on the internet is hot hahaha!
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416804 - 07/06/16 12:20 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cool, I like John
Everyone is beautiful on the inside 
right this has gonne off topic far enough. Gonna stop shit posting before I piss off one of the mods
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23416816 - 07/06/16 12:26 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous said: That's what she said literally!
Ohhh, you told her?
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23416870 - 07/06/16 12:53 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Spellbound said:
Quote:
Anonymous said: That's what she said literally!
Ohhh, you told her?
No, lol... Just a shitty joke.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Anonymous #1]
#23416882 - 07/06/16 12:59 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Awwr, i was thinking ah thats cool hahaha she didnt mind and now you gets to work at making better videos win win lol
you could delete them tell her, then get muchos trust, and muchos great sex, maybe could always backfire tho, maybe just delete them and suggest making vids instead
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: Spellbound]
#23417842 - 07/06/16 05:49 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Spellbound said: We need a what she said icon 

@OP
PM me the vids before deleting them.
FWIW, I wouldn't delete them, I don't think there's really anything particularly wrong with it, but I'm sure it'd evoke some jealousy in her, just like if she masturbated to vids of her and her ex would evoke feelings of jealousy in you.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: pineninja]
#23422891 - 07/08/16 09:26 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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pineninja said: Shady it is.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: pineninja]
#23430813 - 07/10/16 11:11 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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pineninja said: If you don't think your being shady why dont you ask her.
You're not being shady at all, it's not like you're still fucking your ex. You find videos of you fucking her hot, so fucking what? Make new videos with your current gf and im sure you'd watch those as well.
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Re: I recently found a few "sex tapes" of my ex and I... Goddamn [Re: TheMovement] 4
#23433536 - 07/11/16 10:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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It is shady because he knows his partner wouldn't appreciate it and hes keeping it a secret. Relationships are about respect for your partner and honesty.
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