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what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies)
#23409621 - 07/04/16 08:36 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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So my buddy and I were having this convo. A lot of fitness/supplement companies sell this idea that if you are bigger/stronger you are more likely to get attention from women
and I personally think thats a crock of shit. I noticed when I began lifting and working out, I got more attention from women. But that had more to do with confidence that actually body composition. I guess its a nice treat when I take off my shirt. But realistically, I just don't think its everything the supp companies/fitness gurus have cracked it up to be
It makes me more confident (both in and out of bed) and it makes me more horny. So it helps. But I don't think it really matters all that much. I do it more for enjoyment and health at this point
My buddy argued that girls like that sort of "hollywood" look. skinny, realistic and "healthy". On the other hand, that insane bodybuilder look is not what girls care for or find sexy in the slightest (he referred to the above video)
So mainly directed at the ladies of the pub; what do you think?
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23409630 - 07/04/16 08:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Not a lady but as shallow as it may seem in fact a woman more naturally wants a strong male as a mate instinctually and superficially even more so
Same as I wouldn't sleep with an obese woman I wouldn't expect a beautiful woman to sleep with an obese under-confident me
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: stzacrack]
#23409635 - 07/04/16 08:45 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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stzacrack said: Not a lady but as shallow as it may seem in fact a woman more naturally wants a strong male as a mate instinctually and superficially even more so
Same as I wouldn't sleep with an obese woman I wouldn't expect a beautiful woman to sleep with an obese under-confident me
well I never said "obese". I am not forcing a woman to choose between obese and jacked. I am having a woman choose between three triplets with identical status/jobs/looks/age/emotional baggage. One who lifts 6 times a week and has that bodybuilder look. Another is skinny and eats a clean diet. And a third hits the gym three times a week and has that skinny ripped sort of look
Who would the woman choose? And by what margin would that choice be made by?
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23410540 - 07/04/16 02:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My woman makes me take my shirt off when she blows so she can see my abs, chest, etc. It definitely attracts women, total strangers have come up and asked if they can touch my abs...
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23410747 - 07/04/16 03:24 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I aint a woman but I'm close with a few of these female types
the most common body type women like is the skinny/jacked one. I.e not captain america buff, but like athletic and a bit slim. That said some chicks are definitely into the bodybuilder look, or the regular guy look, they're just not as common in my anecdotal experience
from people I know it generally seems like guys tend to place more importance on sheer mass than women do. Women love definition and abs and stuff for sure, but generally not to the kind of grotesque degree that body builders go for i.m.e
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Ezuma] 6
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"Question for the ladies" 4 dudes reply
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: hex_enduction]
#23410759 - 07/04/16 03:31 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i like beer bellies
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: hex_enduction] 1
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hex_enduction said: "Question for the ladies" 4 dudes reply
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: berrymybody]
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berrymybody said: i like beer bellies
I am not trying to be rude, but why?
I can't stand having just a little bit of fat on my stomach, dear lord I would hang myself if I ever got a beer belly. I mean it's your thing, and I don't want you to think I am poopooing your for liking what you like, just curious.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Lucis] 1
#23410874 - 07/04/16 03:59 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Woman are humans(I think) And like every human Each has their own opinion.
Like most opinions, there will be a general agreement of what is considered the norm.
The norm changes with the times.
Of course there are the independent minds who don't feel obligated to have the same opinion as a group if they feel differently.
What woman(the shallow,boring,preferably avoided) like is what media tells them to.
What real woman(independently minded,free spirited,sane) like is whatever the fuck they like.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: goldcaphunter] 2
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Women like the somewhat obese greying middle aged guy with the blue suit and the big Mercedes.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: goldcaphunter] 1
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goldcaphunter said: Woman are humans(I think) And like every human Each has their own opinion.
Like most opinions, there will be a general agreement of what is considered the norm.
The norm changes with the times.
Of course there are the independent minds who don't feel obligated to have the same opinion as a group if they feel differently.
What woman(the shallow,boring,preferably avoided) like is what media tells them to.
What real woman(independently minded,free spirited,sane) like is whatever the fuck they like.
Thank you captain obvious, that's not what I meant by asking that question, I was more curious why, if there was a fetish thing going on, or just she met a nice guy and cared more about the person, than the looks.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Asante]
#23410899 - 07/04/16 04:09 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Asante said: Women like the somewhat obese greying middle aged guy with the blue suit and the big Mercedes.
Exclusively
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Lucis] 1
#23410905 - 07/04/16 04:10 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Or neither dude some people are legitimately attracted to things that you are not. This doesn't make them fetishists or people who do not care about looks.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: hex_enduction]
#23410929 - 07/04/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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hex_enduction said: Or neither dude some people are legitimately attracted to things that you are not. This doesn't make them fetishists or people who do not care about looks.
this
all sorts of different ideas about what is or isn't attractive. The range of body-types people are legitimately turned on by is vast.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Ezuma]
#23410936 - 07/04/16 04:20 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm pretty cut but have had women tell me they prefer regular body types
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#23410961 - 07/04/16 04:29 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ya, no offense taken Fennario, i'm not really sure why. i'm insanely attracted to my bf, who has a beer belly, but i'm not sure if that's what does it for me or just his overall size. he's a huuge person. it's like walking around with a body guard. lol. modely type guys i see more as friends.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#23410968 - 07/04/16 04:30 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ya it goes against expectations when it happens, but just like with dudes I guess, some like bigger women, some like little tiny pixie girls etc two very attractive women I know -who would appear on the surface quite similar- have polar opposite tastes, one will only date dudes above 6 2 who are absolutely jacked, the other prefers chubby guys and actually finds jacked guys a turn off  can't please everybody
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: hex_enduction]
#23410977 - 07/04/16 04:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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hex_enduction said: Or neither dude some people are legitimately attracted to things that you are not. This doesn't make them fetishists or people who do not care about looks.
exactly. kind of like how some guys like veluptuous girls with huge boobs and butts (which seems to be the style currently) and some don't. it probably has something to do with what a person experiences growing up. or something
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Ezuma]
#23410980 - 07/04/16 04:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ezuma said: ya it goes against expectations when it happens, but just like with dudes I guess, some like bigger women, some like little tiny pixie girls etc two very attractive women I know -who would appear on the surface quite similar- have polar opposite tastes, one will only date dudes above 6 2 who are absolutely jacked, the other prefers chubby guys and actually finds jacked guys a turn off  can't please everybody
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23411230 - 07/04/16 05:47 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I like guys with muscle, looks good, feels good. What more is there to say?
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: IveBeenRecycled]
#23411454 - 07/04/16 06:52 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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IveBeenRecycled said: I like guys with muscle, looks good, feels good. What more is there to say?
we talking bodybuilder big? Or like this dude https://www.google.co.in/search?q=greg+o%27gallagher&biw=1152&bih=602&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiJ9sPmjdvNAhWCnZQKHV1WCXEQ_AUIBigB
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82] 1
#23411466 - 07/04/16 06:56 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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so the conclusion then is that women MOSTLY don't go for that jacked bodybuilder look. And its mostly over exagerrated
BUT different girls like different things
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23411702 - 07/04/16 07:56 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm not going to lie and sit here and say slim good looking guys don't get more girls, cuz they do especially tall handsome ones but any average looking dude can get a girl it's just the above average looking guy is going to have a few less dark spots in between IMO
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: Konyap]
#23411912 - 07/04/16 09:17 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't know how else to say it people. Humans like things for reasons even they can't completely explain. It's next to useless for us to try and definitively say WHY. Because op. you wanted to know WHY,right? Well... no offense, but how the fuck would anyone know?
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: goldcaphunter]
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If this question were asked "What body type do you find sexy ( question for men only) " there would be an extremely wide range of answers. I can't imagine it being too much different with females.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: berrymybody] 1
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hex_enduction said: Or neither dude some people are legitimately attracted to things that you are not. This doesn't make them fetishists or people who do not care about looks.
exactly. kind of like how some guys like veluptuous girls with huge boobs and butts (which seems to be the style currently) and some don't. it probably has something to do with what a person experiences growing up. or something
I can find either or attractive and theres no rules on it at all - 1 set of big boobs will look good and 1 not same with small and visa versa but thats doesn't matter because without a doubt the expression on their face and what comes out of their mouth and the content of their character plays the biggest part in how attractive they appear.
I've met plenty of people I was attracted to physically who fast became unattractive by their character and visa versa. Not being rude but it seems Americans in particular are very visually orientated and vocal about it. This trend seems to come from the pressures in the society itself NOT real attraction. Just my opinion on it.
Lots of things are visually appealing but if they have no content you soon get bored with them.
Even the idea of this thread that women are a type of creature most attracted to 1 visual characteristic set is such an indoctrinated and culturally planted idea athat its laughable to me that anyone believes in it or can think attraction would even be based solely on some visual formula. I'm not even sure what OP is trying to suggest, that theres 1 universal attractive type... thats so absurd.
I wanna say TURN OFF THE TV and chuck the magazines away - they've warped your minds :p
Also this sort of behaviour by men "do my abs look fat in this?" is the same shit women always used to pull... see any correlations? People become so warped by media that they actually believe this stuff and their behaviour and attitude changes as a result.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: nice1returns]
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in the US women and men are also fatter. So I feel this is why people are more visual
for example, in Europe (when I went) or even China and India. People are typically eating unprocessed food. And as such, people are skinny. My mom told me that my dad was coonsidered attractive before they married because he had a slight chub. Chubbiness in places where food is scarce is generally considered a postive aspect
you see what I am getting at? The low supply of chunky people in asia makes chubbiness (within reason) sexy. and in the US, since fatness/obesity rates are so high, men and women both find the rare fit person/good figure female extra hot
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: nice1returns]
#23412745 - 07/05/16 06:27 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i completely agree w you nice1. i almost felt uncomfortable responding to this but i just wanted to give some feedback. ultimately, physicality is secondary for sure. there's a lot more to be said about the way some1 thinks, interests, point of view etc.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: topdog82]
#23412763 - 07/05/16 06:38 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Dad bod
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: berrymybody]
#23413210 - 07/05/16 10:03 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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berrymybody said: i completely agree w you nice1. i almost felt uncomfortable responding to this but i just wanted to give some feedback. ultimately, physicality is secondary for sure. there's a lot more to be said about the way some1 thinks, interests, point of view etc.
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
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SirShroomsAlott said: Dad bod
hahah
anyhoo we all know it's whats inside that counts. BUT since the initial question was about looks, which one notices before personality, my aesthetic is definitely burly disheveled types. w/e
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berrymybody said: i completely agree w you nice1. i almost felt uncomfortable responding to this but i just wanted to give some feedback. ultimately, physicality is secondary for sure. there's a lot more to be said about the way some1 thinks, interests, point of view etc.
are you a girl?
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Re: what body type you find sexy? (question for the ladies) [Re: berrymybody]
#23413228 - 07/05/16 10:11 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i wouldn't say that i completely identify w my gender a lot of the time, but i am definitely not gay. sorry if that's boring
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nice1returns said: I wanna say TURN OFF THE TV and chuck the magazines away - they've warped your minds :p
Also this sort of behaviour by men "do my abs look fat in this?" is the same shit women always used to pull... see any correlations? People become so warped by media that they actually believe this stuff and their behaviour and attitude changes as a result.
I've had a few convos about this of late; rather than reversing the trend of 'unrealistic body image' that has existed for women since say, the 1930's, what we've done instead is extended it to men.
I recall, back in the days before I started training, you saw a guy IRL with muscles once in a blue moon - and chances were, he was a jailbird - nowdays you can't walk down the street for seeing a dude that's spent hours upon hours in the gym.
Hence why, like you say N1R, I've ditched all attachment to media enforced, airbrushed and computer stretched, images of what is 'beautiful'. Fuck the media and its endless distractions.
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