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she knows she's not the one
it's over
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"I have no grudges against you. You didn't do anything wrong I just can't talk to yoj *you You're a great guy Im just not the right one for you Bye"
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Black_Sunset
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She has been with more people than you and though those experiences and her other influences has settled on an idealized partner with suitable qualities that match with her needs present and future. You can hear it in her voice: it won't work because future this and that. It won't work because your behaviors do not fit into her mold.
Sure she could have been nicer and more polite about it, beating around the bush, leading you on for weeks while you both suffered - but she didn't. She knows what she wants and you're better off getting hurt because it is real and it makes you think about yourself and that makes you grow and change. Less bullshit more living
But she was into you so there's a lot of great qualities she enjoyed in you, obviously, but she is very future-minded, or maybe her judgments put her off. It's good to be confident about your life and your behaviors etc, but don't disregard what she said. Do you think change is needed in your life? How can you become a better person and lover for next time?
And as for the whole weed thing, she sounds blinded by her idealism and turns that on you to push herself away from you. Don't get so hung up on what she said. Anything you do everyday has big impacts so I always like to examine and see what's actually going on. We all have daily behaviors that aren't serving us well.
And congrats on the lay.
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Oh I am so detached from it already... not worrying about shit, feelin' good...
yeah I actually didn't get it in or even cum, all her handies and bj's just tickled. What was the best was her just massaging and holding my balls... and her massage, she was really good at that
but get this she's never had an orgasm
(and yeah my life is fine, I'm a stud)
Edited by Anonymous (07/06/16 09:34 PM)
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basqueshaman
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It takes your a good portion of your life to find your soul mate
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Rosen_Rot
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some never do and our soul mate does not necessarily have to spend their lives with us. We could just meet them, experience them and we never know. Or so it goes..
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Re: I had a fling with a girl [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23421565 - 07/07/16 09:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Right on OP!
Yeah holding out for a soulmate is pretty delusional. We've all been tricked into it. Yeah it happens to some but love the one you're with as they say. Not that it's easy to do either
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IMO I think I already met my soulmate and I am through that idea. I just want to love, connect and help another individual in their struggles by joining them and together we fight the world.
I think most people forget themselves while lost in this idealistic fantasy of finding THE ONE. The ONE could be staring you in the face all this time and you missed, the ONE could be you but you never got to know you and so on..
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Re: I had a fling with a girl [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23423120 - 07/08/16 10:45 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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She got me interested in this book called Brida because it's by Paulo Coelho
yaknow maybe all I need is myself but maybe there also is a woman out there who will move me beyond all doubt
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Rosen_Rot
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No to be rude but if you can't move yourself how can you expect someone else to do it for you?
Just take this as an experience, move on and learn something to better yourself and your perspective
Be grateful for that
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