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I had a fling with a girl
#23409377 - 07/04/16 06:00 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Since I'm so old to be a virgin I thought nothing like this would happen with a girl until I met my soul mate.
Anyways this chick decided that she isn't cool with pot after all and that I "am addicted" and "need it to cope with life"
what a dumb bitch, she's just gonna get a job in finance now and live a passion deadening life of security when she could've pursued a holistic health practice with me
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Anonymous #1
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When she gave me head I wasn't sure if it was a bj or if Shai Hulud was devouring my thumper...
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Anonymous #1
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but damn did she know how to massage... *sigh*
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Anonymous #1
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In short I let myself get fucking hurt and I am the one who was owned
I never want to inflict this pain on anyone, I really just want to meet my soulmate next so I know there wont be a separation
the intimacy with this one made me feel like sex is boring and not even special
but my god. that massage...
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Dark_Star
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She's not your soul mate dude. Keep looking.
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Chakra Shock
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I wish you the best in your quest for love, and know that compatible partners / mates are out there, of course, but even sometimes finding the right one happens at the wrong time, so just keep your heart and mind open! Let go, give, and let love in.
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Anonymous #1
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right person at the wrong time...
fucking *sigh*, man
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Anonymous #2
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Since I'm so old to be a virgin I thought nothing like this would happen with a girl until I met my soul mate.
Anyways this chick decided that she isn't cool with pot after all and that I "am addicted" and "need it to cope with life"
what a dumb bitch, she's just gonna get a job in finance now and live a passion deadening life of security when she could've pursued a holistic health practice with me
well, how much weed do you smoke?
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Anonymous #1
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Why does it matter? Less than 2 grams a day.
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Jokeshopbeard
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What's the question here?
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Anonymous #2
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Why does it matter? Less than 2 grams a day.
because she could be correct? just asking for both sides of the story i guess.
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Anonymous #1
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it was how much do I smoke
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Anonymous #3
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Quote:
Anonymous said: Why does it matter? Less than 2 grams a day.
If you're smoking more than a half gram a day I'd say you're in dependence territory. I smoke a lot of weed too, I simply give no shits what people think of that. That is who you are and if she has a problem with it I say she can fuck off.. Weed is such a comparably mild vice that I've seen compliment and improve so many people's lives. I see more issue in some people's coffee habit than I do in 99% of marijuana users. Plenty of people use coffee to "cope with life" which is a lot healthier and affordable than the needs of some, many of which have nothing to do with these or any substances that envigorate us enough to liven our days. I could argue she copes with life by judging the biases and extremes of people's actions in an attempt to further her own ego. I'll tell you something, I was pissed off earlier, really pissed off. Then I smoked a joint, calmed down, and thought about what, how, and why I was doing it. Psychedelic, dude. I give no shits. I am high. I don't give a fuck what you, I, or anyone else does. That is how I like it.
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Last thing, weed kept my dad alive and happy until the end. Heart attacks, parkinsons. Found out he had 25-30% heart function after an angiogram. He had all sorts of meds but weed was the one thing that would mellow him, make him smile, and bring some colour back to his skin. It kept him from sleeping all the time and made him able to live his life normally. Fuck the haters, cremate my last plant with me.
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Anonymous #1
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well her definition of addict was if I needed it to enjoy things and I could enjoy anything I'm passionate about without it so I am not addicted by her own standard. She actually told me she doesn't care and doesn't want to change me but she wants a break apart from me... there's something about this that just really fucking stings and that is that the life we could have together is so plain and simple for me to see, yet I may have to see her wilt away with the finance degree she told me she "knows for a fact" was the wrong decision for her to pursue
Edited by Anonymous (07/05/16 07:30 PM)
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Anonymous #1
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on fb she was giving me all sorts of reasons why it wouldn't work with us long term and just left me hanging like this early saying she needs a break to be herself...
but her reasons were shit like "I don't think you can support me" (two dates here) when she has a finance degree anyways... my friends thought that one was especially bad.
Edited by Anonymous (07/05/16 10:42 PM)
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Sleepwalker
Overshoes

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She's just not that into you.
Doesn't matter the potential future you can imagine if the other person isn't seeing that vision into fruition.
Plus you apparently think shes a dumb bitch so I'd let it go.
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Re: I had a fling with a girl [Re: Sleepwalker]
#23415515 - 07/05/16 11:30 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Idk man she seemed pretty into me when I got her naked in my bedroom on the first date
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Rosen_Rot
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If she's into you as much as you think she is than you wouldn't be posting here for advice or whatever it is you're doing in this thread, rant maybe(?)
If she has that much of a problem with you smoking weed and you don't think so than she can either learn to cope with it or move on. I don't think someone you barely know should have any right in the choices you make in life unless they are serious in the relationship/you have a serious problem
My ex of 5years had a huge problem with my marijuana use but that's because I am dependent on it/addicted and I could see the problem too. I used to take frequent breaks, like 1-2weeks not smoking, she didn't used to buy to help me not become so dependent on it and we would smoke together a few times a month only. We compromised and reached a good balance but me and her were in a serious relationship, not a fling.
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Re: I had a fling with a girl [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#23416224 - 07/06/16 07:55 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well honestly I realize now that I went a little bit autism on her. I'll own up to it if she lets me but yeah I'll be alright either way
Edited by Anonymous (07/06/16 07:56 AM)
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