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OfflineTheMovement
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Fucking PTSD
    #23403003 - 07/02/16 03:10 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

First of all, fuck all the men out there who take advantage of women, take them and ruin the rest of their sexual career by forcing issues.  Who the fuck do you think you are?  Do you really need to rape a woman to satiate your lust?  I've found watching porn and beating off to be a fine substitute.  If I had my way, every rapist would be beat with a club.  That shit is traumatizing.  There are so many fucked up young women out there because of this shit.  My GF passed out drunk the other night, and our mutual friend was like "YOu cant fuck her tonight, she's fucked up"  Well no fucking shit Eliza, but thanks for looking out for her, thats cute.  But this kid we were with said something like " Oh sometimes it's better that way, it's just a pain in the ass to stand her up.."  I told this kid to fuck off and die.  Fuck that guy.  Fuck assholes. 

Here's the story:

I talked to Eliza's friend a bit on facebook, started to get to know her and shit and Eliza brought her up, she came up to bang basically.  We have a good night dancing, do our thing, come back and hang for a bit, then run upstairs for alone time.  We bang and have a great time laughing and giggling, I let her know my rules up front:

1. If I ever do anything to make you uncomfortable, say something.
2. If you ever don't want to do something, say something.
3. This starts as casual, but could develop to something else.

She agree's wholeheartedly and is super into me.  We do our thing for an hour and then go shower, come back upstairs, and she tells me she wants to smoke a bowl then fuck, ok.  She runs downstairs for a lighter and the bowl, then eliza comes up and tells me something I said/did is causing a ptsd flashback for her.  She wants to sleep downstairs with eliza.

I'd like to think I understand ptsd a bit, but she was so down for anything and we communicated effectively throughout, then she runs downstairs out of nowhere and doesnt want to cuddle anymore.  If I hadn't dealt with this before, I would be upset and think I did something wrong.  I am *fairly* certain that I did not.  It just frustrates me to no end that intimacy can be destroyed and ruined because one asshole decided he had the right to take a womans right to choose.  FUCK RAPISTS.  FUCK ASSHOLES WHO TREAT THEIR GIRLS WRONG.  FUCK anyone who doesn't treat their partner right.

We are all flowers who need care and compassion to grow, when we get the opposite, sometimes we end up growing crooked, unable to realize our full potential.

I realize I haven't told you every facet of our communications/interactions, but I ask you to hold the trolling to a minimum.  If you have some constructive criticism/comments, then feel free to share, but this is mostly a rant post.  I have seen too many women broken by entitled assholes.  Be a good human being, guys.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement]
    #23403449 - 07/02/16 08:42 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Everyone has experiences with the opposite sex that leave them with fucked up baggage. There's not getting away from it IMO. Parents, an ex, a stranger. We are delicate creatures, and are prone to life's instances of abuse (which we all suffer to some degree) leaving us mentally, emotionally, spiritually or physically handicapped for the rest of our time here.

There seems to me to be only one thing that separates those that deal with it and those that don't; that some put in the work to deal with it and some don't.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement]
    #23404257 - 07/02/16 02:26 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

She is the one with the problem not you. Don't let her make you think you did something wrong when you didn't. She is probably going to be doing this for the rest of her life with every guy she meets. If I was you I would just walk away, before she tries to falsely accuse you of rape.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement]
    #23404268 - 07/02/16 02:32 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

treating people who traumatize with trauma doesn't work. second, you banged and she said something you did during intercourse brought something back up? idk man, there's not a whole lot for me to go on here.

looking at this just from skimming, maybe sex kind of just brings this back up for her. I would talk to her about it and work it out, but don't push the subject of having intercourse... that would be a very poor move. try to understand what happened if she's open to discussing touchy things like that. she may, she may not. the point is to provide support as she seems to need it, so some empathy and compassion will do good here. at this point, you know you are dealing with a damaged individual and the emphasis should be on helping them if you can, not potentially having more sex in the future.

anon 1 has a good point, but just leaving would be also bad as she might feel further abandoned or hopeless about what's happened.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement] * 3
    #23404443 - 07/02/16 03:40 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

You prolly just have a rapey vibe.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: Sun King]
    #23404487 - 07/02/16 04:03 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

404, it was after the intercourse when something I said brought about a flashback.  WE had just showered and were getting cuddly in bed.  She ended up sleeping downstairs with eliza and eliza explained the situation to me.

I talked to the girl this morning and everything seems fine.  She told me she still wants to bang she just freaked out and shit, but i'm totally not going to dip my cock into that boiling water.  I'm over it.  I have to agree with anon 1.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement] * 1
    #23404703 - 07/02/16 05:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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TheMovement said:
FUCK ASSHOLES WHO TREAT THEIR GIRLS WRONG.  FUCK anyone who doesn't treat their partner right.




https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/23404632

Hypocrite.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: California] * 2
    #23404743 - 07/02/16 05:40 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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California said:
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TheMovement said:
FUCK ASSHOLES WHO TREAT THEIR GIRLS WRONG.  FUCK anyone who doesn't treat their partner right.




https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/23404632

Hypocrite.




i don't think fucking someone else in an open relationship is even remotely on par with rape tho..


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: Ezuma] * 2
    #23404783 - 07/02/16 05:55 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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California said:
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TheMovement said:
FUCK ASSHOLES WHO TREAT THEIR GIRLS WRONG.  FUCK anyone who doesn't treat their partner right.




https://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/23404632

Hypocrite.




i don't think fucking someone else in an open relationship is even remotely on par with rape tho..



Agreed, but the point being is his woman is angry with him because he doesn't treat her right.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: California]
    #23404914 - 07/02/16 06:37 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

The point is you are trolling me as you always do, you jaded, jaded, man.  I treat my girlfriend right, I treat everyone right because im a kind, compassionate human being.  Just because the rules of our *open* relations were not set in stone does not mean that I don't treat Bridget right.  There's a reason she's my partner, bro.

IDK if you have ever been in an open relationship, but a lot of it is trial and error.  We will work through that and be fine.  I have to agree with Ezuma, Rape is not even close to the same thing as what I did.  To insist or even imply otherwise is erroneous and deceitful.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement] * 3
    #23406023 - 07/03/16 03:15 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

If I had to guess  I would say that you fucking your GFs friend had something to do with this. Your GF clearly isn't happy with this arrangement you have, and her friend sensed that vibe and feels like she betrayed her friend or something. You're playing with fire, and your gonna burn out your relationships. You've made two threads today about some issue you are having with a chick. Whatever you're doing isn't working.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: koods]
    #23406790 - 07/03/16 11:21 AM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Dude my GF is the one who proposed it.  My best friend and her best friend brought a chick to my house to get laid and things got a lil wavey.  Im on clean-up control right now and am playing things safe until we make some rules and set some boundaries.  No more friends is a certain thing.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement] * 1
    #23407582 - 07/03/16 03:53 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

I am never trolling you.  Millennials,LOL
And notice I didn't qoute the part about rape, but the other aspects which are legitly evident, of course you didn't because you jumped straight to being creepily defensive about the rape aspect which you yourself brought up.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: California] * 3
    #23407603 - 07/03/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

Troll.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement]
    #23408178 - 07/03/16 07:31 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

That all you got?  Name calling in your own thread huh.  You never had any class to lose.  That is for sure.
What is it like being a sheltered and coddled millennial whom very wrongly thinks anyone with a different point of view and/or insight is a troll.  You aren't accepting reality.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement]
    #23408193 - 07/03/16 07:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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The point is you are trolling me as you always do, you jaded, jaded, man.  I treat my girlfriend right, I treat everyone right because im a kind, compassionate human being.  Just because the rules of our *open* relations were not set in stone does not mean that I don't treat Bridget right.  There's a reason she's my partner, bro.




Well there is also a reason she was angry with you about you fucking her friend.  So when you want to stop acting childish and calling me a troll perhaps you will think about that.


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Re: Fucking PTSD [Re: TheMovement] * 1
    #23408207 - 07/03/16 07:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago)

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