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Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out?
#23400621 - 07/01/16 10:22 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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How does a gay male acquire a "gay voice"? Does it come naturally after they come to terms with their sexual orientation or do they have to work on it to perfect it. I was at the store the other day and their was a worker there named Maurice and he was what one would call a "flamer". I wondered did he have to practice that or did it come naturally. This thread is not meant to offend anyone.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123] 9
#23400626 - 07/01/16 10:23 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i think they tie their nut sac in a knot to acquire that noise
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23400633 - 07/01/16 10:25 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Its natural i guess. Gay people USUALLY have the lisp/accent long before they come out. Its just part of their feminimity. That being said, I am gay but you wouldn't know. I don't do feminine things, don't talk like that, and don't dress flamboyant.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: bakerb287]
#23400673 - 07/01/16 10:34 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Flamer is ofensiv op. Here's the terms generally used to describe gay folk. I'm at work so i won't be able to define them all, I'll try and add the def. in later tonight.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: bakerb287]
#23400675 - 07/01/16 10:34 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm sure there's a small percent that do it just because, but I've known my friend's brother since he was six (he's 20 now) and we'd always mess with my friend and tell him there was no way his brother wasn't gay solely because of his voice, he'd deny it like crazy but sure enough at 17 he came out to his family. Same with a few kids who were in my classes in school, they just always sounded like that even before they admitted being gay or anyone knew for a fact they were, I'd say at least 95% of the time it's just natural.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#23400684 - 07/01/16 10:36 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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it comes from tucking your balls behind your legs so it looks like you have a mangina
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: thelanzii] 2
#23400710 - 07/01/16 10:43 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I think it's acquired, usually people who talk like that do so because they have lots of friends who are also like that. You are very much like your friends and the people you spend time with, you pick up each other's habits.
There's a documentary about this that came out recently, Do I sound gay?, it went into the origins of this and apparently it came about in the last century from gay men distinguishing themselves from society which ostracized them by modeling themselves after the cultural image of an intellectual and it morphed from there as they developed their own communities.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#23400743 - 07/01/16 10:53 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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SirShroomsAlott said: I'm sure there's a small percent that do it just because, but I've known my friend's brother since he was six (he's 20 now) and we'd always mess with my friend and tell him there was no way his brother wasn't gay solely because of his voice, he'd deny it like crazy but sure enough at 17 he came out to his family. Same with a few kids who were in my classes in school, they just always sounded like that even before they admitted being gay or anyone knew for a fact they were, I'd say at least 95% of the time it's just natural.
Yeah I have a friend that had the same thing. He had a gay voice all through elementary school and finally came out.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: searching]
#23400753 - 07/01/16 10:56 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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In middle school we all used to make fun of this kid who had the gay voice. Sure enough at some point before we graduated, he came out lol
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23400754 - 07/01/16 10:57 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Totally depends on the individual I am sure, the one gay guy I'm close with however doesn't sound gay at all except when he talks with women, then he really exaggerates his exuberance and goes up an octave. His natural voice is pretty deeps, but its really funny how women love the shit out of him for being gay. behind their backs hes actually the most misogynistic dude I know ha
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: thelanzii]
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23400789 - 07/01/16 11:09 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Probably both. Some have it naturally, some try to sound like that on purpose.
The majority of gay dudes I know/have known don't have that voice. I can only think of one or two off the top of my head that did. I either once asked my best friend why he doesn't talk that way or he just offered it up (can't remember) but basically he finds it as annoying as the homophobes who complain about it.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: LuSiD enthusiast]
#23400821 - 07/01/16 11:19 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: sanchothestoner]
#23400855 - 07/01/16 11:29 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've never had a problem with gays, but effeminate men bother me so bad.
I find that voice more annoying than anything I've ever heard.
If you like dick, I get that, that's your thing. Just bitch it up a little.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23400870 - 07/01/16 11:33 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I never minded gay dudes, I can't really stand the stereotypical flamboyant gay dudes and while that is certainly not the majority of them they definitely still exist, them being gay doesn't even have anything to do with it, doesn't matter what their sexual orientation is because if they dress like that and act like that then they're just weird and fucking annoying.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#23400876 - 07/01/16 11:35 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Definitely
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23400880 - 07/01/16 11:36 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I notice I let out my gay lisp a lot more nowadays ever since I mostly came out
Its usually a softer tone
When I was a kid I would talk deep and monotone to hide it and make myself appear more heterosexual
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD] 1
#23400928 - 07/01/16 11:50 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I think some people just naturally talk that way, sexual orientation doesn't always play a role in it but usually it does to some extent
I'm bi myself but you would never know it from talking to me because I naturally have a deep, masculine voice
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] 1
#23400935 - 07/01/16 11:54 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Then you wouldn't be able to be around me cause of your insecuritys
Cause that's the way I talk and I don't try or act like anything I also look really effeminate, I mean.. if yove seen me you know
I just have a faggot lisp on top of my southern deep voice
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD] 1
#23400952 - 07/01/16 12:00 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That word is not appropriate for the pub
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD] 1
#23400954 - 07/01/16 12:01 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Your nuts'll drop one day, Sunny
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] 2
#23400988 - 07/01/16 12:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Cause they haven't already cause I'm a effeminate male
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23400994 - 07/01/16 12:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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There's a documentary about this on Netflix called "do I sound gay"
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23400996 - 07/01/16 12:22 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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SunnyD said: Cause they haven't already cause I'm a effeminate male

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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD] 1
#23401003 - 07/01/16 12:24 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm just fuckin' with ya, dude 
Funny enough, I've always imagined you talked like that. Sheekle too.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23401019 - 07/01/16 12:30 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've thought about this before and wondered if it was a genetic trait. Maybe those two traits are linked somehow.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23401034 - 07/01/16 12:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: I'm just fuckin' with ya, dude 
Funny enough, I've always imagined you talked like that. Sheekle too.
Naw Sheekle doesn't talk like that
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: tito123] 1
#23401042 - 07/01/16 12:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Naw bro its just the pub is cancer.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#23401056 - 07/01/16 12:38 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I think it's mostly an affect that people who identify as gay. It used to be more common, and seems to be more prevalent in people who are "making a statement" about being gay.
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: I'm just fuckin' with ya, dude 
Funny enough, I've always imagined you talked like that. Sheekle too.
Naw Sheekle doesn't talk like that
Sheekle doesn't sound at all gay.
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bakerb287 said: Naw bro its just the pub is cancer.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#23401067 - 07/01/16 12:43 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: bakerb287]
#23401070 - 07/01/16 12:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm just fucking with you you have any successful grows yet?
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Been lurking for years. Created an account because i just started growing.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#23401081 - 07/01/16 12:50 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: I'm just fuckin' with ya, dude 
Funny enough, I've always imagined you talked like that. Sheekle too.
Naw Sheekle doesn't talk like that
I didn't figure he did IRL, that's just how I've always heard his posts in my head 
No clue why
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#23401083 - 07/01/16 12:52 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123] 1
#23401092 - 07/01/16 12:54 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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The stereotypical gay mannerisms such as the lisping speech, limp wrist etc apply only to a subset of the gay population. Most gay people do not have these mannerisms.
Most gay people walk, talk and carry themselves the same as straight people . Unless you have good gaydar you won't normally be able to tell if a person is gay unless they are "flamboyant/flaming/effeminate" gays which by no means all are.
Many gay people are masculine or hyper masculine .
For example the whole community of gays called "bears" do not have the "gay voice" or the limp wrist.
Just like not all black peoples talk in Ebonics and not all Mexicans say "'mang".
Of the gay people I know, virtually none of them talked in the gay voice and none had the limp wrist .
Some do, but most don't.
I have known an army ranger who was gay. You would never have guessed he was gay until he fucked my male friend, who also had zero stereotypical gay mannerisms.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Moonshoe]
#23401114 - 07/01/16 01:04 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hell, I've met way more limp-wristed straight people that talk like that than gays.
The gays are better at it, though
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Moonshoe]
#23401121 - 07/01/16 01:06 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I notice my wrists wanna go limp I go out of my way to keep them stiff..
Im still am a insecure little fuck boy it seems
Thankfully my voice is deep at least and I don't look too effeminate
But if you look at me I'm pretty sure most people think I'm gay
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD] 1
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There absolutely is a subset of gays who naturally telegraph it and it is obvious.
But this is only a certain subgroup of gays. But because these are the only gays people can recognize as such, people assume all gays are that way.
They think "every gay person I know lisps and has a limp wrist "
Meanwhile they work with gay people and have gay friends and family they have no idea are Gay because they have no obvious stereotypical qualities.
There is nothing wrong with being that kind of stereotypical gay by the way. Embrace if that's who you are.
It's also worth noting that those stereotypical effeminate gays are usually "bottoms" who like to get fucked.
The "tops" who like to fuck those kind of guys usually don't have the same qualities and may be exaggeratedly masculine just like the bottoms can be exaggeratedly feminine.
But also keep in mind not all bottoms talk that way either and some big muscular deep voices Manly men like to get fucked.
Personally I have excellent gaydar and can usually tell if someone is gay as soon as I meet them. Then again I wouldn't know if I was meeting people who were gay but didn't trigger my gaydar.
I am bisexual and I think that is partly why but I am able to pick up on all kinds of very subtle Signals that I think most straight people would be oblivious too.
Things like what kind of shoes people are wearing, how their jeans fit , how they make eye contact , etc.
Much subtler things then the lisping voice and limp wrist.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23401142 - 07/01/16 01:15 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Aren't you, though? Or at least bi?
I'm legit just curious. Could've swore you said something about it before
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] 1
#23401148 - 07/01/16 01:19 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: I'm just fuckin' with ya, dude 
Funny enough, I've always imagined you talked like that. Sheekle too.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23401201 - 07/01/16 01:43 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah I'm gay
I have a little bit of straight in me
But I don't see myself with a girl again
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23401204 - 07/01/16 01:44 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I can dig it. Do you, dude.
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23401309 - 07/01/16 02:23 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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damn. I come back & 3 pages. sweet. thanks for all the replies. got a good insight on this. peaccccccccccccee guysssssssssssss. haha jk.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#23401510 - 07/01/16 03:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: Hell, I've met way more limp-wristed straight people that talk like that than gays.
The gays are better at it, though
There are a lot of effeminate men in the south.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: koods]
#23401520 - 07/01/16 03:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I've run into a few. Way more out west, though.
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: sanchothestoner]
#23401532 - 07/01/16 03:48 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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sanchothestoner said:
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LuSiD enthusiast said: Flamer is ofensiv op. Here's the terms generally used to describe gay folk. I'm at work so i won't be able to define them all, I'll try and add the def. in later tonight.
Twink Bear Top Bottom Power bottom Twinkversatile Twank Twonk Otters
Most people use only the first five.
LOL
it's always sunny reference??
Took long enough for someone to get it.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: LuSiD enthusiast] 1
#23401571 - 07/01/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That episode is hilarious 
my uncle is gay and you would have no idea until you got to know him well. I didn't figure it out till I was about 12. His partner on the other hand... Well, meeting him is what pretty much gave it away.
I used to be bothered by "flamers", but getting to know my uncle's partner better has made me comfortable with effeminate men. It's just what comes natural to them. It's pretty lame to hate on someone for being themselves.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Acaterpillar]
#23401755 - 07/01/16 05:09 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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It's a voice like any other you put on. A calling card to others.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Moonshoe]
#23401939 - 07/01/16 06:21 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: The stereotypical gay mannerisms such as the lisping speech, limp wrist etc apply only to a subset of the gay population. Most gay people do not have these mannerisms. The ones that do have usually talked like that from the time they could speak. I do see some guys just absolutely camping it up for the sake of it. It can be VERY irritating/annoying/rude.
Most gay people walk, talk and carry themselves the same as straight people . Unless you have good gaydar you won't normally be able to tell if a person is gay unless they are "flamboyant/flaming/effeminate" gays which by no means all are.
Many gay people are masculine or hyper masculine. Or just "normal" acting people(?).
For example the whole community of gays called "bears" do not have the "gay voice" or the limp wrist. This is not entirely true. I am a humongous fan of "bears" and chubby bear men. There is almost the same amount of effeminate big hairy "manly" looking men as there are flamboyant queens (term can apply to whoever). I have been out in the gay bars/community for over 20 years. The thing is that some of these guys will dress/look/act a certain way and only associate with others that have a certain look/body type/mannerisms, they exclude themselves by only including certain people, just like any other group of shallow thinking pretentious people do
Just like not all black peoples talk in Ebonics and not all Mexicans say "'mang".
Of the gay people I know, virtually none of them talked in the gay voice and none had the limp wrist .
Some do, but most don't.
I have known an army ranger who was gay. You would never have guessed he was gay until he fucked my male friend, who also had zero stereotypical gay mannerisms.
I have been called "undetectable" and virtually everyone who I meet/work with outside of the gay bar is very surprised to learn that I am gay. I have tried to put on the act a bit just to be funny, but it just does not work for me, and I'm glad it doesn't, but to the people that are effeminate I say do you as best as you can and be happy, just don't be annoying/rude/obnoxious about it.
My ex said something one time that I will never forget. There was a really flamboyant guy talking to us and he turns to him and says, "flit on off now darlin' cause the beat of your fairy wings is much too cool for me!" I lost it and the guy left us alone. It was mean (he was a pretty mean/temperamental person) but the guy left us alone.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: tyrannicalrex] 2
#23401977 - 07/01/16 06:31 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Does the "bro voice" come naturally to meathead, hetero men?
Does vocal fry come naturally to millennial women?
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Me_Roy]
#23402011 - 07/01/16 06:41 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'd just like to mention that the title of this thread made me chuckle, thanks. Have a nice day. Bye.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23402225 - 07/01/16 07:59 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I knew this twink once, he only got a bit lispy around big groups of people when he was entertaining folks, but if you talk to him alone, he wasn't that way at all.
I think what others have already said, that some people just put it on as show.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Me_Roy]
#23402419 - 07/01/16 09:25 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Me_Roy said: Does the "bro voice" come naturally to meathead, hetero men? YES! and no...
Does vocal fry come naturally to millennial women?
I have no idea what this means.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: tyrannicalrex]
#23402491 - 07/01/16 09:49 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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nothing like a gay shroomery thread for Friday night reading.
shrooms def do this... change ur voice too
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Lucis]
#23402595 - 07/01/16 10:33 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fennario said: I knew this twink once, he only got a bit lispy around big groups of people when he was entertaining folks, but if you talk to him alone, he wasn't that way at all.
I think what others have already said, that some people just put it on as show.
Many -- if not most -- people speak somewhat differently depending on who is around them. We all vary intonation, pitch, inflection, word choice, etc. based on who we're talking with, how we feel, and what we want to communicate. These differences emerge both consciously and unconsciously. Social life is always, to one degree or another, a performance. And though it is rooted in the body and deeply seated notions of identity, gender also has performative aspects.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Me_Roy]
#23402599 - 07/01/16 10:34 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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funny you say that. this lady was talking in an English accent to her british friends but when she was talking to me she sounded very normal.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bigfeely123]
#23402693 - 07/01/16 11:16 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My drawl gets a lot thicker around old timers. It was a lot less pronounced after a few months out west. Now it's back to normal now that I'm back
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] 1
#23402894 - 07/02/16 01:44 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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ThatKidWithTheFace said: My drawl gets a lot thicker around old timers. It was a lot less pronounced after a few months out west. Now it's back to normal now that I'm back
Mine too. Especially around rural folk. Comes out quicker than hell after living out in the country.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23402905 - 07/02/16 01:56 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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SunnyD said: Then you wouldn't be able to be around me cause of your insecuritys
Cause that's the way I talk and I don't try or act like anything I also look really effeminate, I mean.. if yove seen me you know
I just have a faggot lisp on top of my southern deep voice
Thanks friend
Dude if I can't use the word faggot then you shouldn't be able to either
Someone else would get banned for that shit
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: SunnyD]
#23402915 - 07/02/16 02:04 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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SunnyD said: I notice my wrists wanna go limp I go out of my way to keep them stiff..
Im still am a insecure little fuck boy it seems
Thankfully my voice is deep at least and I don't look too effeminate
But if you look at me I'm pretty sure most people think I'm gay
Dude what's your deal you ARE still super insecure
You sound gay too mang
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: koods]
#23402925 - 07/02/16 02:10 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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What's that show with the super gay sounding dude down sound with the blonde wife n kids?
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: stzacrack]
#23403345 - 07/02/16 07:49 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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apparently you can get in trouble for calling someone a twink now
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Moonshoe]
#23403409 - 07/02/16 08:17 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#23404226 - 07/02/16 02:12 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Niffla]
#23404283 - 07/02/16 02:36 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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what makes it even better is that the girls name was "Laquifa"
it cant be real. it would be too perfect
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Niffla]
#23404284 - 07/02/16 02:37 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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The gay voice is an accent. A fake accent. So they have to do it on purpose. Why do some gay guys talk with a normal voice and some dont? A straight person can mimmick the accent, so its not only homosexual males who can do that accent. Being homosexual does not automatically make your voice like that.
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Re: Does the "gay voice" come naturally after coming out? [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#23404289 - 07/02/16 02:39 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Bill_Oreilly said: what makes it even better is that the girls name was "Laquifa"
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