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TheMovement
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2 women, 1 movement
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So I am having serious problems balancing an emotional relationship with two women. I don't know what it is, it just feels very hard to share my intimacy with two separate women equally. I'm with one and I'm wicked into her, but I'm thinking about the other in the back of my head and vis-versa. I'm super confused.
Then there's another women I am in love with, but not currently dating. They all know about each other and are ok with the idea, but still get a lil upset if I fuck up a lil bit. I tend to get completely involved in the partner I am currently with and neglect the others for a day or two. I feel like i'm walking on a rope.
The polyamory thing appeals to my rational mind, but the reality of it is that it's hard as fuck to balance.
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Ras Rising
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"If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one"
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Mojo
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TheMovement said: I'm with one and I'm wicked into her, but I'm thinking about the other in the back of my head and vis-versa. I'm super confused.
The polyamory thing appeals to my rational mind, but the reality of it is that it's hard as fuck to balance.
For this emotion to confuse you confounds your appeal to poly, in fact that emotion is the very central ideal behind monogamy. The idea that humans love one at a time, that love is segregated, that romantic feelings must be segregated to be "true". You have given a piece of yourself to more than one person, of course both of those people fill your thoughts. The question to reflect on is; are you comfortable caring about more than one person? And are your partners comfortable with that? If the answer to either of those questions is no, than you aren't in a polyamory relationship. Your in a monogmish relationship and someone is probably going to feel played eventually..
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Jokeshopbeard
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TheMovement said: The polyamory thing appeals to my rational mind, but the reality of it is that it's hard as fuck to balance.
Being poly is hard man. It was fun, for a while, but it's not something I'd ever go back to. Too much emotional drain, I found I lost time for me cause I was always so busy communicating with various women.
Gives a good ego massage mind you.
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