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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: goldcaphunter]
#23394413 - 06/29/16 02:16 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23394600 - 06/29/16 03:18 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Stayed at home until 30 because I'll be damned if I had a RM do what I saw others do to them. Never lived with anyone I wasn't sleeping with/in a relationship with either. Mom was single and I was the youngest so it worked out great. Stay at home as long as you can, build some savings, and make damn sure you don't move in with knuckleheads male or female. Living with my 3rd (and hopefully last) RM/mate/lover/friend at the moment and been with him 1 year, never fought and get along better than anyone I have ever been involved with friend wise or mate wise.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Matt87] 3
#23394666 - 06/29/16 03:47 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: I moved in with a friend and his girlfriend the day I turned eighteen. I kicked him out a week later. Been happily married for over a decade now.
You kicked out your friend and took his girl?
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Cowb0yNeal00]
#23394728 - 06/29/16 04:06 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: made it out at 20 and had my life destroyed by an EX. 0/10.... im looking for a new place as we speak so i just thought it would be funny
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Niffla] 1
#23394731 - 06/29/16 04:06 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: I moved in with a friend and his girlfriend the day I turned eighteen. I kicked him out a week later. Been happily married for over a decade now.
You kicked out your friend and took his girl?
what a sancho
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: sanchothestoner]
#23394754 - 06/29/16 04:13 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: I moved in with a friend and his girlfriend the day I turned eighteen. I kicked him out a week later. Been happily married for over a decade now.
You kicked out your friend and took his girl?
what a sancho 
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Niffla]
#23394767 - 06/29/16 04:17 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, Matt should elaborate on that story.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Acaterpillar]
#23394812 - 06/29/16 04:28 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Lived with my mom until just after 19 she gave the trailer (doublewide) to me and my uncle to split amd i worked with him
His gf seemed really cool hippie type at first then turned out to be a psycho bitch and started to turn my uncle against me slowly but surely and i wasnt having that my uncle is ghetto and kinda trashy so i could see him getting dirty fast.
So i have been wanting to leave the state i grew up in for awhile now and decided i was gonna move out and go live down south with my aunt and uncle which was nice
After awhile i moved back up here and it still sucks just now its gotten even worse.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23394813 - 06/29/16 04:29 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I first moved out when I was 16. My dad was in a bit of a pinch during the recession, he ended up moving(again) and I didn't want to. Moved in with a cousin for a while, decided his living situation didn't fit my lifestyle so I moved to the city with someone else. I was there for a while, ended up moving back with my dad for a little over 2 years on and off(long story) then I met my gf just after I turned 20 and we moved in together a few months later. Been together 5 years in October.
As far as roommate go, I've had quite a few. Most people suck. Don't move in to the type of house where people move in together to afford more drugs. You'll smoke meth and your copious roommates will blame eachother for stealing your shit.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Niffla]
#23394844 - 06/29/16 04:38 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: I moved in with a friend and his girlfriend the day I turned eighteen. I kicked him out a week later. Been happily married for over a decade now.
You kicked out your friend and took his girl?
Hell yeah man. The best ones are always already taken so it's best to just take one of those!
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Matt87]
#23395073 - 06/29/16 06:11 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's funny as fuck I'd imagine you were already fucking her beforehand or something? A week is a short time for that kinda thing to go down.
For me, it was typical dorm life with a roommate that I had nothing in common with for a couple semesters, then I moved into an apartment with this weird Cuban dude, he moves out a few weeks later and I'm on my own for a few months, then I hit up my ex from my hometown and asked her to move up here and live with me Actually worked out astonishingly well and had the best relationship of my life for over 2 years. We just broke up though, she just moved out last month
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: hex_enduction]
#23395380 - 06/29/16 08:05 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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hex_enduction said: That's funny as fuck I'd imagine you were already fucking her beforehand or something? A week is a short time for that kinda thing to go down.
For me, it was typical dorm life with a roommate that I had nothing in common with for a couple semesters, then I moved into an apartment with this weird Cuban dude, he moves out a few weeks later and I'm on my own for a few months, then I hit up my ex from my hometown and asked her to move up here and live with me Actually worked out astonishingly well and had the best relationship of my life for over 2 years. We just broke up though, she just moved out last month 
We didn't do any fooling around untill after she broke up with him. That let me know she was a good one too. Its crazy man, I met this girl and within two or three weeks we were discussing our parenting philosophies and what we would name our kids. It basically turned out just as great as we thought. I'm got so lucky!
Sorry to hear about the breakup. I haven't been through that as an adult but I know it has to be hell on your emotions.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23395464 - 06/29/16 08:45 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i was pretty much on my own at 16, sans transportation. mom worked two jobs. i had high school, then worked 5-6 days a week @ 36 hours/week after school and on saturdays, sundays i was always with friends. i cleaned the house. didn't cook much, then, but learned at 18. moved out ~three weeks after graduating HS to an okay apartment (big, two bedroom to myself, but had lots of issues including brown recluse) while attending university. started growing mushrooms a few weeks after moving in.
made that work, made some money, ate lots of psychedelics, and never had/caused any problems. acquaintance and i from high school ran into each other one day between classes, started smoking/tripping together (she'd never partied much besides drinking.) her living situation got shitty, roommates stealing, causing issues. she moved in with me for a month or so. decided we needed a bigger space (and i wanted to expand my grows), found an incredible house right near campus. shit was cool for a while. she started causing drama with boyfriends that jeopardized my safety. she wasn't on the lease, so i kicked her out. she moved next door and we still hung out some, but we were tired of each other.
after graduating uni and finding out how close the cops were to finding me, i bailed and hit the west coast. besides moving back and forth a couple times, short-term, including to west KY, i've been here ever since. unfortunately, due to some legal issues, i had to change my living situation and now have a roommate. cool guy i work with when my main job is on downtime, but he brought a bitch with him, and they're REAL young/irresponsible. hopefully this only lasts less than another year and i can figure out where i'm at. contemplating moving and going back to school, or just further my current career here
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23395557 - 06/29/16 09:14 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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The first time was hell. I was an idiotic irresponsible downright stupid 18/19 year old. I cannot believe the sheer levels of stupidity and incompetence I managed to achieve.
It was crazy, I'll say that.
Edited by nooneman (06/29/16 09:14 PM)
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: nooneman]
#23395750 - 06/29/16 10:10 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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AT 17 I had dropped out(gradded in my 20's) and was working full time. Bud and I scored a big basement in exchange for drywall/cheap rent after a while. Seemed good but landlord was a loopy Croatian vet, shell shocked from their cival war. My buddy had a yelling match with him while blowing crack hoots under the door at him. came over for beers the next few days though. The guy would always bum beers from us. Had some creepy museum of his homeland too. Anyways we had a buds birthday so had a party there and the landlord rolls in for beers, ends up threatening someone who made some weird comment about burning his house? The guy snapped, like some flashback or something. Crazy look in his eyes and bolts outta the room. Half hour later theres a Swat team/bomb squad in the driveway. Apparently he called them and said he was gonna kill us. He had a huge stockpile of guns and ammo removed. He spent 6 months in nuthouse, minimal charges. We had to kick in the door to get our stuff as someone changed locks for him. Door sat swung open forever. Only seen him once since and years later wandering in the rain downtown blackout drunk without shoes. Lived in many situations since, some good, some bad, couple years "camping"/living in forts, cars and boats. This was the first though. Havent had an account for about 8 years, tired of being all ...
Edited by Saunterer (06/29/16 10:17 PM)
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Saunterer]
#23396227 - 06/30/16 02:48 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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My first apartment in 2nd year of university was in cracktown. The people from first year I met in dorms were all inconsiderate as fuck so I decided to live alone. Bach apt on first floor with hookers right outside and fucked up people in the other apartments. I can live almost anywhere for a year lease. I prefer to live alone though I have had quite a few room mates over the years. The worst are people on coke, drinkers usually at least pass out eventually, living with bartenders who do blow until 6 am every night when you have to wake up at 7 am sucks ass. If you have to live with them I like living with people on opposite schedules they are at work when I sleep and vice versa. Also shit are people who play games that are loud, or play ones where they shout a lot. I used to live with people who played NHL various years and it was endless "Oh, OH, OHHHHH! Yeah!" There are rarely any upsides to roommates, or like they cook good meals for communal dinner but suck in every other way. If you do it with friends you may not be friends after, and strangers is like gambling. Really you should hang out with them for a while before moving in, most people thought its a 20 minute discussion, not really enough time to judge the person. People are like "aren't you lonely living alone?" and the answer is fuck no. I socialize when I want to, go hermit when I want to, walk around apartment naked when I want to. Living with bitches is a whole different bunch of hassles though. At least a roommate can't kick you out. A chick can make one call to police and you are out. And do it the day after you paid the rent so you have little cash. I was literally given the choice of leave or jail, so I chose leave. A lot of people end up homeless that way, I couch surfed until I found a new place. If you were in a new town with no friends or family you would be fucked.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: my3rdeye]
#23396329 - 06/30/16 04:30 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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i live near a college town so I have subletted a couple times
first sublet was dope it was a 900 dollar a month place everything included that i got for 330 a month for the summer. it was the first time i ever had a girl in my room. smoking weed and having sex for like six hours with no responsibilities is a very good feeling, especially going from living 2 feet away from my parents in a crowded house with 8 other family members. i learned here that renting a place where the landlord is in another state is way more chill than having a landlord up your ass all day.
2nd sublet was pretty much a dud. i didnt go look at the place because i was trusting enough in the bitch that my room would be nice. i paid a grand for 3 months in essentially a large closet that got hot as balls in the summer. i was lost as fuck and lonely as can be. i was smoking heaps and depressed as fuck. my friends that i grew up with would come over and get trashed and piss off my roommates, but i didn't have the balls to tell them to fuck off cause i was lonely. my room ended up getting searched, luckily i didn't have anything in there.
the biggest takeaways i have learned from living on my own are: random roommates suck balls, cooking meals are extremely essential, pissing roommates off can lead to cops, money is fucking important, a studio apartment is probably the only renting living situation that will fair well for me.
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Matt87] 1
#23396547 - 06/30/16 06:44 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: I moved in with a friend and his girlfriend the day I turned eighteen. I kicked him out a week later. Been happily married for over a decade now.
You kicked out your friend and took his girl?
Hell yeah man. The best ones are always already taken so it's best to just take one of those!
Lmao your "friend" (or ex-friend I'm guessing at this point) must be the ultimate super beta to allow that shit to have happened
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Re: Lets hear your first time moving out situations! [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#23396826 - 06/30/16 08:47 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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I lived in Miami the first time I was truly on my own, think I was 19 at the time, maybe 20 though, I can't remember. But one roommate was Latin American, the other white, we lived in a ghetto area of Miami, like ghetto as fuck, there were no white people for miles.
My Latin American roommate was lazy as fuck, but the white friend and I got jobs at a meat market, and it was over the train tracks which meant the black part of town. So we were the only whites for miles, which was a little bit intimidating, but never had any issues with anyone, in fact everyone was really cool.
We had a tiny little duplex we got for like $400 a month, one bathroom, one bedroom which connected to the kitchen, no door between the bedroom and kitchen, shit was really fun though. We would ride down to south beach/Miami beach sometimes on the weekend, score some weed from this Rasta I worked with, run around the beach and smoke herb at night.
Anyway, so eventually because of one roommate not pulling his weight, my buddy and I moved back to where we had come from, and I couch surfed for a while, did odd jobs to get money to live on, was really fun actually.
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