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bloodbrother778
Super Chimpanzee

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Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up?
#23388384 - 06/27/16 05:09 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hi guys,
So a weird situation that I'm trying to understand. I met this girl at a local bar one night and things went VERY well that night, let's just say that the only reason I didn't get laid was cause I didn't have condoms with me and it was like 4 am in a small town so nothing was open.
She gives me her number (I didn't even ask for it), but I didn't have a phone with me at the time, so I wrote it down on my hand. It ended up getting washed off, but I found her on a social network through some friends and asked for her number again, she gave it to me again.
A few days later I call her during the day, she picked up but said she was at work and couldn't talk at the moment, I said ok cool, call me when ur free. She never called, I called her like after another day, she didn't even pick up this time, then after another day I sent her a text asking what her plans were for the night as it was friday and said that I really want to see her. She never responded.
I stopped calling/messaging her after that. As far as I'm concerned she isn't worth my time if she's already doing shit like that. I've let it go and don't feel bad about it anymore as I've got plenty of options. I am however still curious as to why a girl would do that? The most likely explanations are that it's another guy or she's just crazy. But why give me her number twice just to not answer when I call? I mean the first time she could've been drunk sure, but she gave it to me a second time and it was not a fake number.
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larry.fisherman
shoulda died already


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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: bloodbrother778]
#23388408 - 06/27/16 05:18 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe she has a boyfriend/husband, or she's just busy.
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bloodsheen
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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#23389249 - 06/27/16 09:45 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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You met a random bar fly and are surprised when she doesn't like you calling her a couple times in a week? To the mind of a hookup artist you sound like a nester or "dating material." Probably would have been best to wait like two weeks, randomly text her on a friday after work if she wants to get a few drinks... obvious hookup is obvious
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Konyap

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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: bloodsheen]
#23389586 - 06/27/16 11:41 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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people just like it when you hit up their phones they think it makes them popular when someone takes down your number and doesn't ever respond it's the classic "california no" it's so ingrained into female culture they don't even realize doing it to friends half the time they'd rather be alone because they get more attention that way
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Still_tripping
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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: Konyap]
#23393805 - 06/29/16 10:40 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Women have sometimes been known to change their mind.
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Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: Still_tripping]
#23395356 - 06/29/16 07:58 PM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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Could be a million reasons why. It sounds like she is busy (with what or who we don't know). But she was willing to give you her number TWICE and she picked up at work and told you to call back another time all good signs. Just give it a rest and maybe you'll see her out again or she will text you. Not worth it to keep calling but you know that
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Jokeshopbeard
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Re: Girl gives me her number twice and doesn't pick up? [Re: Black_Sunset]
#23396419 - 06/30/16 05:31 AM (7 years, 6 months ago) |
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You probably just went in a little too quick. Relax man. Exude confidence (but be careful not to cross into arrogance). It'll win you so many situations where other people are involved.
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