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slushie9090
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freinds? *DELETED*
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fireworks_god
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Well, if your friends are the ones in that picture, then that might be a clue...
Hhhm.... I'm not sure what the deal would be. It could be that they just honestly don't connect with you...
*shrugs* Hard to say, really, it could be something to do with you or them... really hard to say. hehe Peace.
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Dankman
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I feel kinda the same way. All of my friends are different than me. I feel that mushrooms have made me a better person by realizing we are all one and all that good stuff. None of them say it but I think they think I am turning into a "tree hugger" and mushrooms are making me weird. I think the problem is they haven't woken up and looked at the big picture. There is more to life than being a slave to work and tv and beer. I feel more connected to nature and my mind while others I know like to shoot cats for fun while drunk. Sometimes people just choose different paths in life and friendships fade away. Maybe I'm ready for new friends. I would rather read posts like yours instead of going to a bar every night. That didn't make much sense but that's ok.
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Spokesman
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I've thought the same things many times my friend. I've been a part of the circle where half the guys are selling drugs, half are doing them and everyone is thinking about money and sex. And these are people i grew up with so i call them friends but while in this circle sometimes right after puffing on my post-blunt cigarette i stop and think "why im in this circle?" "These guys have stabbed me in the back before but i seem to just forgive and come back." I tried isolating myself but you can only go so long by yourself before going insane.
Belive me. I started isolating myself, i didn't have a job or went to school and all i did was wake up smoke weed, read, watch TV and sleep. It lasted about a month before i started considering imaginary friends and had nightly conversations with super-evoveled dieties in my head. I snapped out of it, got a job and contacted my old friends again. I slowly decended back into social reality.
Relationships, whether good or bad are a human need, just like food and water. We need to ineract with each other in order to get through life. We are attracted to some and are uncomftorble around others. Regardless i think you shouldn't think of your friends as people that will be there for you always. But it's good to have someone to trust and if that person breaks your trust then realize that this is just a part of life. Move on and when you cant trust any family or friends with your feelings then write em down.
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NiamhNyx
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When I was younger Ifelt the exact same way about my group of friends. I eventually distanced myself from them and slowly found friends that are more reflective of my own thinking. I really love my friends now, and I'm making some more in my new town since I just moved. The point is to find people that really inspire you, that you can really talk to although its not always easy especially when you're still in highschool.
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Spokesman
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Re: freinds? [Re: NiamhNyx]
#2337267 - 02/15/04 12:21 PM (20 years, 1 month ago) |
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Making new friends is the best thing you can do. I try to make a new friend everyday now.
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Alan Stone
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I don't feel like this at all. I have some people I talk to, but with whom I don't feel a connection. I don't call them friends, though. Friends to me are about acceptance of who and what you are, about being able to transport yourself into the kind of thinking they do. Supporting eachother through the crap and the good.
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slushie9090
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Re: freinds? *DELETED* [Re: Alan Stone]
#2337766 - 02/15/04 02:46 PM (20 years, 1 month ago) |
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CerebralFlower
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I feel the same way sometimes
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Viaggio
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Quote:
Rin said: going threw highschool you could say i was "popular". Evrybody knew me and i knew everybody...but it wasnt till after highschool i relized that most of the "popular" kids are soo dull and generic, and those "dorks" were really the people that i found more intresting.
I figured out the same thing following highschool...dorks are cool
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slushie9090
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Re: freinds? *DELETED* [Re: Viaggio]
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daba
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Labelling an individual a "dork" is simply admitting that you: 1) cannot comprehend their point of view, thus you give them a negative connotation. 2) are too homely and plain yourself. Another machine from society's assembly line.
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Viaggio
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Re: freinds? [Re: daba]
#2338588 - 02/15/04 07:10 PM (20 years, 1 month ago) |
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daba said: Labelling an individual a "dork" is simply admitting that you: 1) cannot comprehend their point of view, thus you give them a negative connotation. 2) are too homely and plain yourself. Another machine from society's assembly line.
I agree...and daba is a dork j/k
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