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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23367611 - 06/21/16 05:35 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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So protocol is I shouldn't text back and if she never texts back she doesn't want to see me anynore?
Pretty much. She could just be trying to let you down nicely. If so, take it for what it is. If shes into you, she'll text you.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23367624 - 06/21/16 05:38 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Broly said: We end up smoking again and im getting to know her and im really into this girl now ... i think we have a good time , when i drop her off i kiss her. Then text her im happy I met her , and I text her the next day trying to make plans for the day after the day I texted her.
She texts back she feels uncomfortable I text back thanks for your honesty , no worries.
You rushed it, brah. She needed some time to reflect on the situation but you rushed her and made her feel uncomfortable. The kiss may have been a rush for her too.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23367649 - 06/21/16 05:43 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Going in guns blazing not giving a fuck about the consequences....the true american way. Good job op
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: spirit_shadow]
#23367653 - 06/21/16 05:44 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe the OP is Mexican.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23367659 - 06/21/16 05:46 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yup that's truly the mistake i made. I hope it did not ruin my chances completely. I rushed because she was leaving Sunday , plus I've been tripping more often and I feel more open and I guess friendly.
and thus is why patience is a virtue
well no one make my mistake
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23367667 - 06/21/16 05:48 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well if she does like you at all, she has a kiss to contemplate and possibly change her mind, I hope it was a good one!
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23367693 - 06/21/16 05:54 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yes man valid point , it wasn't spectacular but it was good. She kissed me back so that's something .
I'm thinking worst case i apologize like 3-7 days down the line if she doesn't text back. Try to explain to her how I was feeling and im sorry for like rushing and imposing myself upon her ? Or shpuld i not do this at all. Hoping that would give me a 2nd chance , if that doesn't work I'd throw in the towel.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23367696 - 06/21/16 05:56 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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California said: Well if she does like you at all, she has a kiss to contemplate and possibly change her mind, I hope it was a good one!
Yea I mean she was honest and it might've hurt but at least u were too with the kiss and such
Don't b bummed idkthe circumstances but if she's into u she'll Def let u kno
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23367697 - 06/21/16 05:56 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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At least apologize ASAP for rushing it, and keep it at that. Any more than a simple and straight-forward due apology will probably only make her more uncomfortable. If you hear back from her after that she is obviously more comfortable and understanding of the moment.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: stzacrack]
#23367722 - 06/21/16 06:05 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Great input man , appreciate your guys advice, it really helps put this into perspective and im glad you are here with this solid advice.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23367727 - 06/21/16 06:07 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Good luck, man. We are here for you. Stay shroomy.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23367921 - 06/21/16 07:01 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Honesty is the best policy.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: spirit_shadow]
#23368005 - 06/21/16 07:25 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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spirit_shadow said: Going in guns blazing not giving a fuck about the consequences....the true american way
lmao shit had my dying
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23368176 - 06/21/16 08:18 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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So she just said " i feel uncomfortable " ? If so I would wait 2 or?3 days regaurdless of whether she's leaving . Even then she may not go for it. At least you learned whatnot to do in the future
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: California]
#23369502 - 06/22/16 10:03 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Small update here could be pointless , but she just liked a pic I uploaded on instagram. This is a pretty good sign I believe ? Or could mean nothing lmao
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23369508 - 06/22/16 10:06 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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You are on her mind atleast, but who knows what the fuck it means Trying to figure out women is nuts.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: xbloodwhipx]
#23369518 - 06/22/16 10:11 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Just face the facts already OP. You're gonna be alone forever.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Patlal]
#23369523 - 06/22/16 10:13 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Nah i have god so I'm good , here with me for eternity.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23369597 - 06/22/16 10:43 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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I heard that the best way to find out if a chick is into you for real is to tell her a terrible unfunny joke and if she laughs then she's into you.
With that being said, chuck a whipped cream pie at her face. If she laughs she's a keeper
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: plasma]
#23369623 - 06/22/16 10:53 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Apologize for the kiss. say you got caught up in the moment or something and it felt like the right think to do, the ask he if she would still be comfortable being your friend. Next time let HER make the move, it should be pretty obvious if she does, if not you have a new female friend! Hanging out with girls is actually pretty fun if they're cool (smoke, open minded etc...), and they can help introduce you to other hot lady friends.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: falsereality]
#23369672 - 06/22/16 11:14 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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She wanted the dick and all you did was give her a little kiss, she's moving onto a real man that smashes her pussy with no hesitation, better luck next time.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: plasma]
#23369711 - 06/22/16 11:38 AM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is she leaving for good? I see a lot of dudes have success being persistent, but I've never been one to persist after being told no. Though she didn't explicitly say "no", so you're still good. Personally, I'd give her space. I would wait a week or so before you talk to her again, apology or not. Hitting her up too often after she doesn't reciprocate conversation can make you seem desperate or obsessive.
I would't read much into her liking your ig photos. It is a good sign that she likely doesn't find you repulsive or scary, but any speculation beyond that is just guesswork.
I'd say there's hope Goodluck
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Acaterpillar]
#23370339 - 06/22/16 03:41 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm not sure if she's leaving for good she's going to her other home up north like 4-5 hours away from where I'm at.
I guess this should be mentioned I basically told her during the sesh that I know you don't know me to well but Im looking for a roommate and I said if u ever come back down and are down let me know , she kind of fastly said yes shes pretty down. She said she'd probably work up there for some time then come d back down If she was going to room with me. I basically invited her because i actually do need a roomate and shes definately a gopd candidate. also because idk i know id eventually want to ask so migjt as well just be honest.
Ye space is for sure what I'll give her and ye I'm probably just going to not even hit her back up for like 5-7 days , probably even after she leaves. all in all i came on way to strong but at least she knows what i think of her , only time will tell how she feels as well. I personally think she felt uncomfortable as well because she may think I'm just looking to smash or something and not hit her back which is not the case.
Thanks for your input friend
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: qman]
#23370347 - 06/22/16 03:44 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Nah i think youre wrong I'm dropping her off and we're in a car ... why would she smash a person she chilled with twice , that being the second time. I know their are sluts like that but she's definately not one bro , she makes all these other girls look lame af. She's seriously so bad , she could be a model or movie star...
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: Broly]
#23370353 - 06/22/16 03:46 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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look at some pick up artist stuff learning how to read women and the situation is valuable knowledge
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: falsereality]
#23370596 - 06/22/16 05:23 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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falsereality said: Apologize for the kiss. say you got caught up in the moment or something and it felt like the right think to do, the ask he if she would still be comfortable being your friend. Next time let HER make the move, it should be pretty obvious if she does, if not you have a new female friend! Hanging out with girls is actually pretty fun if they're cool (smoke, open minded etc...), and they can help introduce you to other hot lady friends.
Paulie D aka OP:
Don't do this.
Don't say anything. Let her come to you and then the next time she texts or calls - don't pick up or respond right away.
If you do end up reaching out first, I wouldn't do the apology thing. You already addressed the kiss by saying "no worries, thanks for your honesty" so to address it again makes things even more awkward.
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: yogabunny]
#23370602 - 06/22/16 05:25 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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yogabunny said: Paulie D aka OP
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Re: She said she feels uncomfortable (story+ advise?) [Re: yogabunny]
#23370695 - 06/22/16 05:54 PM (7 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ye his advice I disregarded because felt like it was wrong. I wouldn't apologize about the kiss... The apology would be for rushing her.
I said thanks for being honest , no worries I understand. I don't think it was the kiss that made her uncomfortable it me texting her to fast and not allowing time for to internalize the kiss and the two times we chilled. She's probably into me but doesn't want to rush heavy.
I'm going to wait and see if she does text first, if not like 5-7 I'll Txt and see where things are then .
btw bro my text wasn't addressing the kiss it was addressing that no worries i understand you're uncomfortable and may feel rushed no worries , you feel me
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