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nuentoter
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Part of it I think is giving over of yourself to someone else's trust. Showing the level of trust when you are being choked can be an extremely intimate, intense, experience.coupe that with intense physical sensation, the line between pain and pleasure is drawn by (at least in part) the brain.change your mentality and the situation and you can change where the input goes in your head.
A good example of this is top look up organic births.women can potentially have incredibly intense positive labors. It's in the head.
Knowing your partner trusts you with potentially their life, or at least physical safety, to ride that crest of the wave of physical input, be it "pain our pleasure".
Some fetishes simply have to do with the allure of the unknown and the hidden and the things we don't speak about. The fringes of acceptability in societal/cultural upbringing. My 2ยข
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koraks
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Re: Favorite BDSM moves [Re: nuentoter]
#23078774 - 04/03/16 11:19 AM (7 years, 10 months ago) |
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Pleasure and pain are closely related for some people. For us, it's just as intimate, passionate and deep as it is for you. It just involves some stimuli that you wouldn't associate with intimacy. I don't think it can be explained, it's just how you're wired.
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Beanhead
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wrapped around tape gag pantyhose hogtie heel taped to nose so it looks like a beak :>
gags in general really frogtie can be cute too ! Everyone pretty in rope
somewhat open gag or large ballgag and then drooling ... who said anything about you being in control of your body functions !? oh gawd  flufftail buttplug is bonuspoints
these may or not may be things I want =.=
Edited by Beanhead (04/04/16 07:28 AM)
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Chakra Shock
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Re: Favorite BDSM moves [Re: koraks]
#23081580 - 04/04/16 07:43 AM (7 years, 10 months ago) |
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I see, so it's just like an inner dialogue with the sensations that takes you to certain places, probably the same place that I go when I'm experiencing what I think of as 'pleasure'. Maybe it's even more intense for people who can associate that with pain as well, because there's just a more varied nuance of sensations as fuel for the release.
Also I definitely understand the trust thing, whether it be someone putting all of their trust in you or the other way around... that is a highly fulfilling experience and if you achieve that through bdsm then cool I say. That's really what I think is beautiful about sex anyways, the way two ( or more ) people can feel such a deep bond with each other, that they trust each other with their bodies, heart and soul.
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koraks
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I think that's as close as one could get to understanding it without actually experiencing it
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Re: Favorite BDSM moves [Re: koraks]
#23084066 - 04/04/16 07:58 PM (7 years, 10 months ago) |
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For me, receiving pain is as much about the psychological submission aspect and the physical interplay between pain, adrenaline, and dopamine. It is soooooo intense. My girl likes to be dominated as well but less into the pain aspect. Her pupils always get huuuuge when she's way into it. It's really, really fun.
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