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Wax Play
    #22994651 - 03/11/16 12:29 AM (7 years, 11 months ago)

Are you into it?  I just met this girl who was totally into it and kept bringing it up, but I have no experience in this subject.  We are gonna play together at sometime in the future and I want to be prepared.  Wtf do I do?  Have several lit candles waiting on deck just to make her squirm?  She also asked if I liked to switch, which you bet your ass I do.  It's hot as fuck not knowing which partner is gonna dom.  But my lips are all bit up :supercrankey:

Is wax play what it sounds like?  Super sensual play with melted candle wax?  I can see why that'd be hot.. especially with her.


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Re: Wax Play [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22994819 - 03/11/16 01:56 AM (7 years, 11 months ago)

Yes, it's hot - in several ways :wink:

If you start out with this, I'd recommend d buying some regular white table candles (not the bulky kind, but the slender ones). Also stay away from colored candles for the moment, as the dyes can raise the melting point and that increases the risks of burns.

Also, it's good to know that varying the height from which you drip the wax onto the skin influences the temperature of the was as it hits the skin. Start by dripping from a larger height (2 or 3 ft for example) to see how you/your partner likes it. You can get closer if you notice that some more intense stimulus is needed.

Another thing is that you might expect that wax dripped onto the skin directly would be more intense than if you drip wax onto an area you've already coated in wax before. Actually, the reverse is true in practice. Wax poured onto a waxed area tends to be more painful as the heat of the fresh wax distributes through the existing, solidified layer, exposing a larger area of the skin to a high temperature.

It might be a good idea to practice this on your own arm or leg (or other body parts if you're feeling adventurous) to get a feel for what you'll be doing to your partner. In general I think this is good advice with bdsm practices, as it helps you to understand what the other person experiences under your hands.

If done with care, wax play can be very sensual and exciting; it's a lot of fun!

The main disadvantage is cleaning up; you'll find that tiny droplets of wax end up all around your partner and especially if textiles are around, it'll be a bitch to clean them up. I've nearly broken my neck several times during the days after some wax play in my apartment as the laminate floor was all slippery with tiny spots of candlewax :wink:

Of course, if you're into it, it's a nice touch to 'clean' your partner of wax by flogging the wax off of her. It's pretty effective - and pretty intense as well :wink:


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Re: Wax Play [Re: koraks]
    #22994825 - 03/11/16 01:59 AM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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koraks said:
Yes, it's hot - in several ways :wink:

If you start out with this, I'd recommend d buying some regular white table candles (not the bulky kind, but the slender ones). Also stay away from colored candles for the moment, as the dyes can raise the melting point and that increases the risks of burns.

Also, it's good to know that varying the height from which you drip the wax onto the skin influences the temperature of the was as it hits the skin. Start by dripping from a larger height (2 or 3 ft for example) to see how you/your partner likes it. You can get closer if you notice that some more intense stimulus is needed.

Another thing is that you might expect that wax dripped onto the skin directly would be more intense than if you drip wax onto an area you've already coated in wax before. Actually, the reverse is true in practice. Wax poured onto a waxed area tends to be more painful as the heat of the fresh wax distributes through the existing, solidified layer, exposing a larger area of the skin to a high temperature.

It might be a good idea to practice this on your own arm or leg (or other body parts if you're feeling adventurous) to get a feel for what you'll be doing to your partner. In general I think this is good advice with bdsm practices, as it helps you to understand what the other person experiences under your hands.

If done with care, wax play can be very sensual and exciting; it's a lot of fun!

The main disadvantage is cleaning up; you'll find that tiny droplets of wax end up all around your partner and especially if textiles are around, it'll be a bitch to clean them up. I've nearly broken my neck several times during the days after some wax play in my apartment as the laminate floor was all slippery with tiny spots of candlewax :wink:

Of course, if you're into it, it's a nice touch to 'clean' your partner of wax by flogging the wax off of her. It's pretty effective - and pretty intense as well :wink:




Wow Koraks.  You are amazing.  Is there anything you haven't done?  This partner I am talking about asked me how I felt about switching and while I usually DOM, I think Subbing would be hella fucking hot.

I'll definitely practice wax play on my own.  Just to get the art down.  Like a science project.


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Re: Wax Play [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22996332 - 03/11/16 03:07 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

Haha, there's a lot more that I haven't tried than stuff I've done - but there's still time :wink:

I tried subbing once or twice with an ex; we concluded both of us liked it the other way around better. Then again, I didn't dislike it either. It's fun to switch, but it's not for everyone and fortunately it's not something I miss either (my gf is absolutely not dominant at all sexually :P)


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Re: Wax Play [Re: koraks]
    #22996519 - 03/11/16 04:00 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

Sorry if this derails the thread, but I honestly am often concerned with how rarely women like to dom, its hard enough for me to find a partner let alone someone who is compatible with me sexually. If I was with a girl who was 100% sub I'm pretty sure we wouldn't work out. Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?


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Re: Wax Play [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22996528 - 03/11/16 04:01 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
Sorry if this derails the thread, but I honestly am often concerned with how rarely women like to dom, its hard enough for me to find a partner let alone someone who is compatible with me sexually. If I was with a girl who was 100% sub I'm pretty sure we wouldn't work out. Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?



Tons of relationships fail because of a lack of sexual compatibility!


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Re: Wax Play [Re: TheMovement]
    #22996537 - 03/11/16 04:04 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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TheMovement said:
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bloodsheen said:
Sorry if this derails the thread, but I honestly am often concerned with how rarely women like to dom, its hard enough for me to find a partner let alone someone who is compatible with me sexually. If I was with a girl who was 100% sub I'm pretty sure we wouldn't work out. Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?



Tons of relationships fail because of a lack of sexual compatibility!



I seriously have this daymare of meeting my soul mate (I don't believe in them but you get what I mean) and when I ask her to scratch my back and arms she'd look at me like "Dude wtf?!"

In fact I know myself all too well, this is exactly whats going to happen. Its how I roll


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Re: Wax Play [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22996541 - 03/11/16 04:06 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
Sorry if this derails the thread, but I honestly am often concerned with how rarely women like to dom, its hard enough for me to find a partner let alone someone who is compatible with me sexually. If I was with a girl who was 100% sub I'm pretty sure we wouldn't work out. Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?



Tons of relationships fail because of a lack of sexual compatibility!



I seriously have this daymare of meeting my soul mate (I don't believe in them but you get what I mean) and when I ask her to scratch my back and arms she'd look at me like "Dude wtf?!"

In fact I know myself all too well, this is exactly whats going to happen. Its how I roll





Dude if she is your soul mate then of course she would do it!!!  A lot of girls scratch backs/arms too!  I wouldn't worry about it.


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Re: Wax Play [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22996723 - 03/11/16 04:51 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?



I had a short relationship with a girl that was 100% sub. Didn't work for me at all, hence the 'short' bit. I found it pretty damn boring.

Even if, in a relationship, the two of you are 100% sexually compatible for a while, the scales will tip eventually. I don't think it's possible to be 100% sexually compatible with anyone over a long period of time, much as it's not possible to like everything about another person, IMO.


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Re: Wax Play [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22996734 - 03/11/16 04:55 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
Anyone ever had a relationship fail because you didn't jive in that way?



Sure; I lived with a vanilla woman for a few years. Wonderful person and it was difficult to let each other go, but it didn't work.
Being a male with sub tendencies does seem to make it more difficult to find a good match, it seems to me. Women who identify as dom are much scarcer than female subs. There's quite a few switches though, and yes, the occasional domme. I suppose guys are also more likely to place an ad looking for dominant women than dommes place ads to find a sub guy. But then again, the women probably don't need to, as guys will approach them anyway on sites such as fetlife, so it's hard to estimate if the male subs outnumber the female dommes.


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Re: Wax Play [Re: koraks]
    #22997377 - 03/11/16 08:21 PM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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:wink:

:wink:

:wink:



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:wink:



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Re: Wax Play [Re: Sheekle]
    #22998210 - 03/12/16 01:37 AM (7 years, 11 months ago)

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