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Offlinefilthysock
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Just the typical girl problem
    #2299566 - 02/04/04 05:11 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

There's this girl in my school who I'm kind of starting something with... but I dont know what to talk with her about, I allways end up saying something completely pathetically stupid in those awkward moments... and when we talk in groups I hate it when some guy manages to make her laugh... cause I'm not too good at that.  It ended up with me taking the fire extinguisher in our dormitory and spraying around the halls, that make her laugh... and cough AND run outside in the snow with socks and catch a cold, lol, but she laughed too  :tongue:
Now I'm in deep shit because of that.  Fuck!  She shows me more atention than other guys but I dont know how long that will last when I dont know what to say to her or talk with her about.  Another problem is that I think too much, get too philosophical and have some weird way of answering everything in some complex technical philosophical way, I dont know how NOT to do it... and well... its not the best way too chat up a girl. :crazy:
PS.
I would like a girls opinion/help on this if its ok.


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: filthysock]
    #2299735 - 02/04/04 08:22 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I'm in the same sort of situation as you are, as of today I can't be fucked.


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: filthysock]
    #2299991 - 02/04/04 11:01 AM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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and have some weird way of answering everything in some complex technical philosophical way 




Holy shit do I know that. :smirk:


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Offlinefilthysock
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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
    #2300355 - 02/04/04 01:20 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Just out of interest, how do people respond to you about that?
Are they all like:  :wtf:
Or more like, "thats deep man" :stoned:


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: filthysock]
    #2300661 - 02/04/04 02:47 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

anyone who doesn't know you will be like :wtf:

anyone who actually listens to what you're saying and puts thought into it will be like "thats deep man"


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Offlinefilthysock
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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: Adden]
    #2301017 - 02/04/04 03:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

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s2dope said:
anyone who doesn't know you will be like :wtf:

anyone who actually listens to what you're saying and puts thought into it will be like "thats deep man"




Yeah.. I just get alot of WTF's, lol.


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: Adden]
    #2301076 - 02/04/04 04:00 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Only a certain type of people will acknowlege what I said if something like that happens. I love those types of people.  :laugh:

Lots of people don't even wanna bother with intelligent conversation, which I think has something to do with not being able to contribute, or all that existentiallism only leads them to misery; certain ideals are not under their control or acceptable. On the other side of the spectrum there are the people who like such philosophical type things, usually with them  it's a battle of conversation and hard not to interrupt each other.

My suggestion is to vary between deep and easy going conversation. Use joking and light topics to get things going and if the person is worth getting close to, include deep topics.

I used to be like what you described. That was about a year ago. Now I can just go with the flow sort of, the conversations I have are  much more light-hearted and fun. However, I'm always on the lookout for intellegent, deep people... and they will be too, you'll meet plenty of them in your life.

To have those light conversations you must first not take life so seriously and use humor. This is easily written, not easily put into practice... but do just that, practice. With time it will become natural, it has for me.


I bet in a few years you'll have no problem.  :smile:


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
    #2301150 - 02/04/04 04:18 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

Thanks alot man.


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Re: Just the typical girl problem [Re: ArmFromTheAbyss]
    #2301326 - 02/04/04 04:48 PM (12 years, 10 months ago)

I keep philosophy for in my head and on here sometimes, usuall if I try to have an in depth conversation it always gets sidetracked by one of the points that is made.

It's just strange trying to always have meaningful conversation, theres so many random things you can talk about, look around you pick an object and start talking about it.


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