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Prisoner#1
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Registered: 01/22/03
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Rebelutionsssss said: Maybe try sitting down and talking with him?
if that conversation is about getting professional help then yes, it's a good idea otherwise this guy is going to put someone else into the cycle and also land his ass on a registry for life among many other horrible things
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Re: dealing with molestation [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Anonymous #1
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Guess I'll update this thread since I can't sleep tonight, even though it won't be what alot of you want to hear.
Some further details after talking to the brother:
It happened around 5-8, and it was the step moms son (teenager) and another family friend (teenager). I guess the dad of both of these kids was a known child abuser. What a crazy cycle.
Also, I guess her brother told the dad about it, and he either chose to ignore it because he didn't want problems, or he chose not to believe it. Either way, no one protected this kid.
My friend ended up confiding this information in her mom, the mom told another daughter, and the daughter called the brother who was molested. Now he's pissed and refuses to talk to my friend. Probably the most retarded thing they could have done at this point.
Guess that's about where things stand now. I feel like this kid is a danger to himself more then to society, and he definitely knows right from wrong, but yeah, ticking time bomb nonetheless.
I suspect this won't end well, but not my family or my problems. Thanks for those of you who gave your advice. Please love and protect your children.
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JacksonMetaller
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Has your friend simply asked him what he wants or needs to get better? Some times problem solving someone else's issues causes more problems and its better just to be there for them and listen and continously ask them if you can do anything for them. I don't know but if it were me in that position I would just want a friend, not a family intervention or some dramatic action
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Prisoner#1
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Registered: 01/22/03
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Anonymous said: This is the problem with America. We all agree that pedophilia is immoral and wrong in so many ways, but we don't have a true resource to stop the cycle. He was molested, so it corrupted his future. It doesn't mean he is a bad person, it just means that he probably needs intensive therapy to face his problems. He doesn't belong in jail - he belongs in therapy. The government needs to step up and open a program with non judgmental resources to stop this disease.
if he hasnt acted on the urges then he doesnt belong in jail, ones he crosses that line he's become the monster that created him, at that point jail is the option that's appropriate for the crime.
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JacksonMetaller said: Has your friend simply asked him what he wants or needs to get better? Some times problem solving someone else's issues causes more problems and its better just to be there for them and listen and continously ask them if you can do anything for them. I don't know but if it were me in that position I would just want a friend, not a family intervention or some dramatic action
She only talked to him the one time, and said she wasn't exactly sure what he wanted, and maybe wanted no help at all but someone to talk to.
I felt this wasnt an acceptable solution though. In my mind if someone has thoughts of hurting themselves and others, they need serious professional help not just a friend.
Sounds like both of those are off the table for now though because are so fucking dumb and can't keep their mouths shut.
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