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The most wonderful thing just happened. 5
#22507753 - 11/11/15 01:01 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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There's this really cute/smart girl I've been keeping my eye on for a number of years now. She just randomly messaged me today and ended up asking me out.
I haven't so much as met a new girl my age in what feels like over a year, possibly longer. Now this. I keep checking my hand to see if I'm dreaming, but nope, I am AWAKE!

Only drawback is she's currently out of the state. (asking me out over internet chat AND while out of state cute) But this means I have quite a while to plan what to do with her the first time we hang out. I have never dated. I have had a long term girlfriend, but have never dated, flirted, that kind of thing. Therefore I'm rather nervous about this first meeting in over 2-3 years and want to plan something special/interesting to be doing.
I just need something to be doing that can easily keep conversation flowing. Just sitting face to face at a table with someone is more challenging. I suppose I can chat her up in the coming weeks to find out what she's into doing.
I'm just so happy, I had to tell somebody. I have such respect for this women I don't even let myself masturbate to the thought of her. And to think she had the same feelings for me is just fucking life affirming. We've spoken so little, but we just connect, and she see's it too
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 10
#22507777 - 11/11/15 01:13 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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How old is she?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22507866 - 11/11/15 02:21 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
I just need something to be doing that can easily keep conversation flowing.

What never fails me, and I am giving away my only dating secret here, is ask her questions about herself. Instead of randomly trying to talk about current events, ask her questions. You get to know her, everything flows, and she sees you are interested. I do this with all females even the just friends ones and it always works. I do it to my hot friend, and she knows I do it, and she still falls for it. I never have uncomfortable silences. Rarely ever do they say at the end "but you didn't tell me anything about yourself" because they don't fucking care. They like to talk about themselves and you become the good guy listener. After that you are on your own, just don't get friend zoned.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: my3rdeye]
#22508175 - 11/11/15 07:16 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thats great to hear man!!! Good things always happen when u need them. If i had some advice it would be to play it cool.
I am kind of in the same situation as u in that i have never dated but i have had a lomg term gf but i had to move away from her so now im just waiting for someone new but i might have to go on some dates.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ergoticmandala]
#22508182 - 11/11/15 07:20 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Wait do u guys have anything in mind that u wanna do when u guys hang out? What did she hv in mind?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ergoticmandala] 1
#22508184 - 11/11/15 07:21 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Awesome man. I hope everything works out for you.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Sade] 14
#22508191 - 11/11/15 07:24 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have such respect for this women I don't even let myself masturbate to the thought of her.
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Giftofdeprivation said: How old is she?
don't worry she is my age if not a tad older.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22508542 - 11/11/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have never dated. I have had a long term girlfriend, but have never dated, flirted, that kind of thing.
Can you explain this statement?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: my3rdeye]
#22508546 - 11/11/15 09:31 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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my3rdeye said:
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rbalzer said:
I just need something to be doing that can easily keep conversation flowing.

What never fails me, and I am giving away my only dating secret here, is ask her questions about herself. Instead of randomly trying to talk about current events, ask her questions. You get to know her, everything flows, and she sees you are interested. I do this with all females even the just friends ones and it always works. I do it to my hot friend, and she knows I do it, and she still falls for it. I never have uncomfortable silences. Rarely ever do they say at the end "but you didn't tell me anything about yourself" because they don't fucking care. They like to talk about themselves and you become the good guy listener. After that you are on your own, just don't get friend zoned.
now thats some solid simple advice. I've never really taken this approach. Was hanging out with this one girl ages ago and she keeps asking me to ask about her, and I just have no idea what I'd want to know about her.
She's actually been living a life she can talk about so that'll be easy to get her talking about...me on the other hand. God I hope she doesn't ask what I've been doing since graduation
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ergoticmandala]
#22508550 - 11/11/15 09:33 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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ergoticmandala said: Wait do u guys have anything in mind that u wanna do when u guys hang out? What did she hv in mind?
she didn't mention anything specific. I don't really know that much about her to be honest.
I know that she's pretty nerdy which is great. She definitely likes videogames but I'm hoping she's the kind of nerdy that can get into D&D and boffering.
She also likes skiing...what else what else. Yeah I'm definitely going to need to get some info out of her before she comes back to town.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: my3rdeye] 2
#22508557 - 11/11/15 09:35 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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my3rdeye said:
What never fails me, and I am giving away my only dating secret here, is ask her questions about herself. Instead of randomly trying to talk about current events, ask her questions. You get to know her, everything flows, and she sees you are interested. I do this with all females even the just friends ones and it always works. I do it to my hot friend, and she knows I do it, and she still falls for it. I never have uncomfortable silences. Rarely ever do they say at the end "but you didn't tell me anything about yourself" because they don't fucking care. They like to talk about themselves and you become the good guy listener.
Lol truth
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 2
#22508563 - 11/11/15 09:36 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Malcolm_Xtasy said:
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I have never dated. I have had a long term girlfriend, but have never dated, flirted, that kind of thing.
Can you explain this statement?
Well being really shy, all of my girlfriends have always fallen into my lap. They decide they like me and just like that we're fuckbuddies/bf-gf. No dating involved
I've never hit on, been hit on, flirted. I don't talk to girls my age except my friends girlfriend.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22508573 - 11/11/15 09:39 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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well that must be nice 
How do you know this chick? I might have missed it in the OP. It just sounds like you know absolutely nothing about her. Did you guys go to school together or something? Regardless, good luck. My3rdeye gave some pretty killer advice
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#22508576 - 11/11/15 09:41 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I don't talk to girls my age.
We knew that already
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#22508583 - 11/11/15 09:41 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Didn't wanna be the first to say it
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#22508624 - 11/11/15 09:53 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP bring her to a concert and party like it's 1969
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Sheekle] 7
#22508645 - 11/11/15 09:59 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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^ The blind leading the blind
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: koods]
#22508779 - 11/11/15 10:44 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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man i would be too nervous to go on a date with a girl
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i know right? I might cancel the whole thing
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22521097 - 11/14/15 04:37 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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So what happenned
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ergoticmandala]
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Achillita]
#22521695 - 11/14/15 10:11 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Oh well idk if I'd mentioned this but she's out of state atm. We've just been chatting on the web a little bit the last couple days.
Just waiting for her to get back to town and trying to mentally plan some good questions to ask her/stuff to talk about. And the bigger question of what the hell to do that first time we hang out.
Found out that she doesn't believe in monogamy though, since I don't either thats a major plus.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22521700 - 11/14/15 10:13 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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its easy to just sit
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xTaYsEa_CiA said: its easy to just sit
just sit? Thats how long awkward silences get started
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thats hot make sure shes nice to you.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: foodsgoodtoo]
#22553171 - 11/20/15 09:16 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Its difficult to think of something to do the first time we hang out. Happens to be getting quite cold around here lately too.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22553460 - 11/20/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Congrats man! Happy for ya.
Maybe ice skating Together? Or see some Christmas lights in a city 
Good advice about asking about her. Once she talks, just talk a little about yourself too. Should keep the conversation going.
Also, do a mental timeline "past, present, future". Ask her things about her past (not ex's), present (whats currently going on) and future (dreams, goals, aspirations, etc.)
Good luck! And congrats
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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tbh bro you really shouldnt have to TRY to keep conversation flowing thats how you know shes the good one man u got to connect:) goodluck
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Perusha_Kyuden]
#22555129 - 11/21/15 11:44 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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LogicaL Chaos said: Congrats man! Happy for ya.
Maybe ice skating Together? Or see some Christmas lights in a city 
Good advice about asking about her. Once she talks, just talk a little about yourself too. Should keep the conversation going.
Also, do a mental timeline "past, present, future". Ask her things about her past (not ex's), present (whats currently going on) and future (dreams, goals, aspirations, etc.)
Good luck! And congrats 
I found each individual suggestion helpful. Many thanks LC! I especially like the past present future deal.
Plus ice-skating is something I never would have thought of..
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Perusha_Kyuden said: tbh bro you really shouldnt have to TRY to keep conversation flowing thats how you know shes the good one man u got to connect:) goodluck
Not for me man. I have to try to keep any conversation going, even with best friends and family members.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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Don't invite her out to drinking. Just go for a coffee.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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Glad to hear bro, don't stress it. Seems like you are over thinking it, just go with the flow and if everything goes well then it was meant to be, and if it doesn't you lost nothing. Go grab a bite at a coffee shop or something, chicks love latte's.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Bumbaa]
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This would require my knowing a good coffee place.
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show her your natural 20s
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Yeah I'm hoping she's into tabletop roleplaying
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Your over thinking it. Chances are, you'll have all kinds of shit planned in your head to say and then you'll end up talking about none of it. Gotta stop worrying and just go with the flow.
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you're gonna blow it
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
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trees said: Your over thinking it. Chances are, you'll have all kinds of shit planned in your head to say and then you'll end up talking about none of it. Gotta stop worrying and just go with the flow.
you guys can repeat this all you want. I need to have things planned out just in case the flow can't be found right away.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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You've got this one in the bag don't fuck it up  never get too ahead of yourself that is death to burgeoning relationships sir good luck
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Ezuma]
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update?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Bumbaa]
#22720789 - 12/31/15 11:42 AM (8 years, 1 month ago) |
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procrastinating big time. been focusing on other shit
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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I need to get on this. Leaning for a short hike now. good/bad idea?
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GOOOD!
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ImSl8]
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Finally started talking to her again. She asks what I'm doing this weekend and I tell her I planned to go mushroom hunting. Now she says she'd be down to tag along with her dog.
I accidentally talked my way into a mushroom hunt as a first date. Such luck. Probably be hungry by the end and go out for a quick bite to eat. Glorious.
Problem is now I actually looked up the weather and its looking quite rainy. I don't have a problem with it but it is lame when it gets really pouring, and some folks are really finicky about even a bit of rain.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
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That's cool. Being alone sucks. But not really. Well, it's just that people can't stand solitude, and thus themselves. They at least need someone to get some socialization, let alone have a GF/BF. I can't stand myself, I'll admit that I at least need to see one person through out the month because of it. But usually I handle, eh, maybe 1-2 minutes with people, then I gotta get the fuck out there. I'm like Byron in that I only go out to get a fresh appetite for being alone. I was thinking about changing this and getting me another girlfriend, but I give that much of a fuck enough at this time.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Rocket]
#22844592 - 01/30/16 10:46 PM (8 years, 18 hours ago) |
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I may very well be in her presence in about 12 hours. I'm freakin.
I'll just be thankful it wasn't a restaurant.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22844605 - 01/30/16 10:49 PM (8 years, 17 hours ago) |
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I have recently wished I had a girl to take to a restaurant agian. Why not?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Rocket] 1
#22844706 - 01/30/16 11:20 PM (8 years, 17 hours ago) |
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Malcolm got straight savage in this thread.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22845090 - 01/31/16 01:44 AM (8 years, 15 hours ago) |
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rbalzer said: Finally started talking to her again. She asks what I'm doing this weekend and I tell her I planned to go mushroom hunting. Now she says she'd be down to tag along with her dog.
I accidentally talked my way into a mushroom hunt as a first date. Such luck. Probably be hungry by the end and go out for a quick bite to eat. Glorious.
Problem is now I actually looked up the weather and its looking quite rainy. I don't have a problem with it but it is lame when it gets really pouring, and some folks are really finicky about even a bit of rain.
If it does rain, just say you like getting girls wet.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Jufin]
#22845106 - 01/31/16 01:53 AM (8 years, 14 hours ago) |
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#22845210 - 01/31/16 02:53 AM (8 years, 13 hours ago) |
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rbalzer said:
I have such respect for this women I don't even let myself masturbate to the thought of her.
Dude you gotta. At some point she'll want you to respect the crap out of her with your dick. Use fantasizing about her with your dowsing rod to find what attracts you most in her.
Crank up the love machine man.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Asante] 3
#22845342 - 01/31/16 04:14 AM (8 years, 12 hours ago) |
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Asante said:
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rbalzer said:
I have such respect for this women I don't even let myself masturbate to the thought of her.
Dude you gotta. At some point she'll want you to respect the crap out of her with your dick. Use fantasizing about her with your dowsing rod to find what attracts you most in her.
Crank up the love machine man.
That's the wisest thing I've ever heard you say
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Jufin]
#22845478 - 01/31/16 06:46 AM (8 years, 10 hours ago) |
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if it rains just do something else with her
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: CosmicFool] 2
#22848081 - 01/31/16 08:04 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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wow, that could not have gone better. Nothing romantical at all, just walking in the woods asking eachother questions.
I passed all my speech checks and pretty much only had 2 semi awkward silences.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#22848206 - 01/31/16 08:34 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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 you're golden (maybe) just keep on not being an obsessive insecure fellow and see where it goes
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Ezuma] 1
#22848502 - 01/31/16 09:58 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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Trying to strike that balance between pretentious and insecure. I'm more on the pretentious side lately.
She was way prettier than I remembered. Wearing maroon colored tights/leggings with curly hair, good lord.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848539 - 01/31/16 10:05 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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fantastic, man. This upcoming Spring may be the Spring of love.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848543 - 01/31/16 10:06 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
Trying to strike that balance between pretentious and insecure.
Ah yes, the two greatest attributes for a man to have
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#22848553 - 01/31/16 10:08 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: Found out that she doesn't believe in monogamy though, since I don't either thats a major plus.
Yeah dude, 9/10 times I hear girls tell me that I eventually find out that it's a fucking lie used just to get you more interested.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848563 - 01/31/16 10:10 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: wow, that could not have gone better. Nothing romantical at all, just walking in the woods asking eachother questions.
I passed all my speech checks and pretty much only had 2 semi awkward silences.
Lol dude you're going to fuck this up. You are WAY over thinking every single aspect of this situation
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848626 - 01/31/16 10:29 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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Maybe don't ponder so much about it. Go easy with it, "oh yeah, I found this chick I dig; let's see where this goes ya know?" Even if inside you're screaming "oh my god, this chick's a beaut, I really fucking hope this works out omg la de da de da de", you gotta play it mild on the surface. It's just the way it goes usually. It seems to be the consensus amongst my male friends that the less crazy you are about a girl, the more she'll get crazy about you. The idea of not securely having you bugs them so they try harder. "Forbidden fruit syndrome", kinda tho not quite. Just hook and line and wait... take it naturally, don't think about her so much... otherwise, you could mess it up.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: volcomstoner]
#22848677 - 01/31/16 10:44 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said:
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rbalzer said: wow, that could not have gone better. Nothing romantical at all, just walking in the woods asking eachother questions.
I passed all my speech checks and pretty much only had 2 semi awkward silences.
Lol dude you're going to fuck this up. You are WAY over thinking every single aspect of this situation
I don't see where you're getting that from the statement you quoted.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848681 - 01/31/16 10:45 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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what the hell is a "speech check"
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Sheekle]
#22848692 - 01/31/16 10:49 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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somebody doesn't play D&D
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672642 - 09/23/16 11:27 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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sigh, re-initiating contact. again memories
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672656 - 09/23/16 11:32 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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did that ever work out for you?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23672666 - 09/23/16 11:37 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I still feel that its going to, as long as she's not dating anybody else by now. Just gotta take the next step without second guessing myself into stagnation.
We got together the once but went back to our lives afterward.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672917 - 09/24/16 02:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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you have to work up the balls to be comfortable in these situations, I'm reserved underneath everything and all the needles on top of it leads to isolation, ill get over it.......................
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23673612 - 09/24/16 11:08 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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As soon as she comes to your place, give her a hug and then say "I just want you to know I don't do anal on the first date "
That will put her at ease.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Moonshoe]
#23673622 - 09/24/16 11:11 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'll put that in the maybe pile
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23675412 - 09/24/16 10:23 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I still feel that its going to, as long as she's not dating anybody else by now. Just gotta take the next step without second guessing myself into stagnation.
We got together the once but went back to our lives afterward.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ImSl8]
#23675747 - 09/25/16 02:29 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol Did not see Jordin Sparks coming
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: shadyy]
#23675921 - 09/25/16 06:19 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Wtf you luck out so hard and just let it go? You bet I wouldnt let such a chance slip. That will happen only a few times in your life time.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Murzelpfrumpft] 1
#23675922 - 09/25/16 06:22 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fear and the illusion that tomorrow will always come.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: shadyy]
#23676346 - 09/25/16 10:47 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah I know Luckily she still seems single/interested.
big "phew" for me
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#23676442 - 09/25/16 11:16 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's only been 7 MONTHS since she first hit you up.. Thats a long ass time to be waiting for a good moment or what ever it is that your waiting for.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23676525 - 09/25/16 11:48 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yep, companionship/personalized sex are worth any amount of waiting.
McDuh
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23676541 - 09/25/16 11:55 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Can't really agree though. I've missed real opportunities because I was too slow by days or weeks. If she's cute and smart, she probably has different dudes talking to / asking her out possibly every day. She might weigh you and them on the scale... you haven't made a move in 7 months, compared to a guy who's possibly willing and able.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23676711 - 09/25/16 12:56 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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ah come on, don't put a popper in his pillow, everyone's got their own way of going about things.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Chakra Shock] 1
#23677222 - 09/25/16 04:18 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Do you think I don't know all of those things tree? I'm just thankful that she's a recluse like me and hasn't found a new guy. I am well aware that what I've done was a mistake.
Dwell on what almost went wrong if you want, I'm going to live in reality and enjoy the fact that my mistake had few consequences.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23679673 - 09/26/16 12:05 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I'm just thankful that she's a recluse like me
sounds like my kind of girl
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: CosmicFool]
#23715973 - 10/07/16 10:57 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Man now this girl from highschool comes out of the blue. We'd been really good friends but not on speaking terms for the last few years.
Things with this new one are going a little too well. We've been spending a little too much time together, reconnecting/catching up, fucking like rabbits.
Just to give the thread some closure. Still might pursue the girl that started the thread but I doubt I'll have the time/motivation to.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23715990 - 10/07/16 11:02 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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You shouldn't fuck girls who are still in highschool
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Alexestalex]
#23716040 - 10/07/16 11:18 AM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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That was worded horribly, I meant a girl I went to highschool with, years ago
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23716487 - 10/07/16 02:04 PM (7 years, 3 months ago) |
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Tell it do the judge
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