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volcomstoner
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848563 - 01/31/16 10:10 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: wow, that could not have gone better. Nothing romantical at all, just walking in the woods asking eachother questions.
I passed all my speech checks and pretty much only had 2 semi awkward silences.
Lol dude you're going to fuck this up. You are WAY over thinking every single aspect of this situation
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848626 - 01/31/16 10:29 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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Maybe don't ponder so much about it. Go easy with it, "oh yeah, I found this chick I dig; let's see where this goes ya know?" Even if inside you're screaming "oh my god, this chick's a beaut, I really fucking hope this works out omg la de da de da de", you gotta play it mild on the surface. It's just the way it goes usually. It seems to be the consensus amongst my male friends that the less crazy you are about a girl, the more she'll get crazy about you. The idea of not securely having you bugs them so they try harder. "Forbidden fruit syndrome", kinda tho not quite. Just hook and line and wait... take it naturally, don't think about her so much... otherwise, you could mess it up.
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Psilosopherr
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: volcomstoner]
#22848677 - 01/31/16 10:44 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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volcomstoner said:
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rbalzer said: wow, that could not have gone better. Nothing romantical at all, just walking in the woods asking eachother questions.
I passed all my speech checks and pretty much only had 2 semi awkward silences.
Lol dude you're going to fuck this up. You are WAY over thinking every single aspect of this situation
I don't see where you're getting that from the statement you quoted.
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Sheekle
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#22848681 - 01/31/16 10:45 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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what the hell is a "speech check"
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Sheekle]
#22848692 - 01/31/16 10:49 PM (7 years, 11 months ago) |
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somebody doesn't play D&D
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672642 - 09/23/16 11:27 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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sigh, re-initiating contact. again memories
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672656 - 09/23/16 11:32 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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did that ever work out for you?
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23672666 - 09/23/16 11:37 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I still feel that its going to, as long as she's not dating anybody else by now. Just gotta take the next step without second guessing myself into stagnation.
We got together the once but went back to our lives afterward.
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Jenny_Baker
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr]
#23672917 - 09/24/16 02:37 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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you have to work up the balls to be comfortable in these situations, I'm reserved underneath everything and all the needles on top of it leads to isolation, ill get over it.......................
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23673612 - 09/24/16 11:08 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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As soon as she comes to your place, give her a hug and then say "I just want you to know I don't do anal on the first date "
That will put her at ease.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Moonshoe]
#23673622 - 09/24/16 11:11 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'll put that in the maybe pile
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23675412 - 09/24/16 10:23 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I still feel that its going to, as long as she's not dating anybody else by now. Just gotta take the next step without second guessing myself into stagnation.
We got together the once but went back to our lives afterward.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: ImSl8]
#23675747 - 09/25/16 02:29 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol Did not see Jordin Sparks coming
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: shadyy]
#23675921 - 09/25/16 06:19 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Wtf you luck out so hard and just let it go? You bet I wouldnt let such a chance slip. That will happen only a few times in your life time.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Murzelpfrumpft] 1
#23675922 - 09/25/16 06:22 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fear and the illusion that tomorrow will always come.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: shadyy]
#23676346 - 09/25/16 10:47 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah I know Luckily she still seems single/interested.
big "phew" for me
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#23676442 - 09/25/16 11:16 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's only been 7 MONTHS since she first hit you up.. Thats a long ass time to be waiting for a good moment or what ever it is that your waiting for.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23676525 - 09/25/16 11:48 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yep, companionship/personalized sex are worth any amount of waiting.
McDuh
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#23676541 - 09/25/16 11:55 AM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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Can't really agree though. I've missed real opportunities because I was too slow by days or weeks. If she's cute and smart, she probably has different dudes talking to / asking her out possibly every day. She might weigh you and them on the scale... you haven't made a move in 7 months, compared to a guy who's possibly willing and able.
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Re: The most wonderful thing just happened. [Re: trees]
#23676711 - 09/25/16 12:56 PM (7 years, 4 months ago) |
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ah come on, don't put a popper in his pillow, everyone's got their own way of going about things.
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