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Invisiblesudly
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Game on
    #22507618 - 11/10/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 2 months ago)

The seduction game.

1. Open
2. Demonstrate higher value
3. Connect emotionally
4. Connect physically
5. Seduce

Men are already attracted to women and are turned on easily but that doesn't get you anywhere, the key is that the woman has to be attracted to you.

Assertive and patient men who show that they are masculine are what the feminine seem to want.

How do you play the game, any tips or things to share?


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507631 - 11/11/15 12:06 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

It's not like the old days from what I hear/assume. Women these days know they can get sex from almost ANY man because almost EVERY man these days is a douchebag who would have sex with any nasty female.

Therefore if you are not unusually physically perfect with perfect genes, no remotely attractive woman will have sex with you unless you build a relationship first.


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Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507633 - 11/11/15 12:07 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Also I'm just wondering what was your sex life like with this woman who cheated on you?


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507725 - 11/11/15 12:49 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Our sex life wasn't the greatest because of communication problems but we had a lot of fun, it wasn't until about 2-3 months ago when I noticed her getting distant and sporadic with desire that it went dead. She was all for making out but said she felt too tight (not turned on) near the end. I had the feeling she'd lost feelings for me and tried talking to her but ofc she said it was all fine she still wanted me etc, just pulling me along.

I had a lot of opportunities throughout the relationship to get with other girls but the whole commitment thing meant more to me. Didn't know she was a sociopath till all the lies came crumbling down.

The point of the game is not to go out to fuck people but to go out to make companions. Men are already attracted to women but it isn't the same the other way around.

A lot of guys are really needy or aren't affirmative enough, self respecting enough to keep a woman interested. I guess a lot of girls liked me when I was taken because I was impossible to get and didn't take shit from any of them.

I had a mask of blind love for one girl but it taught me a lot about women.


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507764 - 11/11/15 01:08 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

So what benefit was it to her to be with you


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507780 - 11/11/15 01:15 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I realise I was her emotional anchor, her backup plan or shoulder to lean on, her security blanket she knew would be there. 
I don't see why else she'd drag me along for such a long time.

Do you know why else someone would go through the effort of lying to their SO instead of just telling them the truth, that they'd given up or weren't attracted to them anymore?

I see it as either being emotionally immature or simply selfish.


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507787 - 11/11/15 01:20 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You still should warn any future guys she wants to get with about her cheating nature


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507791 - 11/11/15 01:22 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I cut all contact and removed her from my life so that isn't going to happen plus I doubt she's even capable or wanting of a relationship.

All that's left is the memory of who I thought she was.


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507793 - 11/11/15 01:23 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

I have always followed the DENNIS system.































Or the MAC

M-Move in
A-After
C-Completion



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Ephesians 6:12
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Psalm 12:6
The words of the Lord are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times.
Hebrews 11:3
Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.
Revelation 3:11
Behold, I come quickly: hold that fast which thou hast, that no man take thy crown.


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Re: Game on [Re: Shiithead]
    #22507802 - 11/11/15 01:28 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Okay.. and how has that worked for you? I don't think advice from ASIP is seriously going to help anyone.


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Re: Game on [Re: Shiithead]
    #22507804 - 11/11/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

How did your relationship with her even start..maybe you should just message me if you feel like it because I'm derailing your thread..kinda. I can likely tie in the answer to your question into the theme of this thread, sorta


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507815 - 11/11/15 01:36 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

If you can tie it into the thread go ahead, we met as friends in highschool but only got to know eachother after graduating when we started spending more time together and got along really well until we ended up making out and I asked her out.


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507822 - 11/11/15 01:39 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

That pretty much means that a girl can seem to like you and actually be a user who isn't attracted..meh


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507831 - 11/11/15 01:52 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

That's sociopathy or emotional immaturity 101.
There are a lot of signs for when someone is using you but often people ignore them because they hurt too much to believe and they would rather trust that it's all alright instead.

Intuition is a strong sense, I would advice to learn to listen to it.


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507846 - 11/11/15 02:08 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Indeed.

Back to the original topic.

I stand by what I said lol. But what you say isn't very important when it comes to girls wanting to screw you even in a relationship. Attraction is all about primitive shit like nonverbal cues and looks and the way you smell.

It has a lot to do with masculinity but women base that not only by your actions but by your looks and height and superficial physical things which imply masculinity to females


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507858 - 11/11/15 02:18 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Genes play a big role in the initial attraction but they don't matter if you can't keep it.

A guy can show off his cheese grater abs but what good are they if he doesn't know how to do anything more than take off his shirt?


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507887 - 11/11/15 02:43 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Sex is about primitive things like looks but also about your natural scent and body language. Anything else doesn't matter when it comes to the bedroom and women know this.

Long term relationships are more about the woman being provided for emotionally and materially


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507920 - 11/11/15 03:13 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

For men it's a primitive thing, look at girl, get turned on.
For most women it's a different story, they usually don't get turned on by any guy who's hot. It's about how he handles himself, what he portrays and how dominant he is in the social situation that tends to make him look attractive.

A lot of 'asshole' guys are found attractive because they act indifferent and assertive showing dominance. A lot of women desire what they can't have and acting like you're highly valued is what makes men attractive.

Being an asshole also helps if you do it lightly enough because it makes a woman see you as more masculine and them as the feminine, submissive one.

It's called playing the game because you play people and use them to fulfill your own desires. The psychology of men and women is not the same and if you learn what women find attractive it becomes a lot easier to take advantage of it.

I never played the game because I was committed to a relationship. Almost everyone who plays the game is there to play, not for anything real or lasting.

That's why we call them 'playas'


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Re: Game on [Re: sudly]
    #22507942 - 11/11/15 03:41 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

You have to be physically hot to get a lot of girls sexually. Relationships are different because a lot of women build relationships with guys they don't want sexually just because they can use that guy and get with other b guys to satisfy her needs behind his back


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On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze

Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky
We all need more love, and mainly less hate
Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye
That makes the heart's eye cry
Locked deep away in the skies of our minds

It's all in the mind


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: Game on [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22507944 - 11/11/15 03:47 AM (8 years, 2 months ago)

Not really, to get in their pants you have to get in their mind, that's how to turn on a woman.

That's why it's important to know where you stand with women, if you want more than friends and they only want friends be sure to make it clear, if they only want to be friends, respect that. If you only want more, I'd suggest moving on.

If you don't want to be used you have to have enough self respect to know when you are being used. Sadly this is usually learnt through experience.

If a girl from the get go says they only want to be friends there is nothing wrong with that. If they agree to become intimate, want commitments then go behind your back, that's when you're being used.



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