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Ezuma
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It's an awful lot like making friends with dudes
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pachoo
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: Ezuma]
#22495524 - 11/08/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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That's the most sound advice BobaJones.
I really have nothing more to contribute. Most guy friends are guys who I have conversations with whilst at work or something. Or I start to see them regularly somewhere, like a library/bookstore/etc. And I've gotten a few good friends from here.
I enjoy having guy friends. Helps me be more level. So I can understand it would be the same for you in that respect OP.
I was also joking to myself that maybe you could find a chick who is obsessed with someone else. Instant friend zone haha. Of course it would be hard if she keeps thinking you're hitting on her. Then you probably shouldn't be her friend anyways. She's probably really shallow.
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bloodsheen
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: pachoo]
#22497410 - 11/08/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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pachoo said: I was also joking to myself that maybe you could find a chick who is obsessed with someone else .
"Hey pachoo, maybe he could just find some girl whos totally hung up on another guy"
"Hahahaha, yeah pachoo, I bet that'd work. But would he even want to be friends with a girl like that?"
"Pft, Idk pachoo, how should I know?! You're pretty judgmental of this imaginary girl that doesn't even exist."
"Its called a hypothetical bitch! Why you always gotta be this way?"
"Shit, you're right, sorry pachoo."
"Sall good pachoo."
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pachoo
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: bloodsheen]
#22497711 - 11/08/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Haha I actually went into that dialogue shortly after I posted it. You somehow got my back and I got yours.
In my head I was thinking about those girls who always talk about themselves and their problems and constantly nag you about the same theoretical situation without doing anything different or acting on it... I don't know. You know those girls? They want me to advise them all the time. I should have changed that last post.. but now I can't!! Because you said something before I remembered!!
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bloodsheen
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: pachoo] 1
#22497975 - 11/08/15 08:57 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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pachoo said: Haha I actually went into that dialogue shortly after I posted it. You somehow got my back and I got yours.
In my head I was thinking about those girls who always talk about themselves and their problems and constantly nag you about the same theoretical situation without doing anything different or acting on it... I don't know. You know those girls? They want me to advise them all the time. I should have changed that last post.. but now I can't!! Because you said something before I remembered!!
Yea I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I think people need a sounding board, but more often than not they just want to hear their own opinions parroted back at them. I hate giving advise. I prefer devil's advocate, forcing people to see the opposite side of a situation normally pisses them off but but its better than inflating their ego and tricking them into believing they're always right
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pachoo
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: bloodsheen]
#22498281 - 11/08/15 10:09 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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I enjoy giving them multiple scenarios. It confuses them but hey, there's multiple paths/choices in life, right?
But I always try to give it to them straight too. Like if they're being a butthead, they are going KNOW they are being a butthead.
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: pachoo] 2
#22504755 - 11/10/15 11:54 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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It's quite easy. Don't give them the impression that you want more. Don't show her your penis. There you have a friendship.
If you find it hard not to do these things with woman, than yes, you are infact lying to yourself.
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Anonymous #2
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If you are trying to become friends with a woman, and then do become friends, and then decide to ask her out, is it okay to stop being friends with her if she says no? Thats what I usually do 95% of the time.
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Konyap

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no you should def still be friends, maybe she'd wanna double date or suck yer cock or somethin
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BobaJones
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Re: Making friends with women [Re: Konyap]
#22506326 - 11/10/15 05:57 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you do that well then you never really wanted to be friends in the first place did you?
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quinn
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wrong forum lol....or i guess not, it's about relationships, uhmm my 2 cents are be open and friendly when you meet people, the more friendly you are the easier it will be to find girls/guys to talk to and become friends with
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