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Salomon
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Re: Let's talk about awkward people [Re: Shroomslip]
#22468534 - 11/02/15 08:55 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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i just dont talk to anyone that i don't have to and mind my own business.
its more so that i'd rather not get wrapped up in other people's lives because people continually disappoint the fuck out of me.
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Re: Let's talk about awkward people [Re: zZZz] 2
#22468583 - 11/02/15 09:04 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Edited by thetechnician (07/13/20 06:12 PM)
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Beanhead
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Re: Let's talk about awkward people [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#22468775 - 11/02/15 09:51 PM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: I dunno, I'd argue that it's dependent on the person for at least one aspect. That isolation is emotionally miserable. I am an alcoholic but I wasn't always one. Even before drug addiction and stuff, I was still perfectly content to just be alone for the most part. All I really needed/wanted was someone to be romantically involved with and the rest didn't bother me.
I know I'm definitely not the average "normal" person though.
But see, that romance was still about changing the way you feel. When you say you are not the average/normal person, I think I know what you mean. The cause/condition is this state of "not feeling okay as you are"/"wanting to change the way you feel". It is not feeling comfortable in one's own skin. The paradox of this condition is that it inwardly manifests as insecurity, and outwardly manifests as egoism (the combination of which result in our social dysfunctions). Young/New romances are exciting, thrilling, and common ways of changing the way we feel. When someone makes us feel wanted, we feel temporarily okay with ourselves, and our insecurity subsides, and our egoism diminishes. At a certain point in some peoples' lives, they discover that drugs/alcohol are a much faster, available, ready, and consistent means of changing the way they feel. At first, the drug experiences are thrilling and exciting, just like new romances. But this doesn't last. As time goes on, and our drug/alcohol use escalates, we are left feeling more and more isolated, and we become more and more emotionally broken. What are we to do?
I read an article that they shouldn't call it addiction they should call it bonding. Which i get i moved from my home 2 years ago and im an alcoholic now. I find when i have someone to talk too i.don't. Even feel like drinking, people will bond to anything be it gambling, drugs, etc
damn when i'm alone there insn't much of a need but when you have to listen to all the menial bullshit lets get fucking high already
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Re: Let's talk about awkward people [Re: zZZz]
#22469858 - 11/03/15 07:35 AM (8 years, 2 months ago) |
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zZZz said: Umm, i do.. fucken learn to spell dude
Deal with it
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