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Anonymous #1
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girl wanted to kiss me
#22449530 - 10/29/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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this girl volunteers at my job once a week.
we've been hitting it off texting everyday going out together to gym and smoking weed together.
today i invited her to my house to smoke weed. she came over we smoked weed together. listened to music, watched Netflix and i cooked some shitty pasta which she liked.
she was sitting on my bed rolling a joint.. and what not.. we talk.. we watch a movie and she put on some lesbian film on and tells me to skip to the sex scenes... we start laughing and im getting horny and she tells woow your really into it.
We leave my house as i need to go gym and she needs to go shopping... so we head to the town center together. we go eat then its time to part... we hug and she gives me the look like she wants to kiss i was going to, you know when you look into each others eyes and just know your going to kiss... but i go and laugh and say next time but squeeze her bum.
i did this because i don't want to rush stuff and i want to create more tension.
shes coming to volunteer at my job tomorrow so im just thinking of making out with her there?
shes 16 and im 20, i dont want to pressure her into anything that's why im taking my time with her.. i actually care about her i think and want to look after her.. even though obviously i do want to have sex with her.
im not that experienced in sex with girls, ive had sex once and the rest has just been fingering and oral sex. i think thats why im holding back abit... im scared that a 16 year old girl maybe more experienced than me and will be dissapointed with me.
what should i do? im i over thinking things?
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Anonymous #2
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Check out your states age of consent laws, otherwise you could end up in prison for 10-20 years for statutory rape.
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Anonymous #3
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Don't worry about disappointment just do yo thang.
Also ya better check yo laws dog. Don't want to do time for no pussythangs
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Anonymous #4
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No, you SHOULD feel bad because you are friend zoning yourself, and trying to justify it in your OP. When she comes into work some week telling you about her new boyfriend, you will be kicking yourself for being such a weiner, so man the fuck up and kiss that bitch!!
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Anonymous #1
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i checked and yes she is legal ... Its escalating quick were texting about sex and stuff... She tells me shes not a virgin and would like to have a threesome with a hot girl.... What should i do not give a fuck and fuck her??
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Anonymous #5
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She wants a 3some? Hey, man, go for it !!!
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Anonymous #6
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Don't worry op, give her my number instead, I'll help you out.
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Anonymous #1
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its now been awhile, we kissed once.
i invited her out to smoke weed and to take her out to eat, but she bailed and made the most bullshit excuse. then i got pissy and didnt text her, until she text me. 'were you at work today?' i texted her in a boring way, cause i was abit pissed, we had alttle chat.
but now its gone quite and boring. we were texting eachother alot pretty much everyday and then she stopped and seems to have lost interest in me.
i texted her after a week, and i said it was going to be my birthday saturday,and that im going out and stuff, we talked more. but she usally comes volenteer on saturdays, but she didnt come or even say happy birthday to me.
i cant stop thinking of her, should i converse again, ask her out again? or just give up ?
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Anonymous #7
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If I were in your shoes, I would invite her out a couple more times. If you invite her out with a group of friends or something, it might take the pressure off you both to try to get to know each other a little better. After a couple of times, if she still says no, then I would cut my losses and move on.
Good luck OP.
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Anonymous #6
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Shoulda fucked her on the first date, so then afterwards you don't play games chasing that nut.
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Anonymous #8
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Lesson learned.
Strike whilst the iron is hot.
Love, attraction, desire, these things are fickle and fleeting.
As is life.
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Anonymous #9
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Bro, she wanted to kiss and you squeezed her butt and told her next time... That's just, idk man...
Not trying to make you feel bad, but that's just funny...
You guys were hanging out, and sexting, you didn't fuck her, why?
She probably thought you weren't interested, so she lost interest.
She wanted to fuck and you didn't do it, you can't be mad at her for moving on with her life.
You'll be lucky to get another shot, if you get it be sure to give her some dick that night...
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Anonymous #10
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Seriously OP, you blew it.
You honestly thought a kiss was "rushing things?"
Then she proposed a threesome and you thought: "meh, I'll just wait it out?" Come on man. Unfortunately, you have no further chances.
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Anonymous #11
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Careful she has cooties.
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Anonymous #12
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Shes too young for you man, make sure you get a girl whos at least 18
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Anonymous #13
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so you said you'll kiss her next time but instead you grab her ass what the fuck 
so kissing is going too fast but feeling her ass up isnt?
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Anonymous #8
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Anonymous #9
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He's probably insecure about his kissing abilities, he's probably more comfortable with physical contact, such as grabbing her ass because in his mind that's harder to screw up.
I'm kind of the same way, I guess, but in that scenario she wanted a kiss, not for OP to touch her butt.
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Anonymous #14
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OP, you messed up... BIG TIME.
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Anonymous #3
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A girl wanted to kiss me once and I freaked out too and kinda awkwardly just walked away. I remember because later on that day I learned my times table for the first time.
Edited by Anonymous (11/24/15 09:57 PM)
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Anonymous #15
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You're over thinking things.
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Anonymous #13
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DSHSB
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Anonymous #15
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Quote:
Anonymous #13 said: DSHSB
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Anonymous #16
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should've laid pipe like a plumber with a government contract
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Anonymous #17
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She is 16 and you are 20. Find someone who is at the age of consent man.
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Anonymous #18
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Quote:
Anonymous #17 said: She is 16 and you are 20. Find someone who is at the age of consent man.
that is legal in several states
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Anonymous #13
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Legal, just really gross
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Anonymous #8
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Is it gross if I'm 45 and she is 35? 25? No?
Why does it become gross if she is 17?
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Anonymous #19
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Op is really gay. If it were a guy, he would be deep throating him rite now. Pussy. On top of that, 16 which the girl was probably 14, will get you 20. If I ever catch you around my daughter, ill fillet you
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Anonymous #9
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No, that's different.
16 year olds are immature.
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Anonymous #15
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16 year old have awesome good pussy, 16-20 is the best. All legal where I live too. Im 22.
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Anonymous #20
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Most laws still allow a 20 year old male to have sex with a 16 year old (at least in my opinion in Canada)
YOu just can't fuck them in the ass until they are 18
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Anonymous #21
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Quote:
Anonymous #20 said: Most laws still allow a 20 year old male to have sex with a 16 year old (at least in my opinion in Canada)
YOu just can't fuck them in the ass until they are 18 
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