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Mish
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Trip with underlying problem
#22445288 - 10/28/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hi
I have been wanting to take shrooms for some while now... But the complication is:
I will be going to do it with a very good friend of mine, who has had very strong feelings for me over the last few years, it climaxed three months ago, with him saying that we could not stay friends any more because it was too much for him. As well as he is one of my best friends, he was also best friends with my boyfriend (whom Im in a long term relationship at the moment, since he is studying abroad) This has obviously caused some drama, since my boyfriend knows that our friends has a crush on me. But anyway, now things are better between me and my friend and we are starting to become good friends again. However... we are now talking about tripping alone (us 2) at his house in a few days. He claims that everything is good between us, but I cant be perfectly sure that it actually will...........
Do you think it could be problematic to have a first trip with this underlying problem? (It would be his second time doing it - and so Im not really sure how he is going to react)
Thank You
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Mish]
#22445312 - 10/28/15 03:04 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yeah it could and will definitely pop up if it still bothers him in the very least. Depends on dosage honestly, if he takes an amount where he's in control he should be fine, if he takes a bigger amount he'll probably have some time to think about it. The other side of the coin is that if you're thinking about it too much too or if it really bothers you inside if he really still feels a certain way or not, it's going to effect you on your trip as well. Should talk before you do the trip and ask anything your not sure of, make sure you feel comfortable going into ANY trip.. if you're not 100% comfortable going into your trip, DON'T TRIP!
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Mish
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Eclipse3130]
#22445361 - 10/28/15 03:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yesterday with actually had a really good convo about it and he said that he believes that it will be ok and that it is not problematic for him... So I dont know
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Mish]
#22445479 - 10/28/15 03:39 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't worry about it , especially if he is a good friend, make sure you lay the ground rules before dosing so there will be no misunderstandings. Make sure that you are both going into it with clear minds.
On another note, Don't worry about a possible sexual encounter...At least for me, I have found it almost impossible to have sex on mushrooms.lol.
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Mish
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Thanks!
Anyone else have any opinions about this?
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Quote:
Thayendanegea said:
On another note, Don't worry about a possible sexual encounter...At least for me, I have found it almost impossible to have sex on mushrooms.lol.
Dunno if it's the same for shrooms, but LSD is the most potent aphrodisiac ever...
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Trypto-Fan]
#22447964 - 10/29/15 06:38 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I got extremely horny my last trip OP. So just be careful. He could mean well, but some people out there are fucking creeps. Even if you think you can trust them.
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Sade]
#22447992 - 10/29/15 06:51 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I think for your FIRST trip ever on shrooms should be free of ANY possible drama/negative vibes of any kind, if you think there is a chance things could possibly turn sour, I would not do it, it could ruin the experience and turn you off to them in the future. My g/f first experience was ruined by some creep pressuring her for sex the whole time(was b4 i knew her), and she said she'll probably never try them again. If its possible, invite someone(that you KNOW you can trust 100%) to come along, as a "babysitter", if for no other reason than to make you feel more comfortable/safe, and as a ride out of there if things go less than well.
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Mish
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I was also thinking about a "babysitter"! Also thinking about maybe doing in in two weeks instead, since another friends of us most likely will join us 
OR MAYBE TOMORROW, WHO KNOWS :-S :-D :-P
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Mish]
#22449605 - 10/29/15 03:15 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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i wouldnt recommend it, not only because of potentially difficult feelings coming up but also call me old fashioned but in my view, if you are in a long term relationship with someone else, tripping alone with another guy simply isn't appropriate. Tripping with someone can be a very intimate experience, in some ways just as intimate or even more so than sex (depending on a lot of factors of course
its also possible you both could have a great time with no bad consequences. you never know with psychedelics, you never know how a trip is going to be beforerhand.
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Edited by Peyote Road (10/29/15 03:16 PM)
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Peyote Road]
#22449673 - 10/29/15 03:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't do it...
Who knows what could happen... What if he freaks out and then wants you to comfort him. And then it makes you feel weird cause you won't know what to do... Or you say no and he flips... Or idk, I wouldn't do it.
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: SnowDaze]
#22449762 - 10/29/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Thanks guys! So I have decided not to do it
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Re: Trip with underlying problem [Re: Mish]
#22449984 - 10/29/15 04:51 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe after you guys are more used to tripping apart... Then try it together
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