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Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone?
#22436483 - 10/26/15 03:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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This girl is always in a group and seems to give me positive signals. Can I just skip the text game bullshit and call her at a random time of day?
It sounds like a funny question but I'm dead serious. I have her number and I figure this is how it was done back in the day?
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82] 2
#22436487 - 10/26/15 03:31 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Do it pussy.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22436502 - 10/26/15 03:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You could always give it a shot, but there's a chance it could reflect poorly on you. A lot of people my age don't like talking on the phone for whatever reason, I can't count the number of times I've heard things like "why the fuck is xxx calling me?" or just straight up not answering phone calls because they dislike phone conversation. My generation is fuckin' crazy
But I would say go for it
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: hex_enduction] 1
#22436644 - 10/26/15 04:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I would say do it in person and look her dead in her optic stems and ask her out
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22436742 - 10/26/15 04:35 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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in person is better
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: Ezuma]
#22436751 - 10/26/15 04:38 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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It is not tacky, in fact most of the people probably just ask people out over texts.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: Oggy] 2
#22436762 - 10/26/15 04:43 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Which is exactly why you need to be different and do it in person. If anything you'll be seen as manly. You gonna text message break up with her too?
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22436769 - 10/26/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's not tacky.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22436799 - 10/26/15 04:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Send her a love letter
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22436885 - 10/26/15 05:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Also point at her panocha and ask her if she's going to eat that
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: blackhawk]
#22437215 - 10/26/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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A little late. I already did it. I think it was a bad idea but I really had no other choice. Girl's friends are the biggest cockblocks known to man
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437258 - 10/26/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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and....?
what'd she say?
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: pslyke]
#22437296 - 10/26/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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pslyke said: and....?
what'd she say?
She said yes. But she also seemed a bit surprised. Like I said, it was a last resort. I have never seen her alone
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: blackhawk]
#22437346 - 10/26/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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blackhawk said:

Bitch you are just jealous that it actually worked
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437364 - 10/26/15 07:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How is him saying "nice" equal to him being jealous?
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: Sheekle]
#22437384 - 10/26/15 07:35 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I am just being cheeky sheeks
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437402 - 10/26/15 07:38 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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dude who gives a shit how you ask a girl out. stop overthinking this
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: morrowasted] 1
#22437416 - 10/26/15 07:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Why do people have phones anymore, then? :V
I think it's a bit odd for someone to not want phone calls.
Texting is fine for quick messages but it is also quite impersonal.
Anyway, congrats ^^
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: Sheekle]
#22437418 - 10/26/15 07:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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LMAO
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437437 - 10/26/15 07:51 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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The phone is for setting dates, not being her gay male girlfriend and texting back and forth constantly
Get a book called 3% man by Corey Wayne. Sounds like you need it badly.
I don't see why you didn't approach her in person and do it, but better late than never, then you'll know
but if you call her randomly she probably won't know who you are, cuz you were too much of a pussy to do it in person.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: micro]
#22437457 - 10/26/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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morrowasted said: dude who gives a shit how you ask a girl out. stop overthinking this
its true haha I def wasQuote:
micro said: Why do people have phones anymore, then? :V
I think it's a bit odd for someone to not want phone calls.
Texting is fine for quick messages but it is also quite impersonal.
Anyway, congrats ^^
very true and thanks
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22437483 - 10/26/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: The phone is for setting dates, not being her gay male girlfriend and texting back and forth constantly
Get a book called 3% man by Corey Wayne. Sounds like you need it badly.
I don't see why you didn't approach her in person and do it, but better late than never, then you'll know
but if you call her randomly she probably won't know who you are, cuz you were too much of a pussy to do it in person.
Lol you suggested this book in another post. I have it on my reading stack
And like I said, in person was impossible. She was always with her friend circle or her bestfriend. It was near impossible to keep them separated. I was looking for general advice
And I agree with that first point. I hate texting. The biggest waste of time
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437486 - 10/26/15 08:01 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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So what? That's what every other guy was thinking too. A real Alpha would have walked right up and got her number if she was interested, regardless of how many friends were around her.
If she's constantly looking at you she wants you to make a move, but you hesitated and dithered like a beta.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22437500 - 10/26/15 08:03 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: So what? That's what every other guy was thinking too. A real Alpha would have walked right up and got her number if she was interested, regardless of how many friends were around her.
Lol I alerady got her number once earlier like a week or two ago. I never bothered texting because I figured i would rather ask her in person rather than waste time texting and do that whole "hey I see your text but I have to wait exactly 3.5 hours to get a response which is about 5-10 words. Ya!" And you think I should ask a girl in front of her friends?
I am really open to any advice here. Btw, you said in another post you were married? Why the fuck you reading into PUA?
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437506 - 10/26/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's not PUA. PUA are lame and beyond getting a number, what do they know?
The book goes into extreme detail about everything. Courting, sex, what to do/ what not to do, etc
Seriously read the amazon reviews. The shit works
You are focused on 1 girl, when you should be getting multiple girls numbers and going out several times a week with beautiful women and fucking their brains out
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22437528 - 10/26/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: It's not PUA. PUA are lame and beyond getting a number, what do they know?
The book goes into extreme detail about everything. Courting, sex, what to do/ what not to do, etc
Seriously read the amazon reviews. The shit works
You are focused on 1 girl, when you should be getting multiple girls numbers and going out several times a week with beautiful women and fucking their brains out
Well this to an extent. i am recovring from serious depression and slowly getting momentum going. I read a fair bit into this shit and there have def been changes. To think that reading a book will have me fucking 10 bitches daily is silliness. but I have upped my notch count and try and the numbers are only increasing
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437544 - 10/26/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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A couple years before I got married I was having sex with 3-5 women a week at least, it's really easy once you learn the fundamentals
In reality you focus on yourself, your goals, etc and act like a man instead of a pussy bitch like you see in the movies, and women are all over you cuz you are so different than other guys. Body language, attitude, etc makes a huge difference.
Once you get out of a scarcity mindset and feel complete within yourself, rather than looking for someone to complete you, you become a rare commodity.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437549 - 10/26/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Some girls Ive met don't want you to say anything at all. They love all that body language shit. Don't say anything just play cool but make some moves. Ask her to hang out and then stick your dick in her ass.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: nice1returns]
#22437565 - 10/26/15 08:26 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: A couple years before I got married I was having sex with 3-5 women a week at least, it's really easy once you learn the fundamentals
In reality you focus on yourself, your goals, etc and act like a man instead of a pussy bitch like you see in the movies, and women are all over you cuz you are so different than other guys. Body language, attitude, etc makes a huge difference.
Once you get out of a scarcity mindset and feel complete within yourself, rather than looking for someone to complete you, you become a rare commodity.
I am not new to this and you are some fucker on the internet so I will say this; I am skeptical about your numbers
But that being said; all solid advice. I spent most of my time doing my engineering school work, learning guitar and reading. My value to women is pretty high and I have a lot of goals, hobbies, knowledge and interests. I am slowly learning to levarage that and focus more on myself. So far it has been working
A lot of what you are talking about is prevelant in self-development circles. But i am open minded so when the book you suggested arrives (I ordered it 2 days ago). I may pm you for advice if thats coolQuote:
nice1returns said: Some girls Ive met don't want you to say anything at all. They love all that body language shit. Don't say anything just play cool but make some moves. Ask her to hang out and then stick your dick in her ass.
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437581 - 10/26/15 08:34 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you are an extremely busy dude you may not have time to bang that many chicks, but back then I had nothing to do other than manage some cottage/yurt rentals for my income, so I'd make on average 3 dates a week with women who I knew were interested because I knew the signs, and 95% of the time I'd end up banging them
The dudes who waste their time with chicks who have low interest and don't know how to gauge a womans interest to begin with are gona have a hard time
And yeah go for it. I suggest you read it at least 10 times or more. It's fantastic
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22437606 - 10/26/15 08:40 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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all you have to do where i live is grow your hair past your ears and wear skater clothes
I never see women afraid to talk to those girls
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
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RanOutOfWeed said: If you are an extremely busy dude you may not have time to bang that many chicks, but back then I had nothing to do other than manage some cottage/yurt rentals for my income, so I'd make on average 3 dates a week with women who I knew were interested because I knew the signs, and 95% of the time I'd end up banging them
The dudes who waste their time with chicks who have low interest and don't know how to gauge a womans interest to begin with are gona have a hard time
And yeah go for it. I suggest you read it at least 10 times or more. It's fantastic
Lol I know. Instead of doing 3 dates a week, I try and keep a consistent 3-4 approaches a week. I go to a small school so its hard. But I make it happen
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: topdog82]
#22437710 - 10/26/15 09:07 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I wouldn't say asking a girl over the phone is tacky... I've done it before
IT always feels really impersonal though... I hate texting even more though. Ideally in person is best but I know what you mean. Kinda hard when they are constantly with their friends. Like what are you gonna do, be a bold sunnabitch and ask her out in front of a few people?
Well.... you could...
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Re: Is it tacky to ask a girl out over the phone? [Re: Uzziel]
#22437760 - 10/26/15 09:15 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Uzziel said: I wouldn't say asking a girl over the phone is tacky... I've done it before
IT always feels really impersonal though... I hate texting even more though. Ideally in person is best but I know what you mean. Kinda hard when they are constantly with their friends. Like what are you gonna do, be a bold sunnabitch and ask her out in front of a few people?
Well.... you could...

I considered this but said "fuck it'. Too wierd
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