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MagicalOrangutan
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What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend?
#22425554 - 10/24/15 01:13 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've come to the conclusion that my girlfriend just doesn't see me sexually and more like a friend. She even gives me dirty looks when I say something that implies sex and we're in a room where that could be done. When we have sex, she can't seem to even let my cock inside her without a lot of effort to push it in
We hang out and really like each other socially and she's one of very very few people weird enough to enjoy my company lol
It's not that she isn't a sexual person, she has panties that say I ( picture of a heart) ( picture of a banana and We all know what that's meant to imply)
She says she's attracted and doesn't want anyone else sexually but I'm not too sure.
What should I do? She's the best friend I've ever had and probably the only real friend I've ever had. But she's increasing signs that she secretly wishes she could have it with someone she's attracted to
I don't even have the confidence to touch her sexually and non platonicly anymore
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22425556 - 10/24/15 01:14 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk about it.
Break it off.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: Shiithead]
#22425560 - 10/24/15 01:15 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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..thanks..I guess lol
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 2
#22425566 - 10/24/15 01:18 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What do you want bro??
Should have gave her a hot cosby.
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 3
#22425573 - 10/24/15 01:21 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Get hair implants, surely that will fix the problem. .
Seriously though, there's really no point to get involved in this thread and try to help you. Multiple pages and with every single last person agreeing, you'll still swear up and down that what we say is bullshit and you have it all figured out. You're so blinded by your own misconceptions you can't see or won't accept any advice that does not fit your opinions.
I don't get why you keep making threads on shit like this. The same thing happens every time. People actually invest in trying to help you, and you will argue with them til you're blue in the face trying to convince them THEY are the ones who are wrong.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: Shiithead]
#22425574 - 10/24/15 01:22 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I want an infinite supply of dmt if possible, bro
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22425586 - 10/24/15 01:27 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Honestly I do feel that I really don't have the experience in bed to know what I'm doing. Still wouldn't explain why she was the same way before ever having sex. I'm starting to think the fact that I have such low self esteem that I usually hunch over when I walk is critical..but she never said that.
Another more general point is that maybe people are right when they say it's all about physical attraction and nonverbal communication. I make her laugh every 5 seconds and it's real laughter because we both have the same fucktatded sense of humor..lol
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 2
#22425607 - 10/24/15 01:37 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Post nudes of her then we can give better advice.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: abltsandwich]
#22425628 - 10/24/15 01:51 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Naw
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22425685 - 10/24/15 02:44 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Talk to her about it and/or fuck her better.
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22426922 - 10/24/15 11:58 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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without really knowing your situation beyond a few sentences, I'd just suggest that you figure it out by talking to her directly about it. Maybe she just has a low sex drive and you're overthinking/reading too much into things, maybe she legitimately isn't attracted to you, maybe there's something else going on we couldn't know from the limited info in your op whatever the root of the problem, just talk about it man
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22426947 - 10/24/15 12:04 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Maybe you have forgotten how to turn her on or be romantic or something. What happens when you try to go down on her?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: WScott]
#22427173 - 10/24/15 12:54 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I would say try something new? Maybe your sex has lost its "spark"?
If not, then I would def talk to her
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: topdog82]
#22427175 - 10/24/15 12:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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dshsb
how has no one said this yet?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: luvdemboomers]
#22427207 - 10/24/15 01:06 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How often do you guys have sex MO?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22427217 - 10/24/15 01:10 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Is this the same girl that said "lets get this over with" the first time you had sex? Also, when you're going to an effort to push your penis into her, is she pushing back?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22427238 - 10/24/15 01:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Does she at least show a mild enthusiasm during copulation?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: abltsandwich]
#22427240 - 10/24/15 01:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
abltsandwich said: Post nudes of her then we can give better advice.
This is probably the only answer op.
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WScott
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22427248 - 10/24/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: Does she at least show a mild enthusiasm during copulation?
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Re: What would you do with a girlfriend that was really your close friend? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22427263 - 10/24/15 01:21 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
MagicalOrangutan said: I've come to the conclusion that my girlfriend just doesn't see me sexually and more like a friend. She even gives me dirty looks when I say something that implies sex and we're in a room where that could be done. When we have sex, she can't seem to even let my cock inside her without a lot of effort to push it in
We hang out and really like each other socially and she's one of very very few people weird enough to enjoy my company lol
It's not that she isn't a sexual person, she has panties that say I ( picture of a heart) ( picture of a banana and We all know what that's meant to imply)
She says she's attracted and doesn't want anyone else sexually but I'm not too sure.
What should I do? She's the best friend I've ever had and probably the only real friend I've ever had. But she's increasing signs that she secretly wishes she could have it with someone she's attracted to
I don't even have the confidence to touch her sexually and non platonicly anymore
Would she want you posting this information publicly?
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