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sudly
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How did it feel to be cheated on?
#22416559 - 10/22/15 02:58 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I found out a few days ago I had been cheated on for a second time after taking back my ex.
I've basically had a mental period for several days of unpredictable, uncontrollable physical and mental pains with numerous random out bursts of anger or fits of crying followed by temporary complete losses of all emotional sense and feeling.
It's as though someone is throwing eggs at my brain and I have no way of stopping it other than to scream which in the end only makes it worse.
The pain of broken trust may look like a stick of TNT to some but it feels like a nuke inside, shockwaves, radiation and all.
Sadly it's something only experience can show you.
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Update: I learnt last night I've unwittingly been in an open relationship for two years and have been living a lie the entire time.
She told everyone new she was single but even had sex with a close friend.
I denied my needs for 2 years and said no to every outside opportunity to satisfy them because I naively used a thing called trust.
Edited by sudly (10/25/15 01:50 AM)
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22416570 - 10/22/15 03:03 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Bummer man.
Best wishes.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: WhoManBeing]
#22416663 - 10/22/15 04:08 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've been there before, and it fucking sucks man.
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Sorry to hear that man. I know it sounds regurgitated but anyone who cheats on someone isn't deserving enough anyways.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Gorlax]
#22416735 - 10/22/15 04:43 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Fuck that bitch some people are selfish and have their own agenda and there's nothing you can do about it or even know until it's too late. It's not your fault and it's time to move on to the next thing. Good luck friend!
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Sorry to hear that OP. best advise I've heard regarding unfaithful women.
"Can't turn a hoe into a house wife"
You fucked up when you first took her back man. Important life lesson here. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on my gullible ass.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Mescalean]
#22416820 - 10/22/15 05:39 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hate to say it, but the poster above me is correct. You must keep your heart guarded, there are those individuals who will not take very good care of it.
Nonetheless, please do not resist the sorrow and sadness. It is a part of the grieving process and you will come out stronger after this.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: WhoManBeing]
#22416837 - 10/22/15 05:45 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've helped someone cheat and experienced similar shit.
I'm probably the last person you'd wanna hear from after hearing that, but it gets better.
All you can do is ask yourself what it is you're doing wrong. Like, why does this girl/guy cheat on you?? Is it...the sex? Your looks? Personality? Gotta narrow it down and fix it.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22416867 - 10/22/15 05:55 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I know the feeling.
Its likely one of the worst things to ever experience in life, second only to watching someone you know die in front of you.
Its like going thru the death of your love interest.
So horrible.
The only cure is time. Lots of time. And maybe a new, better woman to heal the anguish.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: shadyy] 6
#22416926 - 10/22/15 06:23 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i hate liz said: I've helped someone cheat and experienced similar shit.
I'm probably the last person you'd wanna hear from after hearing that, but it gets better.
All you can do is ask yourself what it is you're doing wrong. Like, why does this girl/guy cheat on you?? Is it...the sex? Your looks? Personality? Gotta narrow it down and fix it.
That's a dangerous path if you ask me. Maybe there's nothing at all wrong with op, and that girl is just a slut. There's a lot of sluts nowadays, not many understand how to devote themselves to another.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: goldcaphunter] 3
#22417164 - 10/22/15 08:12 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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goldcaphunter said:
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i hate liz said: I've helped someone cheat and experienced similar shit.
I'm probably the last person you'd wanna hear from after hearing that, but it gets better.
All you can do is ask yourself what it is you're doing wrong. Like, why does this girl/guy cheat on you?? Is it...the sex? Your looks? Personality? Gotta narrow it down and fix it.
That's a dangerous path if you ask me. Maybe there's nothing at all wrong with op, and that girl is just a slut. There's a lot of sluts nowadays, not many understand how to devote themselves to another.
Exactly. It's a very dangerous path to overthink the logic of a cheater. You'll end up beating yourself up. I was with an abusive girlfriend for 5 years and always thinking something was wrong with me. Dumped her when I caught her cheating and beat myself up over what was wrong with me. Now I'm going on 2 years with a girl who likes me for who I am. Don't take her back dude, there are better girls out there.
Edited by Zymosis (10/22/15 08:27 AM)
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Zymosis]
#22417183 - 10/22/15 08:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Damn man that's sucks....
I don't know what it feels to be cheated on big I know that feeling of morbid sadness you get after something shitty like that happens. I've never been cheated on but I have been rejected and felt betrayed before and let down many times by people I thought I loved and could count and depend on and that pain hits hard always
Se doing good vibes your way man
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: shadyy] 3
#22417514 - 10/22/15 10:13 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i hate liz said: All you can do is ask yourself what it is you're doing wrong. Like, why does this girl/guy cheat on you?? Is it...the sex? Your looks? Personality? Gotta narrow it down and fix it.
Even if someone is a total douche that doesn't mean the other person should be pussy enough to cheat on them. Cheating is on the cheater man
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Sheekle]
#22417601 - 10/22/15 10:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Let go man, that is literally the best thing you can do. Let it the fuck go and move on. go drink a fifth of whatever and go shoot inanimate shit to death with your gun(s), do whatever it is you need to do but just get to the point where you can just forget about it and make a new chapter in your life. Ill even quote one of my good friend "fuck em" (R.I.P. Jim)
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Sheekle]
#22417765 - 10/22/15 11:28 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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i hate liz said: All you can do is ask yourself what it is you're doing wrong. Like, why does this girl/guy cheat on you?? Is it...the sex? Your looks? Personality? Gotta narrow it down and fix it.
Even if someone is a total douche that doesn't mean the other person should be pussy enough to cheat on them. Cheating is on the cheater man
I agree I guess its much easier said than done and can be more complex than this, but if a person is going to cheat why doesn't that person just end it first. In the case of op the girl could have just said you know we've really tried and this just isn't working for me. It would still extremely painful but at least there is still a degree of respect left over. Learn from it but dont beat your self up trying to pinpoint what you think you may have done wrong. The girl did the wrong. I've never been cheated on, at least that I know of, but I would be devastated if it ever happened.
Edited by brokentv (10/22/15 11:30 AM)
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: brokentv]
#22418001 - 10/22/15 12:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was cheated on by a girl who I was madly in love with at the time
It was pretty shitty, I was literally depressed for months when I found out about it, long story short we broke up she moved far away and I got over it by taking a shitload of drugs and partying with crazy people
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: brokentv] 2
#22418016 - 10/22/15 12:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Because the relationship is like a security blanket. It's the lovie dovie kiss kiss that you can fall back on.
When you fancy someone beside your partner, even just flirting can have this kind of "so wrong but so right" feel to it.
You wanna explore your sexuality and chase the high, but you don't wanna lose a good thing either. You want the best of both worlds.
Or some people enjoy the steady "get it whenever you want" sex, while still reeling in any other bites.
Basically selfishness.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22418129 - 10/22/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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getting cheated on sucks man.
Let go of her toxic-ass and love yourself dude.
it gets better
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: shadyy]
#22418135 - 10/22/15 12:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: BoomerMan420]
#22418307 - 10/22/15 01:21 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Then there's the whole "I think I may be falling in love with B, but I don't wanna mess things up with A until I'm sure."
But again, selfishness.
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