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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: akira_akuma]
#22425315 - 10/23/15 11:33 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How exactly did the conversation go when she revealed what happened..?
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g00ru
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22425321 - 10/23/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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'Cheating' and that sort of thing just reaffirms my decision that I am a keep it real keep it 100 upfront kind of guy and idgaf if that is a problem because i know it will keep me from having problems ^_^
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: g00ru]
#22425336 - 10/23/15 11:42 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're a real nigga
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22425341 - 10/23/15 11:44 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
Malcolm_Xtasy said: You're a real nigga
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: g00ru]
#22425347 - 10/23/15 11:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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real talk
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: zZZz]
#22425465 - 10/24/15 12:36 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just never get close to a woman or she will take advantage of that like an evil cunt. Live by that and you'll never get hurt.
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Yeah because guys aren't just as bad
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: shadyy]
#22425494 - 10/24/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Never letting someone in isn't the answer.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Kalistis]
#22425521 - 10/24/15 12:57 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yes it is..you can't trust anyone.
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My heart truly aches for you that you've yet to have a healthy friendship or relationship. It took me many years to learn to trust people. I think my biggest mistake is that I spent so many years thinking just as you that I built a fortress around my heart and mind.
There is beauty in accepting and loving yourself. Shit. I'm starting to sound like a fucking hippy. But seriously, the last 3 years of my life have been the happiest, most stable years of my life and yet... The only thing I did was make a conscious effort to let people in.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Kalistis]
#22425557 - 10/24/15 01:15 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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They've certainly taken advantage you just stuck your head in the sand so you don't give a goddamn
Tomatoe motherfuckin tomahto
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I truly am sorry you feel that way. Let me know if you ever need someone to talk to.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Kalistis]
#22425570 - 10/24/15 01:20 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm truly sorry that b someday your bububble b will get bursted so hard, you turn into an axe b murderer. Frankly..I appreciate your empathy tho thank you
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MagicalOrangutan said: Just never get close to a woman or she will take advantage of that like an evil cunt. Live by that and you'll never get hurt.
Don't you have a girlfriend?
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22426307 - 10/24/15 09:09 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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She doesn't find him physically attractive he said. It sounds like a very healthy relationship from what I can tell
Every woman I have ever cared about and had a connection with has decided to sleep with another man.
The mother of my children and my fiancé doing it was pretty rough though
Pretty jaded nowadays.
It's karmas way of getting back at me for my dishonest ways many many years ago I suppose
I don't care how much this pisses off the women here:
In my personal experience this is fact....most women are always keeping their eyes open for something better. They can get laid at will and hold an incredible amount of sexual power with this concept. And strong moral fibre hardly exists in general nowadays. Relationships are disposable to many whether they want to admit that or not
I'm pretty sure I will not open my heart again. Apparently they want me to treat them like a little cum dumpster. I have no problem getting laid. I have no problem picking up women. But trying to build something special and meaningful with a woman of substance seems to be near impossible. And then, if I manage to find a women I can do this with and expose my underbelly....there is a HIGH probability she cheats on me
I'm starting to feel Humans weren't meant to be monogamous
And all this being said....there is obviously a common denominator here. It's me. I treat women good, the sex is really good, I make them laugh, I can take care of them financially and emotionally on any level....but there's obviously something that drives them into the arms of other men. This has been the hardest thing to come to terms with. Realizing I'm a loser 
I miss being 20 and not having a care in the world. At that time in my life, women were meaningless pursuits. I enjoyed them, they enjoyed me and I left many heartbroken no doubt. I was a player. An asshole
And it obviously served my heart well. I 180 to a faithful compassionate and caring person....and I get shit on non stop. Going on well over a decade on this trainwreck path. Funny how that works
I'm giving It one last shot. If it blows up in my face, I will officially give up and perhaps retreat to the old ways
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Masked]
#22426362 - 10/24/15 09:31 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Just return tob your old b ways dude it's probably better for your mental health
And malcome yeah man but I have never actually fallen in love. I would be one fake poser to describe my feelings as such. I'm finding that it's more like just romantically powerful passionate feelings. That's not the same..I don't think.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Masked]
#22426376 - 10/24/15 09:35 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Masked said:
In my personal experience this is fact....most women are always keeping their eyes open for something better. They can get laid at will and hold an incredible amount of sexual power with this concept. And strong moral fibre hardly exists in general nowadays. Relationships are disposable to many whether they want to admit that or not
I'm pretty sure I will not open my heart again. Apparently they want me to treat them like a little cum dumpster. I have no problem getting laid. I have no problem picking up women. But trying to build something special and meaningful with a woman of substance seems to be near impossible. And then, if I manage to find a women I can do this with and expose my underbelly....there is a HIGH probability she cheats on me
I'm starting to feel Humans weren't meant to be monogamous
And all this being said....there is obviously a common denominator here. It's me. I treat women good, the sex is really good, I make them laugh, I can take care of them financially and emotionally on any level....but there's obviously something that drives them into the arms of other men. This has been the hardest thing to come to terms with. Realizing I'm a loser 
I miss being 20 and not having a care in the world. At that time in my life, women were meaningless pursuits. I enjoyed them, they enjoyed me and I left many heartbroken no doubt. I was a player. An asshole
And it obviously served my heart well. I 180 to a faithful compassionate and caring person....and I get shit on non stop. Going on well over a decade on this trainwreck path. Funny how that works
I'm giving It one last shot. If it blows up in my face, I will officially give up and perhaps retreat to the old ways
Not all women will cheat. Love is out there, it's just that many times it is fleeting. People view love as this neverending eternal thing, but the truth is that love is transitory.
Does this mean you should give up on it? Fuck no, love is awesome. You get back on the horse and go for another ride.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: TheMovement]
#22426390 - 10/24/15 09:40 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I didn't say all. I said most
And that's from my personal life experience. So it is fact, in my world 
Yeah love is fleeting for sure
But when I have the unfortunate experience of being bucked off the horse again and again....all bruised and tattered because of it...it feels logical to eventually give up on the idea of riding horses
Like the true loser I must be would say "you can only fail so many times before you have to decide to throw in the towel"
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Masked]
#22426556 - 10/24/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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If you don't understand the rules of the game, you'll never win brother.
Women are not men, they do not think like us. They initiate maturation earlier and their brains stop developing at a younger age compared to us. In all thoughts and emotions, women are infantile, it is in their nature. You must treat them like premature adults, not like loyal men.
Women are for procreating, men are for loving.
Find love in your brothers, not in the lustful pursuits.
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: MoxyOx]
#22428069 - 10/24/15 04:27 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Update: I've unwittingly been in an open relationship for two years and have been living a lie the entire time.
She told everyone new she was single but even had sex with a close friend.
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Edited by sudly (10/24/15 04:33 PM)
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