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Beanhead
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Mescalean
Burke is love, burke is life.


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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22420272 - 10/22/15 08:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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sudly said: Sounds like you don't know what casual hookups are or just being honest about what you want.
It's classic stroking of the ego that some men do. The number of women they have gotten to cheat is a conquest. It's usually a form of overcompensation. I see this kind of behavior a lot in smaller guys. Could also be damaged from being cheated on so goes around spreading what he hates because he can no longer believe in true love.
My advise about helping someone cheat. Don't be a piece of shit. If you really had game you wouldn't pray on wounded couples with relationship issues (because how often do we hear those kinds of excuses from the cheaters) but instead be chasing women who were actually available and single.
That being said their is a second factor. When people get pissed off. Well not all but a special select group gets mad. Certain hormones blind them with rage. Usually the people who have an over abundance of said "rage hormones" (test, adrenaline). People get beaten to a pulp all the time over shit like this. In a "perfect" tree hugging pole smoking world like a lot of pacifists seem to strive for people wouldn't hit other people. But people would also take others feelings into consideration such as "i remember getting cheated on why would i put another human with emotions through such feelings of self doubt and loathing".
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Beanhead]
#22420280 - 10/22/15 08:57 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Hey I corrected my rating that I gave you Malcolm
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Sheekle
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MagicalOrangutan said: Hey I corrected my rating that I gave you Malcolm 
Malcolm gave you 0 shrooms
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zZZz
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: zzZZ is mentally disabled. You'll have to excuse some of his posts
this. pay no attention to me op.
but dont listen to malcolm_xtasy either, that dude is
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


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Malcolm corrected you, MO? with his BBC?
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Sheekle]
#22420362 - 10/22/15 09:13 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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MagicalOrangutan said: Hey I corrected my rating that I gave you Malcolm 
Malcolm gave you 0 shrooms
Why do you care sheekle?
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: zZZz]
#22420401 - 10/22/15 09:23 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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zZZz said:
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: zzZZ is mentally disabled. You'll have to excuse some of his posts
this. pay no attention to me op.
but dont listen to malcolm_xtasy either, that dude is 
I agree with this statement
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spirit_shadow
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22420680 - 10/22/15 10:22 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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hey op, trust me when I say I know exactly how you feel. My best advice I can give you is find your center. Then ask yourself "am I going to let a piece of garbage keep me from being happy and progressing my life?" You will find the answer. I know there is the attachment, but like I said, just let it go. Dont let her actions control how you feel. Change you're perspective, look at it from a different angle, no, look at it from every angle. good luck
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sudly
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We promised to talk to each other if we were ever interested in someone else and would end it with trust so we could move on and still stay friends afterwards.
E.g. She said she wanted me to physically and emotionally commit to her and I did. Had a dozen chances, never took one.
I've lost my best friend, my girlfriend, my trust and consequently my momentary sanity.
I know we all say that time heals but it takes a lot of time and it hasn't even been a week yet.
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sudly
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: zZZz]
#22420735 - 10/22/15 10:39 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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There's truth to every stereotype and my guess is that you struggle with empathy/sympathy/care.
Each to their own but I doubt you'd be the kind of person to trust in a relationship based on your comments. If it was sarcasm it was poorly emphasised.
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zZZz
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22421036 - 10/23/15 12:02 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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i meant nothing by it man, i kinda forgot what thread i was posting in when i first posted..
on a more serious note tho, do not resent ur emotions, let them come and go as they please..
do what u gotta do man
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: zZZz]
#22421286 - 10/23/15 02:23 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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How did she know of or find this guy?
Was she genuinely sexually satisfied with you?
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sudly
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Tinder, she said she was using it for friends and I trusted her because she'd met up with people before but apparently one guy was too hot for her and she bit down.
She never told me she wasn't but I don't doubt it seeing as what happened.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22421305 - 10/23/15 02:37 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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What the fuck did this guy look like and how old are the three of you? How'd you find out??
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MagicalOrangutan
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Shit. I just finished the 666th view on this thread. Not sure what to think of that
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ


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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22421338 - 10/23/15 03:15 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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sudly said: Tinder, she said she was using it for friends and I trusted her because she'd met up with people before but apparently one guy was too hot for her and she bit down.
dude...it's Tinder...you use Tinder to hook up...why would you think anything else was happening....
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MagicalOrangutan
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: akira_akuma] 1
#22421365 - 10/23/15 03:40 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ok..I'm gonna start using tinder just so I can lure cheating fucking cunts to my place and make sure they don't ever cheat again..ok I'm not really gonna be violent but shit like this makes it tempting
-------------------- On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky We all need more love, and mainly less hate Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye That makes the heart's eye cry Locked deep away in the skies of our minds It's all in the mind
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sudly
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: akira_akuma]
#22423204 - 10/23/15 02:12 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Because we talked about it and I was dumb enough to trust her. Found out because she had a cut on her leg from kicking her clothes basket afterwards and told me, a week later.
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akira_akuma
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Re: How did it feel to be cheated on? [Re: sudly]
#22423233 - 10/23/15 02:16 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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well, you're a good guy. sorry for your troubles. some people are just liars through and through.
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