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shadyy
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Were you a loser? Are you a loser now??
#22408437 - 10/20/15 09:34 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've noticed a trend where the high school "losers" and "cool people" swap roles after graduating.
I guess there's some variation, but a lot of the then cool people seem to be addicted to heroin or dead by now.
While the then losers have grown to be successful and relatable...smooth.
It's like when you see a picture of somebody from when they were a child. Ime, the ones that are now attractive were typically not looking so hot during their wonder years.
This is a little different than what I'm talking about above, but it's kind of interesting how the tables seem to turn.
The slow one now will later be fast.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy] 4
#22408511 - 10/20/15 09:49 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Used to be a major loser.
Now I'm a minor loser on the path of winning.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22408542 - 10/20/15 09:56 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Outcast by choice but not a loser. I dont like the mainstream. I get along with misfits better, im not overly social but ive never been disliked. In highschool I was always accepted by everyone in every circle, but maybe thats cuz i sold weed.. Still not a loser but I have also changed alot in the last decade.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Convikt Kelly]
#22408587 - 10/20/15 10:06 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm a total fucking loser, I feel like I'm not to blame but when your parents have money and you're white you might as well accept it because no one is going to feel bad for you I haven't felt like a winner since graduating high school just got lonelier and lonelier after that..
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Konyap] 1
#22408613 - 10/20/15 10:13 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm totally winning at life.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: sun_spots]
#22408670 - 10/20/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: sun_spots]
#22408675 - 10/20/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
sun_spots said:

its a true story too
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22408700 - 10/20/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Whats a loser?
Someone thats capable of thinking?
All that bugs me is that people buy into this pack mentality at all.
I left that behind at first school.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Sheekle]
#22408701 - 10/20/15 10:33 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I was never really a loser. I've always been well liked in most of my circles. I've hit a little bit of a rough patch but only cause all my friends are graduating/getting married/moving. Its different but ill get used to it
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Sheekle]
#22408817 - 10/20/15 11:05 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Real talk.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: nice1returns]
#22408827 - 10/20/15 11:08 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
nice1returns said: Whats a loser?
Someone thats capable of thinking?
All that bugs me is that people buy into this pack mentality at all.
I left that behind at first school.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Vsnares.Zappa]
#22408836 - 10/20/15 11:10 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm a winner because winners get to do what they want.
But no, I was homeschooled and have always been a complete loner because of it. Growing up my friends were mostly guys and a lot older than me. Even now mos if my good friends are guys.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22408883 - 10/20/15 11:22 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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For the sake of your question, yeah I was a "loser". I don't think loser's the best term for it though.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22408964 - 10/20/15 11:43 AM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I don't think I was a loser, but I certainly wasn't cool, either. Very shy and kept to myself. I'm less shy now and I've opened up some, but I'm still quiet.
I've grown a lot since graduating high school, and I'd say I'm a pretty different person (minus the quietness, heh), but I'm not "cool", whatever that means.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: nice1returns]
#22409043 - 10/20/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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loser would be someone who didn't have many friends or hung out with the nerdy people,etc
you know, your typical high school loser
Let's not try to get too deep here
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22409533 - 10/20/15 02:14 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You're right, I've got a bad case of loser denial.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: 1234go]
#22409578 - 10/20/15 02:27 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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You can be a loser in one scene, while at the same time being a winner in another.
In some lives these two can flip flop. They did in mine.
Sorry, too deep?
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Hanz]
#22409597 - 10/20/15 02:32 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've always been more I'm gonna smoke weed and watch TV by myself rather than go out with others all the time. Personal choice. In my perception people who know me enjoy hanging out with me.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22409795 - 10/20/15 03:25 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm like right in the middle, I'm a winser.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I was never really a loser. I've always been well liked in most of my circles. I've hit a little bit of a rough patch but only cause all my friends are graduating/getting married/moving. Its different but ill get used to it
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22409811 - 10/20/15 03:30 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I'm a massive loser these days lol. Mostly by choice but yeah. I used to be a mad cunt. I still am but I don't hang much anymore.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Soulidarity] 1
#22410620 - 10/20/15 06:35 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mostly i just give less shits as time goes on, i was never a real loser but never notably cool either justreally not prone toinvolving myself with anyone i dont find interesting
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Ezuma] 1
#22410660 - 10/20/15 06:45 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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im loser
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My group of friends were the most popular kids in our grade. Literally none of us are super successful now. Thanks to the wonders of Facebook I get to see how the other less cool kids are doing. Let's just say they're living a much cooler life now than most my old friends are. I'm doing better than most of the group I ran with and I'm not even doing that great considering I'm in my late twenties and still finishing college.
Basically, your premise is valid OP.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22410701 - 10/20/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Quote:
i hate liz said: I've noticed a trend where the high school "losers" and "cool people" swap roles after graduating.
I guess there's some variation, but a lot of the then cool people seem to be addicted to heroin or dead by now.
While the then losers have grown to be successful and relatable...smooth.
It's like when you see a picture of somebody from when they were a child. Ime, the ones that are now attractive were typically not looking so hot during their wonder years.
This is a little different than what I'm talking about above, but it's kind of interesting how the tables seem to turn.
The slow one now will later be fast.
loser is a subjective term anyways. another dividing term. say someone sees someone dressed in some clothes that are not so nice and they say oh look at that loser, he should get some better clothes, however to that man's family he is a hero and means the world. some people think they always have a right to judge others when they don't even know them, I see it with people getting annoyed with homeless even my own family members just saying they should get a job instead of having some empathy. some of them are addicted to drugs, or have mental illnesses, but that doesn't make any of them a loser. they have/had families, people who love(d) them. many of them have fallen on hard times in life, I don't judge anyone that I see because I know I don't know their story.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Forest23]
#22410712 - 10/20/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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OK??? I'm not trying to argue semantics! Just go by the traditional high school standards.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22410726 - 10/20/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've always been pretty loserish
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22410744 - 10/20/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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why should you let high school standards define who is a loser and who is not? I don't think any good person is a loser, but if you really want to go by such standards then the only people I think are losers are those who harm others and cause pain in this world. I sort of had the same perspective in high school, just not as developed, and I was always different from others, but not in a bad way. each individual is unique, and each person, in high school or not will have a different opinion about who is and is not a loser based on their definition of a loser.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Forest23]
#22410749 - 10/20/15 07:08 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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It's just for the sake of the conversation!!
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy] 3
#22410764 - 10/20/15 07:11 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Define conversation bro
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22410769 - 10/20/15 07:13 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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In high school I had a few friends but mostly kept to myself. I guess that could be classified as a "loser" since I wasnt in with the popular crowd
But now I am completely different and way more outgoing. I am better off than most of the people I graduated with who I have seen in the past few years. One of them delivered my dominos pizza a few weeks ago.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: shadyy]
#22410812 - 10/20/15 07:23 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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Labels like this are whack.
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: TheMovement]
#22411344 - 10/20/15 09:21 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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i'm 24 and look exactly like i did 10 years ago and am still just as much of a loser
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Re: Were you a loser? Are you a loser now?? [Re: Envix]
#22411629 - 10/20/15 10:40 PM (8 years, 3 months ago) |
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never had a lot of friends. most of my friends that i made recently can't put up with me for who i am and many have rejected me, i suspect a lot that still talk to me just kind of be nice just to be nice, not because they actually care. it's whatever, but nothing has really changed.
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